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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/17/2008 3:35:55 PM | | well as grown up and sophisticated as i appear to be (yeah right) indeed i do have a major total bigg badd crush.......she is the sexiest woman in the most understated kind of way....even at 39 yrs old with a platinum die job....you know what i mean guys ....she has that perfect lil face.....and that perfect lil bod.......im proud that she lets me flirt with her.....wow too cute.... | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/17/2008 3:40:36 PM | I get them monthly, weekly even daily sometimes. A hopeless romantic I guess. Is it her smile, perhaps her eyes, the way her hair frames her face, maybe the shape of her eyes, her bone structure, tall, short, thin, a few extra pounds of huggin? Perhaps it's the way she wears her clothes, or the colors she chooses, definitely high heels ( hmm, that one could be lust). It's the way she walks, the sound of her voice (high toned or maybe deeper), there are so many qualities.
Then there's the emotions I feel, overwhelmed, light headed, moved, compelled, day dreaming, night dreaming (lust again? rats!), fantasizing. Eager to see her again, or get an email, or hear her voice or see her smile my way innocently (becuz she doesn't know I have that crush). If she talks with me I'm a-swooned and if she's a touchy while talking person... there goes my heart.
But it's called a "crush" for a reason isn't it? Usually it's an unreal situation, one sided, and when exposed to real time it doesn't hold up. That's a lie... I've taken the initiative (read compelled beyond reason) and many times it's met with positive reception, and then it turns into fun and laughter, and then we grow closer emotionally and then we really open up and the freedom as adults to pursue our feelings goes into full blossom (no pun intended) and for a moment in time that dream, that fantasy becomes reality and oh my gawd!!! Of course even then, most crushes come to a crushing end but with the maturity a friendship of sorts remains and I go off with my memories and before I know it... BUMP! I've come across another crush. And I ain't talking sodas here folks... heheheh!
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/17/2008 7:06:04 PM | Oh I have a crush on someone right now........I tingle and am just all heart a flutter when I know I am going to see him!!   | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/19/2008 8:12:26 AM | | OMG, I used to have crush on Al Gore ( years ago ). I love the the tall, dark and handsome type. Unfortunately, Al went from foxy to foxy roadkill. | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/19/2008 4:33:30 PM | Yes, except she lives in Florida, used to live here before I met her on-line after she moved and "is head over heals" about this guy she moved down there to be 'close to.'
She said if that wasn't the case she would like to meet me, she said it to me first. I just e-mailed her that I've felt that way about her from the first time I saw her on-line.
Meanwhile, she's down there (he's 3 hours away) and I'm meeting someone this weekend that I met on-line a few weeks ago. We talk everynight but the "spark" isn't there. Maybe it will come when we actually meet.
To me "crush" is how you feel about only a handful of people you come across in your life that you're really, really, really attracted to and you just know that they are the person you're supposed to be with. Maybe my definition isn't like everyone else's and it's prob just what I'm going through at the moment.
So yea, I have a crush on someone. | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/19/2008 6:10:24 PM | I have several, actually. I have a real life crush on a woman who is vivacious&truly a nice person, very beautiful, on the inside and out, & also very married. So THAT goes... I have a couple fantasy life crushes on TV stars : Poppy Montgomery from Without A Trace, & Angie Harmon, who I mainly know from her years on Law&Order. She's currently on a cop show, but I haven't seen it. Both of them are a lot younger than me, & neither are the type I'm attracted to in real life, so go figure. I also have a crush on Meridith Viera, of the Today show, & she's only a couple years younger than me, & she is my type. &, I guess I have a fairly new crush on someone from this site, but she's a long way away & again-so THAT goes......
SSH-don't tell anyone...... | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/19/2008 6:59:45 PM | I soooo do!
He is a good friend of mine and is sexy as hell! When I know that I am going to see him I get more dressed up/fixed up than usual when we are gonna be going out! I just get "dumb" when he is around! We have had the talk and he isn't in to me physically (story of my freakin' life) but we still do all kinds of stuff together (like hang out). I can't help it. He is a great guy and I have never ever kissed him and I practically foam at the mouth!
He says that things just aren't as much fun when I'm not around and that he misses me when he doesn't get to see me...I think that makes it worse! This "crush" is "crushing" my ability to think clearly! | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/19/2008 8:02:47 PM | (It's not called a "crush" for nothing. I have to walk around for days and weeks feeling crushed when I know I feel too much for someone.)
