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Posted: 5/27/2008 9:13:43 AM | | I'm just saying, different things go on in different countries. He wants to compare the United States to two different continents, full of so many countries with their own standards. Well, I've listed 3 countries from three different continents that have their own standards. Do I think people should be force fed? Heck no. Do I think people should be anorexic? Heck no. People should live how they feel most comfortable. A size 2-4 would only be normal on certain body types. At a size 4, I'd be near death. There are a lot of size 12s, even 14s that are thin. Calling that a "sad state" is crazy and prejudiced. | |
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Posted: 5/27/2008 10:17:00 AM | As a fellow curvy woman, liking a woman with curves doesn't make you scum, gross, and nasty. Everyone has their preferance in what THEY find attractive. Don't let your friends, family or past lovers make fun of you because of what YOU find attractive. They only opinion that matters is yours. No one else's. Btw, Juju.. Thats one of my nicknames. =]
Hope I helped =]
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Posted: 5/28/2008 2:27:25 AM |
And thanks for clearing up that you would do a 12 year old boy in a dress.
Awww muffin top, curvy is fine but it's misleading when fat gets lumped into curvy. Fat is just...Fat. Curvy is not an euphemism for FAT.
And, No I wouldn't do a 12 year old boy in a dress but if he wishes to cross dress, that's entirely up to him. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 5:49:06 AM | | My ex-girlfreind . skinny 130 , she is sick MORE times then those who are BBW . next , those skinny woman only want to show off wha tehy have . and "think " guys will want it . I like my woman to be a BBW . and STOP with " I look fat " . NO you don't . that pig is fat . what happens when the pig is under 300 . BYE BYE . no one buys them . BUT , a pig that is 450 will become ham , bacon and my liking ribs . | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 9:28:48 AM | "she is sick MORE times then those who are BBW "
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You lost me. What do you mean?
BTW, that whole post was exteremly fuuny, don't know why..lol | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 9:57:54 AM | | You know, the term, "the fat ones" is just WRONG! I'm sorry, but come on! I'm a BBW, and I have found that us "fat ones" turn out to be amazing people, once you get to know us. We have real personalities, and we're not shallow. And right on to anyone that's deep enough to date BBW's. Because you know what, we do need love too. What makes us so different from everyone else? Because we're a little bigger than other girls? I am not big because I overeat, I'm big because it's genetic. Not like I can help that, right? Sorry that I can't run to the gym everyday, I have two kids to raise. So the next time that a BBW is interested in you, maybe you should think twice, because she could turn out to be the love of your life! | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 10:15:33 AM | I am so sick of this fat V skinny threads!!
You have some fat women saying 'hey Im fat look at me, love me, why dont men love me?..'
You have some men saying 'nah I dont dig the fat chicks'
then the women all gang up and slag off the males for not liking fat women because apparently its shallow and ohh they are great and they should get to know them.
And then some men say 'I love fat chicks'
then some women say 'yayyyy you like whatever or whomever you like'
But then when some men say they dont like fat chicks, they get slagged off for it...well hang on wasnt it just mentioned that you should just like whomever you like? Or does that only apply when talking about fat women?
Fvck sake there must be 20 threads a day banging on about fat vs Skinny and they all say the same stuff over and over all day bloody long.
Every fat woman or skinny woman is probably lovely, every fat woman or skinny woman probably has a great personality - what swings it in the end is consumption of cake.  | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 11:00:26 AM | You know, the term, "the fat ones" is just WRONG!
Calling someone fat isn't anymore offensive than calling someone thin or slender.
I'm a BBW
Being big doesn't necessary make a woman beautiful anymore than being thin or athletic does.
I have found that us "fat ones" turn out to be amazing people, once you get to know us. We have real personalities.
Personality has nothing to do with body size.
we're not shallow. And right on to anyone that's deep enough to date BBW's....So the next time that a BBW is interested in you, maybe you should think twice, because she could turn out to be the love of your life!
How could be a BBW be the love of a man's life if he's not attracted to them? Not being attracted to BBWs doesn't make a man shallow. There are some men who only date BBWs and aren't attracted to thin or athletic women. These men are rarely called shallow. That's a double standard. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 11:05:32 AM | ^^^Yeah, but if they don't like fat chicks, they don't have to go on and on for pages about not only how much they don't like fat chicks, or how unfortunate it is that they exist at all.
If you love skinny chicks, great, but your input is not needed here. We're all very aware that we're fat. We're all very aware of all the health warnings, the exercise machines, the diet options, and the blatant discrimination that goes on all over the place. It's redundant. Please, go start a "I love size 2s" thread and I'll be happy to avoid it. I'm pretty sure any guy who isn't smiling at me doesn't want me anyway; don't need a PSA in my face.
