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 vro312

Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 76
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/14/2008 10:14:57 PM
^^^^^^^^^
Now isn't that just the sweetest thing I've heard all day.


Why haven't you added me to your favourites?


I actually haven't added anyone to my favorites . . . yet another way I maintain the cold persona.


Oh yeah... you're jealous of my brilliance and hide your affection with aggression.


I just showed this to my brother, and he said, "Wow . . . that guy knows you."

He's right. I am. And I do.
 GBPackerLady

Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 77
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/14/2008 10:37:48 PM
I am not going to read through all the posts, but great idea. Very interesting message as well. The days of the crush. Well, I think the crush still exists. It exists in the very beginning of getting to know someone online. You see the picture. You like the picture. You like what is said in their ad or profile. You being to talk and we allll show our best qualities when first getting to know someone. You like what you are getting to know, thus the feelings of a crush. Reality comes when meeting someone and finding out if there is still a connection or not. Either way, it's all fun though. :-) The new, exciting feelings are great!!! Enjoy it!

Paula
 blodoks

Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 78
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Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/15/2008 6:14:25 AM
I think most crushes suck for shy, introverted people. At least for me they do. Past crushes in which I could actually overcome my fear and act on them, have ended up with the crushee getting uncomfortable and avoiding me. lol
I have a painful crush on a woman at work, who was very talkative and paid a lot of attention to me in the beginnig is now spending all of her time with the funny,outgoing, class clown of the workplace, who I find myself hoping will have a crush himself with a trash compactor j/k

Maybe the best thing I like about crushes is the daydreaming of all the scenarios in which she will reciprocate said crush.
 acapellafella

Joined: 12/24/2007
Msg: 79
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/15/2008 6:22:19 AM

" Have you a crush on anyone? "


Sure do.... but then she went and put me on a "hit list".


 sean22sean

Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 80
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/15/2008 6:25:56 AM
yes there is one that i always liked but dont no where she is in the world
 MrSnapHappy

Joined: 12/19/2007
Msg: 81
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Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/15/2008 6:33:05 AM
I had a crush on a girl several weeks ago... but I snapped out of it and got a clue - I'm sad to say... oh well. There are other benefits to being grown-up.


Anyway, I just thinking out loud here, and thinking there should be more POF events where singles could actually gather by choice of venue. Some do not favor gathering at bars. If anyone online is from STL, MO. and would want to help me organize some alternative events, contact me.


ABSOLUTELY I agree... so what we gonna do about it...

There should be regional calendars where people "register their interest" in going out on any given night... then they can participate in a thread which discusses where they might want to meet and at what time.

I'm in favour of groups meeting up and then going to places like live bands or whatever... it's not actually a date as much as hanging out.

Guys can meet up and go hunting in packs ;)
Gals can meet up and giggle in gaggles.
or a combination of the two...
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 82
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/15/2008 7:59:10 AM

Sure do.... but then she went and put me on a "hit list".
Ya know...I kinda LIKE that idea...a LOT! Makes as much sense as a favorites list, if you're not going to carry out the deed, one way or th'other.
 Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 83
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Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/15/2008 9:41:05 AM
Not right now...Ask me again in about five years...
 vivica42

Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 84
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/18/2008 5:32:04 AM
Well, it's quite a coincidence that I posted something about this a few days ago... there has been a small attraction to someone I know @ work for awhile now. The man is married and definitely off limits. They have been married for 20+ years. For the past several weeks both of them have been acting very differently, something is going on in that relationship, don't know what, none of my business. (I don't see them that often, just once in awhile) Anyway, yesterday, the husband flirted with me in a major way. Previously, it has been just small flirtations, but yesterday it was pretty bold. The crush level went up to 90%. HOWEVER, it is going nowhere....he is married, end of story. Just a secret crush of mine.
 JulietJuliet

Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 85
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/18/2008 5:56:42 AM
Ok....I'll admit it, I had a crush on a POF guy about a year ago. When I first met him I couldn't believe such a creature existed. His body was beautiful, his lips were inviting and his touch would melt me. Just to see his name on my mobile send shivers of passion down my spine.....It took me ten years to feel like a melting candle. Unfortunately he extinguished the wick and reignited it with his ex.
As a teen it was David Cassidy I use to cry over!
 2BlovedeternalE

Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 86
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/18/2008 6:10:55 AM
*addendum* . .
Yep . . Official . . It's a *Crush* . .
This may be the Best V-day . . . . . E V E R . . !!!
. . . .
 TORRIC2007

Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 87
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/18/2008 6:15:00 AM
I HAVE had crushes on boys when I was younger...(many moons ago...lol) But now I don't crushs on any regular normal, everyday man... all my crushes are on celebrity guys....
Gerard Butler-Walking perfection!!!!

