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Posted: 2/21/2008 1:17:37 PM | | I remember one time laying there praying it was over. So boring so nothing to make me excited. Needless to say that was the first and last time we ever saw each other. I broke up ..just lost the connection & attraction. | |
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Posted: 2/21/2008 1:51:58 PM | well i think anyone who is grown and has experienced passion knows thier dont even have to be penatration, you can be verbal,and get the job done,oral, there is so much more to offer than to see how many positions a person can be put in,honestly the typical man last after 4play tops 45 min.. guys need to realize,,its not tv,,the lights are not on anyone,enjoy,relax,and get the job done.
Sex can be so much more than keeping track of how many positions i can be flipped into,I would rather see my man and hear my man than do arobics.lol | |
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Posted: 2/21/2008 2:02:33 PM | I don't think anyone is actually reading the OP's question as they enter now, as they keep answering a somewhat unrelated question over and over! She's asking if people would be able to enjoy sex with a person, such as herself, who through some physical or neurological limitations cannot move freely in bed as well as others. She's not saying she just lies there totally still either. But it's getting off track and people are answering all sorts of variants of the discussion without actually touching on those parts of the discussion! LOL
For the record I like to cycle through a lot of positions in a session. I could not do one position for an hour. I'd be bored limp likely. But if I liked the girl and I knew she had some ailment, like Fibromyalgia, MS, or CP, or even a paraplegic I'd have no problems doing all the work as long as she still participated verbally and emotionally. And she's got hands so let 'em roam!
OP you are a beautiful girl and I doubt many men would complain too much if you told them you couldn't have trapeze sex with them. They'd find a way to cope. | |
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Posted: 2/21/2008 2:34:29 PM | I suffer from Fibromyalgia and there are times where it is very painful to move in some of those gymnastic positions...so could one enjoy sex without all the Olympics?
Don't know about your man, but if you did normal sex I would think it was great. I would be more concerned about being together than worrying about the different positions. The majority of the women I have been with only want it missionary, on top, or doggie, and the heck with Kama Sultra Book. I showed that to one of my wives, and she told me not in her life time. (I was lucky I got it once a month with her- that is is a reason why I divorced her.)
So you know I had a wife that had Fibromyalgia and she has gotten relief from doing something called "Juice Plus". You might try it. She started seeing results after two weeks taking the pills. Good Luck! | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 11:42:10 AM | | remember there could be a few diferent reasons too if she is just laying there because she has to to get it over with i wouldn't bother but if she isn't moving because she is so wound up that she can't well thats different lol no starfish girls for me pls "NEXT" | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 4:09:55 PM | of course you and your partner can still enjoy it... some positions that some men enjoy oh so much (IE. doggystyle) Require very limited flexibility!
Just ensure your partner realizes this and they should have no problem with it | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 4:26:19 PM | verygreeneyez so totally agree that yoga is fabulous! I may not be a strong and an athletic woman, but my cholesterol and other blood type tests etc. come back great. My bmi is where it should be at and I know I can do some things that someone less flexible can't do.
The Kama Sutra of Vatsayana contains things in there that require multiple people. It is more of a guide book for those wanting to explore. (Yeah, really part of a religion, but don't feel like getting into all that.) You always have limitations even if you are wild enough to be with multi people. It is something that can open your mind and if you are in a relationship for any period of time, sometimes it can be fun to try something a little different to at least get a laugh at what you can't do.
I actually was with a man once that told me to hold still. That was weird, but it was fine. My guess is his ex-wife did not ever do anything except to ask him to pull the nightgown down.
Sometimes pain can be relieved by having sex, other times just a pain. Ok, maybe relieved isn't the word, takes your mind off of it. I think if you are with someone that cares, they will care about you and make sure that things are done so that you both have a great experience. Love making doesn't have to always be wild. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 4:33:17 PM | NO>>>THE ANSWER TO THE OP IS NOOOOOO!!!!
I have experienced women like this.
Trust me...it is NOT .....me...it is ALLLLL them!!!!
The last one I was with was so absolutely unexpressionless in bed that I started to wonder......"am I even doing anything here????".
So I asked her about it.
I couldn't get this girl to do anything.....she wouldn't pant....she wouldn't sigh...she wouldn't do one f**king thing that even let me know I was even registering as someone who was f**ing her!!!!The only thing I physically saw....was that her tits were boucing up and down from me going to town on her and she had this look on her face like she was working on her thesis!!!!
It was exasperating to say the least....so I asked....
The best she could come up with was that she was "screaming in her head".......people that scream in their head are just waiting for a position at the post office so they can dig out the AK-47 she got for xmas three years ago and use it!!!!! LOL
No....I would not stay with a woman like this because I know that what I do deserves some attention.