And how much sense does it make for a guy to say he's teased for liking fat chicks to have to read all these guys making a rebuttal? That's what he deals with with his friends anyway.
And I'm sure about half the skinny women in this thread just want attention.
These men are rarely called shallow. That's a double standard.
No, those men are called "chubby chasers" or "fat fetishists," as if being attracted to fat women is a joke or a mental problem. Guy walks into a place with a model on his arm, he's seen as affluent. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 11:21:42 AM | Yeah, but if they don't like fat chicks, they don't have to go on and on for pages about not only how much they don't like fat chicks, or how unfortunate it is that they exist at all.
How is it that any more annoying than the segment of fat women who keep whining about men not dating them due to their weight? Maybe some men are sick of being labeled "shallow", "ignorant", and "superficial" for not dating fat women.
No, those men are called "chubby chasers" or "fat fetishists," as if being attracted to fat women is a joke or a mental problem. Guy walks into a place with a model on his arm, he's seen as affluent.
That's not always true. When a man states that he likes BBWs, very few BBWs will call him shallow. Yet when a man states that he likes thin or athletic women, many BBWs will call him shallow. The only difference is the BBWs don't match what these men are looking for. That is a double standard.
And I'm sure about half the skinny women in this thread just want attention.
It has nothing to do with attention. People have every right to respond to things that are mentioned on this thread or any other thread for that matter. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 11:39:57 AM | Obesity is generally a disease of the poorer, less educated lower classes. It's often a result of eating empty calories and less nutritional processed foods. They're often too busy working (if not on welfare) and eating junk food, and McDonald's.
The wealthier middle and upper classes tend to be more educated about health and food. They're more inclined to eat whole foods and have the time to exercise and take better care of themselves.
Models are such. The living gods, the paragon of physical perfection that walk amongst us. If they weren't, they'd not be called models. They'd be called regular folk. Thus, to be seen with one raises one's social standing amongst one's peers.
Fatties on the other hand aren't in vogue. They haven't been in Vogue since the Paleolithic era. Sure you can talk about how fat chicks are all the rage in some societies and some eras. But you also wouldn't be caught dead living in a cave wearing nothing but animal fur.
The truth of the matter is that love and dating is not fair. It never was. The purpose behind dating is theoretically to weed out genetic defects and evolve the species as a whole. Fat people are way more prone to heart diseases and diabetes than most other people.
If a tubby balding guy declares himself a hunk, women (and rightfully so) laugh at him. How different is that from a fat chick who declares herself a Big Beautiful Woman? | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 11:54:57 AM |
Because you know what, we do need love too. What makes us so different from everyone else? Because we're a little bigger than other girls? I am not big because I overeat, I'm big because it's genetic. Not like I can help that, right? Sorry that I can't run to the gym everyday, I have two kids to raise.
People are rejected because of things that they can't control all the time. Race, height, being bald etc. Yes I realize some people are fat due to a medical conditon or genetics. However most people can control their weight to some extent. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 12:21:50 PM |
Models are such. The living gods, the paragon of physical perfection that walk amongst us. If they weren't, they'd not be called models. They'd be called regular folk. Thus, to be seen with one raises one's social standing amongst one's peers.
Models were not always a size 0-4. Again, you're trying to pick history where it suits your choices. Also, I'm sorry, but most models do starve themselves, take drugs or throw up to stay the size that they are. It is a natural size for some, but not for most.
Fatties on the other hand aren't in vogue. They haven't been in Vogue since the Paleolithic era. Sure you can talk about how fat chicks are all the rage in some societies and some eras. But you also wouldn't be caught dead living in a cave wearing nothing but animal fur.
I suggest you go to an art museum and take a good look. There's been a lot of fat love since the "Paleolithic era."
The truth of the matter is that love and dating is not fair. It never was. The purpose behind dating is theoretically to weed out genetic defects and evolve the species as a whole. Fat people are way more prone to heart diseases and diabetes than most other people.
Again, look around. There are so many fat women that raise thin children, because they care about their kids. Take a good look at any talk show and see how many really, really obese children are being raised by skinny women who have no idea what they're doing and don't know how to say no to their kids. Many women who are size 2 can't even have kids because they're starving themselves and their bodies are not able to carry to full term, if they even have their periods.
If a tubby balding guy declares himself a hunk, women (and rightfully so) laugh at him. How different is that from a fat chick who declares herself a Big Beautiful Woman?