I agree, I have had a crush for a guy for the past five months. And crushed is what I am feeling...However I also have felt another type of excitment for another guy I met on here..in "first love" type of nervous stomach tingles and wanting to look just right everytime I see him..and he leaves me notes and messages and it is deeper and more meaningful after knowing what we know now in our older years. It does happen...he almost gave up after two years looking and was ready to sign off when I dropped him a line in the pond and hooked him... Don't give up... | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/21/2008 9:03:20 PM | God damn it, I have a crush on someone as we speak.... well, lol that was more like a 2 week ago thing... im slowly getting over him now... haha... the feeling is mutual, i like the rush when I hear, talk, and see him... but when theres no communication, than simply but sad, i try to forget the fact that i even met his ass... lol....
but what if its me? I hide my feelings damn good... (i got it like that!), not even god himself can tell if im fallen head over heels for someone.... i do this because when u reveal yourself and your true feelings, some either run off, treat you like shit because they know your sprung over them, or slowing push you away... THEY TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT!!!
I be damned if a guy would try to play me... I see women all the time chasing these guys around, Im too classy for that (SORRY)!
I feel as if he doesnt feel for me, as i do for him... Again that could be because he doesnt know how i feel... im cool to hang out with, real funny, and down to earth but i put on an act of being not interested...
I just dont want to get my heart broken.... Growing up I seen how relationships crushed my mothers heart, and now for the past 8 years shes been single. She always said "I can do bad all by myself!" and honestly i respect that...
but in life, im not settling for less, regardless if im single or not, i have a good head on my shoulders and i can accomplish any thing i put my mind to... yea, im what you call your modern day INDEPENDENT WOMAN! So I'll make out just fine!
But this guy is giving me mixed emotions... OH MY GOD!!! IT HURTS SO GOOD!!! lol no it seriously does!!! That Basturd! | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/29/2008 1:44:12 PM | | After spending some time with a female friend yesterday, I've thought more about this subject&am going to update my earlier post. For me, personally, a "crush" is something unattainable, something that almost certainly aint gonna happen. The celebrity ones are certainly unattainable fantasies (I'd add Mary Louise Parker to my list of celebrity crushes-I've had a thing for her for a long time. Oh-& Maryanne. Ginger? gimme a break-I'm a Maryanne guy). But I mentioned a very married friend of mine in my previous post, then last night I spent some time with someone & I realized that I have several of those type of crushes. I know 3 women, all very married, beautiful in completely different ways, vivacious&genuinely nice. The kind of people who virtually everyone likes, you know what I mean? They're very dedicated to their families, super supportive of their partners&their kids, yet healthy&smart enough to take care of themselves too. I'd say I have a "crush" on all of them. Its not a crush in the sense that I think about them in a romantic way, or fantasize about them(well, never say never....). But, they have so many qualities which are attractive to me, especially the ones above, & I guess, in a nutshell, they' re the kind of woman I could love&the kind of woman with whom I wish I'd ended up. Instead, I'm fishin in this pond. & one final thought : each one of them would get it, & not be threatened or uncomfortable if I told them what I've just told you, kind strangers....... | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/29/2008 2:06:50 PM | If a crush is an attraction that can never be consummated,
then I have a crush on a woman I met at my local watering hole.
My age, very pretty, intelligent, informed, clever, open.
After meeting and talking for 1/2 hour or so, some youngish men, mid 20s or so came up and started to schmooze her. She was pleasant and playful about it, but when they started to push her envelope, she suggested calling her youngest daughter, who was only a couple of years OLDER than them.
We talked a bit more and I asked about her availability. She explained that the man she loved was elsewhere in the bar.
OK.
Turns out the man was an acquaintance of mine. I knew he was married.
Just not to her.
And she was married too.
I thoroughly enjoy the time I spend talking to her, but I'd never go down any path with her. | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/29/2008 2:18:45 PM | I had an all-consuming crush for over two years on someone I worked with who also came to be a very good friend
actually, I was his boss, and he was "taken" anyway;
I was married at the time, but the marriage ended for completely unrelated reasons
I would say that I was pretty obsessed with this person, and though we were close friends, I never let on to him what I really felt. To this day, I truly believe he has no idea.
I left the job for unrelated reasons, and NOT seeing him every day was devastating to me for a long time; ultimately, though, it allowed me to move on. I do miss him, but I know its best for my sanity that circumstances distanced us.....it truly made me crazy at times.....so maybe it was beyond crush.
