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 NERO1

Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 76
Dead F*ck? Excuse my french.
Posted: 4/22/2008 7:47:52 PM
Sometimes face-to-face and just......calm and quiet and warm is much much better than some kind of BS porn-style stuntf_ck really. In fact those do come across to me sometimes as a bit too staged or even kind of fake-seeming, in their way. I think you could have a fabulous time just chilling and laying there going at it slow, definitely.
 Sabrosura

Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 77
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Posted: 4/22/2008 7:58:30 PM
I don't think a "motionless" intimate act is possible. How could one refrain from any motion (just laying there ) if your partner is caressing, touching, playing and doing all those wonderful things we all LOVE??

I would have to say no. Sorry to hear about your Fibromyalgia. I hear it is very painful!

Best,

 Landscaper

Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 78
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Posted: 4/22/2008 10:03:53 PM
given the fact you have limitations doesnt mean you cant enjoy the act, or make you a dead%^&* many with limitations enjoy very fullfilling sex lives, if your partenr doesnt or considers you a dead %^&* then find another partner , one that appreciates you and your abilitities,,
 dportrait

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 79
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Posted: 4/22/2008 11:29:01 PM
I think the right partner will understand that you have days when you are more mobile and times when you are less active, and it shouldn't stop you both enjoying sex.

This type of issue faces all couples, libido and abilities are never a perfect match. Provided there is some give and take you will be fine... you don't need Olympics all the time ;)
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 10/6/2008 12:22:55 PM

I don't think a "motionless" intimate act is possible


I pretty much agree. I'm one of those interactive games, and if you don't move, to show me I'm moving you, I will probably not be much fun for you.
 windloverr

Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 81
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Posted: 10/6/2008 12:48:12 PM

I don't think a "motionless" intimate act is possible

I pretty much agree. I'm one of those interactive games, and if you don't move, to show me I'm moving you, I will probably not be much fun for you.
You went back 6 months to revive a thread in order to say you are a bad f/ck; and attempt to make someone suffering from a debilitating disease feel bad. That is truly pathetic. My bet is that when your lovers are naming their three best sexual partners; your name doesn't make the list.
 girlwillbegirl

Joined: 4/25/2007
Msg: 82
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Posted: 10/6/2008 6:47:01 PM
A "dead f*ck" begins in the mind.
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 10/6/2008 7:38:16 PM
Well I had one of those dead ducks a while back and I realised that the ceiling needed painting....................LOL
 TheDirtyBen

Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 84
Dead F*ck? Excuse my french.
Posted: 10/6/2008 7:48:26 PM
OP: A dead F*ck, is one where she doesn't do ANYTHING!

If ya lay there like a piece of meat and e-motionless, it's a total turn-off for me.

I'd rather learn to crochet.

However, you don't have to do that Olympic, hanging from the ceiling, monkey sex...for it to be good.

There are positions, where little effort is required on your part, but makes sex a lot better.
 Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:39:05 PM

However, you don't have to do that Olympic, hanging from the ceiling, monkey sex...for it to be good.


Those are good days...

I know you can make a lady scream with just a gentle caress...without even having intercourse/sex. So it seems there are all kinds of ways to be intimate...I think we all have been there when it's nice to lay there (such as one when receiving oral sex) and have your partner pamper you...I never once said...show no emotion I only wondered if one could relate to the not hanging from the ceiling every time...


There are positions, where little effort is required on your part, but makes sex a lot better.


This is so true!

Thanks for all your input...
 Darkangel25

Joined: 2/2/2007
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:50:52 PM
the best way to make sure your not in that section of a guy going to his friends and saying that is to show your enjoying it and just change postions,,you dont have to be doing the splitz..lol,,get on top,, doggy,, standing up,,touching and noise help as well
 Mavro

Joined: 10/14/2006
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Posted: 11/20/2008 2:01:19 AM
Making love is a dance. You can dance fast or you can dance slow. If you don't move you are not dancing (unless its one of those weird kind of kinetic sculpture dances). If you are not dancing you are not making love. It is something else, maybe like an animal rubbing itself up against a tree trunk. Just my 2 cents.

 deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008
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Posted: 11/20/2008 3:07:37 PM
I have fibromyalgia and rheumatoid arthritis and at times it is painful to move certain joints. and a good lover will understand that and do other ways.
I am 58 today and had fibromyalgia 11 years . I love and want sex more than ever. But there are days maybe you are in too much pain to have sex. But thats not everyday. you learn to live with some of the pain.
Good Luck to you ..
 forum74

Joined: 11/2/2008
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Posted: 11/20/2008 3:19:43 PM
Ok, sex is passion. If you love someone, that would not matter. Who said you had to belong to an acrobatic club to have amazing sex? If anyone insulted you and did not understand where you are coming from, would you even want to be with them??? My best wishes for you =)
 darktranquility2526

Joined: 5/27/2008
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Posted: 11/20/2008 3:34:53 PM
Well it totally depends if the person has a medical reason why they are motionless, If they do then of course i wouldn't mind at all. But if they don't then hell no it wouldn't be enjoyable.Being lazy is what it comes down to i think.
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