I could in no way shape or form spend the rest of my life with someone who was THAT emotionless.
No way...no how....nothin' doin'!!!!
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Posted: 2/25/2008 5:34:34 PM | | As far as I'm concerned, it's not a dead f*** if you show your passion, you enthusiasm, and let him know your enjoying it. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 1:44:23 AM | | "still participated verbally and emotionally" that should be without saying...NO? Emotionally...that's everything! | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 6:34:23 AM | | If the man really loves you then he will be understanding of your conditi0n. After all sex isn't just about getting your rocks off but it's the coming together of two people in love that want to be close and express those feelings. You are a beautiful woman and shouldn't have anything to worry about. If the man has a problem with your condition then he probably isn't the right man for you and not worth your time. Good luck to you girl. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 6:48:42 AM | | depends on the person...some people have "sleep" fetishes (you pretend like you're sleeping, so you don't move) To answer your question, yes, it is possible for someone to like motionlessness. Some people may not like it at all regardless of how much they love you. Accepting something doesn't mean you'll always like it or enjoy it. If they even accept it. If it's only the Olympic positions you're worried about you shouldn't have a problem. All men don't fantasize that they are porn stars. Wait...some men don't fantasize that they are porn stars. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 10:41:10 AM | | I hate when girls just lay there. Its just so boring. If a girl is not whilling to put some effort in to making it enjoyable I will just blow as fast as I can, and if she gets mad and wants me to last longer she will have to do more than just lay there. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2008 9:50:02 PM | | might just be me but my x who 'm i'm still really good friends with was pretty "relaxed" when we did it. not that she was a dead F*&^ just she didn't scream or go crazy and that was some of the best sex i ever had, i think cause i really liked the feeling of being with her. not always just about the friction | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 10:30:24 AM | Umm...I am NOT "grateful" to be getting laid... as if I was some chld beng rewarded for good behavior. A "dead ****" is someone that is laying there like they are doing you a favor to let you use there body. Someone that is not physicall or emtionaly involved. I don't expect gymnastics (it's nice, it's a turn on, but not a requriement.)
If your lying there like you don't eant to be there, do not care if your partner is getting off, or like your doing me a "favor' for which I shold be "grateful", I am going to run in the other direction. I rather jerk off. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 11:27:01 AM | | ^^^Spoken like a champ Tyspeaks. I share your sentiment. Fcuk the dead fcuk. My friend says the cure to a dead fcuk is ask her if you can stick it in her a$$. Well, he used to say just stick in there, but I've since convinced him how offensive that is! LOL | |
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| Dead F*ck? Excuse my french.
Posted: 3/12/2008 11:59:48 AM | Oddly enough, the only dead lay I ever had was the best sex I ever had. I think being in love has something to do with it.
Interestingly enough, it does lend a point in the group who believes it's possible to always be satisfied in bed by the same person, if you are in love it doesn't matter what happens. So long as it's enjoyable for both. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 12:09:19 PM | | i've had a few dead ****s in my time, if you don't like to move or know how to move i just hump her til i cum. some women not that talented | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 12:43:11 PM | Cyn, from your description you have nothing to worry about.
As even most of the dead fuck abhorrent have confirmed they don't want to feel like they're doing you a favour or like you're not there. You stated that you are not emotionless and you respond to the person you are having sex with. If you can touch with your hands and speak that's better than a lot of girls. In fact, speaking is often the best part.
Sometimes I just like to lean in and say, "don't move, just feel me inside you." And then I might encourage her to describe it with the occasional... hmmm (that's enough info for you all). In short, to me, and I think most guys, being motionless wouldn't be a big deal at all. It's being absent, silent, or appearing to be uninvolved in the event that really describes a dead fuck.
I mean, seriously, some of the best positions you've got the girl pinned so she can't move much at all anyway. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 2:14:42 PM | dontmakecookies Wow!
Ya sure you don't need some cookies? I take requests...
I seriously think that it is great that some people really are in tune with their bodies and care like you do! | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 7:51:22 AM | | honey amen to you -----I have fibromyalgia myself----and have hormones raging--and yes you can enjoy yourself if person is able to understand the situation, for me depending on days and when i do go out ---I get into it with my mind then my body warms, and endorphins set in and i am able to move---and enjoy---then days i lay in bed and cant hardly move---but lady dont you worry there is men out there that understand like this one here, and it is worth the look, the others will one day have their day, and then will be sorry for making you feel bad. Hang in do what your body allows--i understand---try different things---see what works for you---and find a man who understands---i feel for you---good luck and hope your having a good day for us---me | |
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