The whole comparison to bald men is ridiculous. There are a lot of women willing to date a confident, bald man. And no, I don't mean the ones with wigs or combovers. I mean bald. And I'm pretty sure they don't get stopped by people who tell them, "Why don't you get plugs?" "Why don't you do something about your testosterone, so you'll stop being so bald?" | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 6:40:05 PM | Sure have. I have the same attraction to full figured women. Dated one that was much older than me when I was 21, didn't care what people said. Don't let what other people think get you down. Do what thou wilt... lol  | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 10:45:40 PM | well i am a big chick and i have no problem with it! by "no problem" i mean physically or emotionally and i have no issues with my health either. i am not big by a few extra pounds ,,,, i am alot more than that. but anyways i am big not lazy and thats a big difference. i play hockey as a foward and can skate full periods and game after game each day for tournaments , in the summer i practice with our ball team (but i dont play on the actual game days) i prefer not too .., but with those activities my health is awesome. i have no proble being this size because i am comfortable and contribute just as much to society as the next person. so no that posting doesnt account for all the fat people today.
(i know this is off topic but i just got to this posting and had to throw my two cents in ) | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 10:50:57 PM | Good for you Juju..............to hell with what anybody thinks,......you should be proud to show off your woman whatever size she is.......... | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 2:21:30 AM | I only read a couple of the posts and i gotta say "chubby chaser" is an oxymoron as us "chubbies" don't really run...therefore no chase!  
However, just because we are PHAT doesn't mean we have to be ugly, not confident, or not sexy.
Regardless of a persons size...as long as they are confident and take care of themselves they can be sexy as hell.
Someone said PHAT people wouldn't be caught in a cave wearing only animal fur...well, those are not confident would not...however, I would actually prefer not to wear the animal fur and just run around that cave naked. I love myself and my body and I'm not afraid to flaunt it! Yes, there are improvements that can be made...but we all have work to do don't we? The moment we stop striving for more knowledge, better health, etc well...we may as well not be above ground.
as always, just my opinion and everyone needs to be confident in themselves and if you're not someones cup of tea so beit...doesn't really impact your life does it? Move on and find the one that is right for you!!! | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 5:41:57 AM |
Obesity is generally a disease of the poorer, less educated lower classes. It's often a result of eating empty calories and less nutritional processed foods. They're often too busy working (if not on welfare) and eating junk food, and McDonald's.
The wealthier middle and upper classes tend to be more educated about health and food. They're more inclined to eat whole foods and have the time to exercise and take better care of themselves.
I could go off on a tangent about your post but, unfortunately, part of it is true.
However, I'm a fat chick who grew up in a fairly wealthy family, earns a lot of money, and has never, ever eaten at McDonald's. I haven't had a potato chip in probably 20 years, don't snack and about the only "junk" food I eat is sugar-free ice cream (and a single portion at a time). And yes, I have a college education.
But lower class people being heavier? If I'm not mistaken, for years and years the government gave away free food to people who needed assistance. What did they give them? Cheese. Oversalted, fatty cheese which is cheaper to produce to feed the masses.
I eat mostly organic foods now and the prices are crazy. I can understand families eating less fresh fruit and less fresh veggies because canned is much cheaper. They don't care that it's loaded with sodium, but their wallet speaks for them.
People these days are eating more Spam. I've never had it, but I guess it's cheap.
BTW, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I met someone the other night who said I describe myself so badly he thought he'd be meeting a "tiny, huge midget" and I was nothing like I described. Some fat chicks feel they are beautiful, so say they are big beautiful women.
I have seen a thousand profiles from men here who say they are good looking, but to me, they aren't. They are average at best. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 8:33:41 AM | I feel the top Quote is totally rediculous as much as it is ignorant!! How can someone equate anyones size due to their socioeconomic situation? I happen to be thin by weight standards, but am in no way in perfect shape due to a Bad Back. I cannot exercise the places that give you 6pack Abs, nor would I really care to if I could!! Does this make me Low Class, Less Educated etc?? It just makes me, ME! If a person does not like it, move on. If nobody likes me, that is fine as well! I will live!
Actually, I am Middle Class and Very Well Educated. Yet, being Single I either Eat Out, or out of the M/W Oven! I am not going to cook for just myself, it's too much work after working all Day and cleaning my place at night! I would rather just take a Daily Pill that takes care of it all and be done with it, but that does not exist as yet . So I guess that places me in the category that does not care about myself? *Wrong!! I just care more about different things than what or how much I may eat. There are many other more important issues out there other than just eating right.
Getting back to the Subject, I like a larger Woman! There are things about different Women that turn me on in ways many of you probably never thought of. Especially the ones that are proportionately heavy. That really turns me on!!
I feel a Proportionate larger Woman is Very Sexy!! I will take that over a Boney Woman any Day if we are considering *Body Only. But just a Womans Skin can be a very erotic item that turns me on! Large or small!