Mads Mikkelsen-Danish vanilla chocolate!!! Yummy!!!
Maurice Bernard!!!-Dark hair Brown eyes---So enlove with that man!!!

Tori
 kayliecat

Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 88
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Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/18/2008 6:33:00 AM
An innocent "from afar" crush is a lot of fun...just makes life interesting. The anticipation of seeing him, wondering if there will be any interaction...

Little crushes liven up my day.

When i was a teenager I used to look for someone to crush on everywhere I went. A crush in every class. A crush on a guy at church. etc. Kept me from getting bored to death. Gave me a focus for my fantasies.

Still works, I have to say!

Kaylie
 bugsi

Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 89
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/18/2008 6:43:17 AM
I always get crushes on boys, then I do dumb stuff like stutter or trip over. Its always the boys at the supermarket, they just look so cute in their uniform.
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 90
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/18/2008 6:46:49 AM
^^^^^ Just give me a heads-up if you begin hitting on my son...who is workin' his mojo on older women in the Orlando, Florida, area...at Publix
 BabyBoop71

Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 91
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Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/18/2008 2:20:39 PM
It still exists and I have a crush on someone right now.

I work on the same floor with someone that I have a crush on... and when I see him or we talk... I get so nervous and flushed. My heart starts racing and my normal way of being, which is soooo talkative... well that doesn't exist because I don't know what to talk about and I get all shy. And what I do talk about with him... when I think about it later... I think to myself, "man!!! that was random and didn't make sense!" hahaha!

It's weird because I'm normally confident and I'm not shy towards guys at all... regardless of their looks. Just certain guys make me feel like that. I'm thinking I get like that only with guys that I can take serious. Like I "would" allow myself to really like them and would definately consider them for a relationship.

It's a neat feeling to have again as a grown up. But trust me it doesn't feel any different then when I was in High School.
 Lahmia

Joined: 8/23/2006
Msg: 92
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Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/20/2008 6:59:28 PM
I've never had a crush on anyone and don't intend to start now.
 Tesserae

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 93
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/20/2008 7:07:38 PM
Yes, but he's far far away.
So it's dwindled to more of a wistful thing as I sit here wondering if he'll ever come back to Canada.

**sigh**
 cheerupemokidx

Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 94
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/20/2008 10:16:09 PM
Yeah, here's to hoping things work out in my favor for once!
 vro312

Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 95
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/20/2008 10:18:54 PM
An update on my crush status: one neighbor, one wilderness group leader, no forumites.

What a relief.
 WearRed

Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 96
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/20/2008 11:15:15 PM
Absolutely! A huge crush...
He is very far away, but I'll fix that very soon AMORCITO
The best part... it's a mutual crush
 maxkix

Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 97
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Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/30/2008 10:41:08 AM
No soy ningun experto,no hay dos iguales...en todo caso intentalo, intentare' hacer todo lo posible...enamorarse! YES YES YES Amorcita
 MeiRen

Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 98
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Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/30/2008 11:56:33 AM
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tecoinmaine,
Sound like you'd meet your soulmate.... Hadn't you?

Actually, I don't know if this is considered a crush that I've with another POFer. We talked and emailed -- but haven't met in person yet -- since first week of Oct 2007. For the first 8 weeks -- we had NIGHTly hourly talk on the phone before bedtime interspere with short phone talk when he take a break running errand -- away from his tight business chores/conferencing. We both acknowledge love for each other verbally and in emails ... But we still haven't met in person. So is this a crush?
 EastCoastLipps

Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 99
Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 1/31/2008 9:25:26 PM
I haven't felt that feeling you get when you have a crush on someone until just recently. I think the last time I had one was in school. It can be an awesome feeling and yet gut sinking at the same time. Hence the word "crush". You fall hard, and then you can be crushed by your crush. Which is what usually happened in my case. lol

I would love to know what it feels like to have a crush on someone that has a crush on me. That butterfly feeling you get in the pit of you stomach, the sound of their voice, the excitement of knowing you will see them, and the thoughts of things you want to do with them. OOPS, sorry, too much info. I think a crush is what leads to hopefully a mutual attraction and then forms into love.

So yes, I have a crush at the present time. Who is he? HAHA, that's part of the fun, not telling. But.... I will say, he is a beautiful man with a wonderful soul and I get chills down my spine at just the tought of him. Now, do I think he will ever be mine, seriously doubtful. True meaning of crush.
 Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 100
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Posted: 1/31/2008 9:48:17 PM

i TOTALLY have a crush on a guy at work. i get excited when i know he is going to be there and every second i am around him i feel like i am on cloud 9. i havent met anyone in years that has made me feel this way. the butterflies... the giggles.. the smiles. just seeing him for a few hours puts me in a good mood for days =)


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I'm like that with a girl that I like that goes to the same church as me. I only get to see her every odd saturday when I'm not working. I act all defensive as a front at first then when she's gone, it's like she's got the best of me
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