Enjoyed living in it initially.....seeing him gave me something to look forward to, etc, etc. Over time, when it got really intense, it was too painful to be fun. I was convinced for awhile that I was in love with him, but I know now in hindsight that it was not quite love.
Thanks for letting me get this off my chest! Nice thread! | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/29/2008 2:35:47 PM | oh i have a crush. its really ridiculous.. he is my dads age, was once my landlord. he used to pop around to collect rent, and once i had just got out the shower, he knocked on my door, and before i could answer he walked in, there i was, in just my towel.. he looked at me, then at the floor.. there it was.. my vibrator.. lying there, by my feet.
how humiliating. he is no longer my landlord but i see him around.. there is something about him.. his beer belly maybe? his grey hair? lol god knows.. silly crush but hey... its harmless! | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 2/29/2008 8:00:49 PM |
I think the thing about crushes is the other person doesn't know about it. Or they do and don't return the same feeling.
I don't think crushes have to be secret. Sometimes, it's a mutual thing ... a flirtation ... an infatuation between two people.
It can develop into more ... but most times ... it passes. It's like a chemical that slowly vanishes into the air. It's there ... for a while ... and then it's gone. I've had that "chemical reaction" and it feels great!!!! It makes you believe in attraction and "love" again! (Not that we don't believe in love ... just that sometimes it's so elusive). | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 3/1/2008 1:11:58 PM | | ya i remember those days...its kinda amazing how after so many relationships/dates you've had how much you mature when it comes to crushes...i find after a surtan age or so much experience in that end its practically impossible to just to have a crush cause of all the previous BS you dealed with...it causes you to ask questions about them and what more than likely will happen if you came forward with you crush towards them...so at the same time it sucks but also helps you make the right decision on what to do in a way.. | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 3/2/2008 4:01:26 PM | | Everyday I have several crushes on everyday people and people I see on the screen..... The only person I know that ever had a crush on me was a gay guy. | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 12/13/2008 9:09:49 AM | What a fun thread!
I do indeedy have a crush on someone right now. No possibilities, of course, but I enjoy having crushes. They can be great motivators to look good when you are out and about, make you feel more alive and engaged with the world, etc. So, that's how I try to "use" the feelings inspired by crushes! Hey, maybe one of these days those feelings will be mutually returned... | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 12/13/2008 10:31:48 AM | ^ Haha that's too funny! Same here....I just love that woman (and neither do I swing that way)
Besides my crush on Angelina, I'm afraid I haven't had a crush on anyone for a very long time...:(unfortunately:(
JMO | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 12/13/2008 11:47:33 AM | yes... and i'm about to tell her next week at my Christmas party.
And i have a crush on Naomi Klien and i've told her! | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 12/13/2008 12:03:34 PM | Yep, I have weekly crushes. It is a well known fact with my friends and family, and we all get a giggle out of it.
Usually it involves one of my professors at college. Yes, some of these crushes have been on women... not in sexual terms, but the ohhhh they are so intelligent kinda thing.
It only lasts a week and then I am off and crushin' again on some poor unsuspecting person whom I never, ever tell.  | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 12/13/2008 8:36:56 PM |
Are you sure you want a crush? It seems to involve feeling crushed, used, and welcome doormat at best. You probably learned to avoid it like the plague. The pain tells me something, too. Now I remember why I don't do this, ouch, ow, agony, hell, pain, loss, and grief sucks then and now.
This seems to be the norm for me. The thing is, I know it isn't supposed to be this way. I think the reason we feel this way, is we have too many expectations too soon, think we can make it work just because of the way this person is making us feel right now, and later find out that they don't share our idea of the perfect relationship. Also, everyone is an individual and deserves to be given the same chance as if they're the first person we've ever met. I know this sounds way to naive and ideological in today's world, but if you look at meeting someone like this, I think you'll find it easier to just deal with them as a person, rather than seeing them as something too good to be true. | |
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| Have you a crush on anyone?
Posted: 5/9/2009 1:35:18 PM | I enjoyed this thread. I have a crush on my best friend's cousin. We do things together as friends while I keep thinking what it would be like to kiss thoses lips. He has all the traits that I look for in a man. We can talk for hours and have all the same likes-outlooks on life, and interests but he is looking for a different type of woman--little bitty petite blonde--I could bleach the hair but it wouldn't change anything else I would rather have him in my life as a friend as not at all. | |
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