Now I do have to draw a line at Obese, that is just something that does not turn me on in any way. But I do not think any less of that persons lifestyle just because they may not be for me. And there is nothing wrong with feeling like that. I am not shallow just because I may not like Every type of Woman I may see. I am sure many don't like the way I may look, I am no 50 Yr. Old Male Model, but all I need is 1 good Woman that does like me for me!! I read all Profiles. Many Women want "Tall, Dark and Handsome", Athletic, Great Looking, Earns Tons of $$$, I read one Profile that "required" a Private Jet!! A persons likes are all in the eyes of the beholder as brightly said above! And every beholder is different in their likes and dislikes.
Now don't get me wrong, Jets are not the basis of any Relationship except for Economic Relationships. Then it is up to the "Rich One" to determine exactly what it is a person really wants from them! Money is the only thing I can call being Shallow!
When a person cares nothing more about you than your Bank Account Balance, something is wrong!!
But the Main item we all tend to forget is that it's what is inside that matters most. We all have flaws, especially as we get older. Plus Beauty fades with time as well, but not the personality under normal circumstances. If you love that part about a person, you are almost home!! Don't blow it just because she/he might be 50 pounds overweight. They might love you like no other can until the Day you die!!
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Posted: 5/30/2008 8:51:04 AM | I forgot to add just 1 last item. For me, if the person is either large or small, nothing turns me OFF more than reading in their Profile just how "Beautiful and Sexy" they are!! Sorry, I just don't feel that is something to put in your Profile! It's great when others tell a person that, but it's not something I really feel should be stated to others!
Again, Beauty is in ..............!! You may think you are just Wonderful, but I may not, and certainly do not when I read you say it! | |
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Posted: 5/31/2008 6:22:30 AM | | my ex-girlfreind Is sick MORE then a woman who is BBW . MY ex is 130 . I went with a girl who was 200 . SHE was not sick as much . | |
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Posted: 5/31/2008 6:49:27 AM | LOL....the acronym for BBW is false...because not all big woman are beautiful...I should know...I'm fat..LOL!!! What amazes me more is the constant battle that some large women feel they must fight for acceptance...bottom line to anyone...if you don't accept yourself for who you are, how in the world do you expect anyone else too??? As far as the OP stated about being teased...we all get teased for a variety of reasons, and if a person makes the choice not to be with others based solely on the opinions of others...that's quite sad.
I've dated all sorts of men with a variety of appearances, but the key was connecting beyond the physical attributes and liking the person as a collective WHOLE! I certainly do not expect everyone to like me or be attracted to me, but I am not going to allow the opinions of others to stop me from seeing anyone I like. When I was younger I made the mistake of allowing the comments of other's to hurt me, but that was then and this is now. I'm a confidant woman with a good head on her shoulders. I want to be in the company of other's who like my company. It's pretty basic.
This forum seems to be flooded with many threads about size difference...but that is just one dynamic of meeting and having successful relationships. I'm not going to defend my body type in the hopes a man will have some pity on me and take me out to dinner...that's just assinine. I have plenty of great friends with wonderful personalities...and their looks had NOTHING to do with it. Self acceptance is key, and being confidant in who you are as a person.
None of us are perfect, but it's those unique qualities that give people their personalities and character. I've dated a man who truly is attracted to big women, but he's never been ashamed to be seen with me in public. We go out all the time and have fun because we genuinely like each other's company. I don't think anyone should make any apologies for what they like, nor should they be chastized for who they like...but it happens..so either you deal with it ...or simply just follow the crowd. It's not so much the teasing that is the issue, but rather how you handle it. | |
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Posted: 5/31/2008 7:24:53 AM | | Being overweight is in every class and category of people, not just the lower and uneducated. whoever wrote that line is the uneducated one!!! Geeeesh!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/31/2008 7:36:37 AM | | as a karoake host . I see fat woman skinny guys skinny woman fat guys . I even see fat guys with fat woman and thoise are the ones telling there woman she is fat . THAT makes a woman feel like crap . then , I come along and think she looks hot . and ask her to sing a song , one I choose . next thing you know HE is looking more an more like a jerk BUT , I still have NOT had a date with her . | |
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Posted: 5/31/2008 8:00:39 AM | Um I dont know exactly what categorizes women as bbw, however what I know is that I prefer healthy women, not thin or "athletic" no offense, all women are beautiful in some way. But this man likes a nice "set of personality" and a reasonably decent caboose. Does this mean I would never date a woman 130 lbs? No, if the sparks fly, and there is great communication and connection, it wouldnt matter.
FYI, I hate the word fat, to call someone fat would be saying God made a mistake. | |
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