capt07
| Joined: 9/4/2007 Msg: 151 | |
| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 8:31:15 AM | | I have had so many women try and act smart because I belittle those who aren't. Then I catch them in their lies and dump them. I have been searching for a smart woman for years and have been fooled by some shysters and not by others. My dream woman can at least understand me when I talk. Or at least have a geek code. sigh | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 9:27:00 AM | | Personally, I would only be interested in dating someone I considered intelligent.. Most guys I know feel this way. | |
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| Joined: 9/4/2007 Msg: 154 | |
| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 11:17:20 AM | -----BEGIN GEEK CODE BLOCK----- Version: 3.1 GIT d++ s+: a C++ U- P+ L+ E--- W++ N+ o-- K- w++++$ O--- M-- V PS-- PE++ Y+ PGP t+ 5+ X- R+ tv+ b+ DI+ D++ G e++ h! r++ y++++ ------END GEEK CODE BLOCK------ | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 11:40:16 AM | | Smart women? Yes please! (I have one). The band once did a Halloween weekend at a country pub about an hour NE of Calgary that seemed to be populated by BIG women - tall, heavily built & muscular - er, strapping farm wenches. They would have had no problem dominating me physically and sexually, and a couple of them made it clear that that was very much an option. That I found a little initimidating - otherwise, not so much... | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 11:42:46 AM | | I do not think I'm very geeky. But who says you have to be a geek to be smart? I would rather have a well rounded conversation that one that is above either persons head. It should also be able to include a variety of experiences. If someone doesn't know about a topic, as least be smart enough to ask some questions and learn a little bit about it. (This goes for guys and girls) | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 12:58:02 PM | | I just tried to post but was informed that my posting was too short, so I'm just adding extra words to fill up the space. What I really wanted to say in one word is: DUH. | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 1:09:47 PM | Hi There, I have the opposite on these sites. Everyone wants to chat, email and/or meet up for coffee and outings. I am considered of half way decent intelligence. I do tend to chat a bit first to try and grasp an understanding of the others mindset. Then if they seem settled and geniune I'll call them. If they can without trying to make me want to laugh, think about them after I hang up or just say "yeah - why not" I'll meet with them. To the credit of most men I've met -- they understand: 1) I'm busy. 2) I have a child at home 24/7. 3) I only meet if I believe there is a possiblity for a longterm relationship and finally, 4) I do not allow men to interface with my child nor do I sneak men in after his bedtime. DENJ -- My profile is quite simple in nature ... the chat/email then phone to follow is where the next step occurs for me.
To most of the men that I've met through sites " Thank you OH Thank you for being the patient gentleman you have been. This does exclude a few of you but for the most part many many thanks  | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 2:36:49 PM | I am currently e-mailing and talking on the phone with two women, off of this site...
One of them is "very" intelligent the other one, not as bright..and I am letting go of the one that isn't as bright...I find intelligence in a woman, to be very, very sexy...
Any guy, who fears intelligence in a woman, is a wooosy man, who wants to control someone...This type of man, wants someone that is "weak" much like themselves...Just ask yourself, why would you "fear" someone, who has a strong, intelligent, mind, of their own???
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 3:14:25 PM | many "smart women" just THINK TOO MUCH at home.
What does it mean when a man says that a woman "thinks too much"? It was said to me anytime I called a man on his BS.  | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 3:32:18 PM | | I'm totally looking for a gal with a head on her shoulders. I'm not looking for a shallow, ditzy broad... I even thought of that enough to put it on my profile. | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/12/2008 5:08:40 PM | Of course men like smart women. I saw a pretty young woman with huge breasts wearing a tee shirt "If these were only brains." It's not you, it's the nature of the beast called internet dating sites. | |
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The dude that did this really needs to update his site. I mean, last update in 1996?
And again, to keep on topic, I am not intimidated by women that have a mind that they actually utilize. | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 2/24/2008 6:51:11 AM | | asking the wrong question. most guys dont mind a smart women, but some that dont mind them dont like professional women. Guys who want a stay at home wife that takes care of the home and kids are going to shy away from someone who works in the legal profession (presumably long hours). | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/9/2008 12:34:18 PM | | I would have to say that is one of my biggest turn-ons. Love it when a lady is educated and confident in herself...goodlooks are just a bonus after that. Don't get me wrong physical attraction is important, but give me a girl that can stimulate my brain anyday, over the dumb blond profile. | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/9/2008 12:40:34 PM |
I would have to say that is one of my biggest turn-ons. Love it when a lady is educated and confident in herself...goodlooks are just a bonus after that. Don't get me wrong physical attraction is important, but give me a girl that can stimulate my brain anyday, over the dumb blond profile.
couldn't have said it better myself | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/9/2008 12:58:14 PM | | Smart women are the best. Nothing less appealing than a woman who challenges you in no way whatsoever. What sane man would want to spend his life with a woman who offers him nothing to explore ? | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/13/2008 11:54:42 AM | Intelligence is a very attractive quality in women. In my experience most smart guys want a smart woman.
The guys to whom you are writing might assume that you will be too busy to give them enough time. They also might assume that you are bossy. I am a lawyer myself and have worked for big firns, so I am familiar with the stereotpyes of female attorneys. I'm not implying that such stereotypes are true for all female lawyers, but I definitely know some that fit the stereotype. | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/13/2008 6:14:51 PM | I personally love smart women, Intelligence is a real key factor and scores oogles of bonus points with me. Then again i'm an odd one, and a virgo , and if you didn't know it us virgo's have a thirst for knowledge  | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/13/2008 6:23:55 PM | I will vote yet again on this thread for both smart and professional women. I will vote as many times as it takes to make it clear how sexy and important those attributes are to me.
Taking a slight negative spin to this, my worst nightmare would be stuck with some dumb@ss who sits on the couch and watches Oprah all day just doesn't fly with me. She has to have her own mind, her own goals and ambitions and her own livelihood. If I die tomorrow I don't want someone who has no way to pick their life up and move on over time. That is the epitome of not attractive. | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/13/2008 6:46:14 PM | | I would love to spend life with a very intelligent woman. Maybe your problem is that men know that there is not any kidding around with you. You are the real-deal, and they are not ready. But, when you do find someone that is ready, and can appreciate you, it will be on. That way, the two of you can mutually perpetuate each other into forever land, which is really exactly what you are wanting. I have been around a few smart women in my time. They all left me wishing I was smarter, but hind sight is twenty twenty. | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/13/2008 7:46:39 PM | | I like smart women so much that I've actually said so in an interview for a college paper. | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/13/2008 8:00:51 PM | | Yes, I like smart women. I think it depends on the type you are attracted too. | |
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| Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/13/2008 8:02:42 PM | Good lord yes. I've gone on several first dates with what I'd consider to be unintelligent women but I haven't been on a whole lot of second dates with them | |
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