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Posted: 6/8/2008 10:16:02 AM | some of us dont have an option.. unless you can get an operation to shrink your shoulders.. having a frigging 64 inch shoulder is a pain in the ass. trying to find clothes. I used to work for a company that bought your suits and ties and such for you.. when I got measured we sent in the dimensions.. and I was sitting in my managers office.. and the contact for the clothing company called.
He said "Tony, I have to ask.. is this some kind of a joke? are you putting a suit on a fridge?" I started to laugh.. my boss didnt think it was to funny.. but regardless.. ever since I hit puberty and a massive growth spurt.. in one year I went from being a wee little **stard to having a 54 inch shouder.. although I was intensly physically active and played rugby competitivly.. I was still "big" its just the way things go..
everybody is born differently.. and I was blessed to have giant frigging shoulders I can do nothing about.. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 4:50:08 AM | | I started this thread last time i used this site as jujumonkey, i can't believe its still going! i openly declare my preferences now, my eyes and head (and other parts) tell me that a larger curvier woman is sexy, it wasn't a concious decision, it was just the way it happened. i like slim women to, and i find them just as sexy as a bbw. but if i had to choose between the 2 it would be bbw's for me, again, i can't explain why, its just how i feel | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 6:12:10 AM | | Congrats Technopunk on coming to terms with what your preference is. There is nothing wrong with liking thin, average or big women as long as you can be honest about it. I thank god there are guys out there like you, and not just closet chubby chasers. Good luck in your search! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 7:50:10 AM | (((hugs))) to you Technopunk! Men like you rock. Sadly your preference is not currently the popular view on what is attractive among the majority of the US. I congratulate you for standing strong to your preferences.
As a larger woman (I prefer to not use the term BBW) I feel beautiful and sexy because my man believes I am and reminds me often. I am 5'9, slightly over 200 lbs, and I fluxuate between a size 14 and 16. In his eyes I am perfect. I know to other men I'm not attractive and that is fine. I found one that loves me just the way I am and it feels GREAT!
Applauds to a man with courage to voice his preferences despite social pressures!  | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 11:04:11 AM | Good for you techno! First of all I think its obvious that if all women and all men only liked a certian type of person, everyone would be single. Every single person has different "turn on's" when they look at the opposite sex.
I am (obviously) pretty open about who I am, and I know pretty much what "type" of person is a good contrast to myself and my personality. I am very comfortable with myself and my body, not to mention active.
I think it's very sad that, because of peer pressure and how other's may treat a person because of their tastes, they could miss out on someone who completes you. I've actually had a guy tell me, that he loved being with me and around me, but needs eye candy on his arm to show off around the guys. Honestly, thats fine, I would rather not be with someone who is, one, shallow, and two, a sheep, someone who just follows because he is afraid of being outside the box or whether it will be "approved" off.
I have a great respect for someone who knows what they like and want, you would be suprised how many people have no idea, or just do what they think everyone else would approve of...hmm wonder why so many people get divorced.
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Posted: 6/14/2008 11:07:35 AM |
I started this thread last time i used this site as jujumonkey, i can't believe its still going! i openly declare my preferences now, my eyes and head (and other parts) tell me that a larger curvier woman is sexy, it wasn't a concious decision, it was just the way it happened. i like slim women to, and i find them just as sexy as a bbw. but if i had to choose between the 2 it would be bbw's for me, again, i can't explain why, its just how i feel
congratulations on finally growing a pair. | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 5:34:45 AM | | OP you are saying you still can get teased but you don't care now? [good] You were not talking about being teased in a nice way by your friends, correct? What are some of the things that happened, and do they still happen even though it doesn't bother you as much? | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 9:32:28 AM | | Personally i say who cares what others think. To me a women with curves is sexy. Nothing like a big hug with a curvy lady and feeling that soft skin, round hips...get a tad warm just thinking about it. | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 10:28:05 AM | I wish people once and for all would just do their own thing. To OP, it's great that you can be who you are and go for what you want! There is someone for everyone out there, and in the meantime it's hard to find those that are open minded and will just be who they are. As someone that has nearly lost 100 lbs myself, I am left the stigma of what I used to be, forget what people judge for who I am now! I take no offense to immaturity and hatred of man or womankind and seek the opposite.
As a nurse, I would only wish for everyone to be healthy. Cardiovascular disease nor type 2 diabetes are sexy, of any body type whether you be stick thin, 'normal' or BBW; whatever you want to call it, it can happen to everyone. I personally, in any shape or form, wish that the partner I end up with will live a long life with myself. Studies show that people with more abdominal weight are more prone to diabetes than not. With a obesity pandemic in the midst, its frightening to see what 'norms' have shifted. Whatever floats your boat people, whatever floats your darned boat.... | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 12:14:42 PM | ^^^^ Good Post... Diabetes run in my moms side of the family and God knows I don't want that shyt. That is another reason why I do what I can to stay in the best shape possible...
As far as the whole judging of fat girls or any other girl for that matter.. To be honest it seems to me that females judge a whole lot more then the males do. My female friends would be much quicker and more likely to say something about a female I chose to be with. They make their lil comments like .. "Look how fat she is".. "What kinda outfit is that she's wear'n ?" "She thinks she's all that"... "She has no boobs".. "I can tell her boobs are fake".. The list is endless of the things I hear women say about each other on a constant basis.. Men just get suckerd into this civil war between women, whenever we choose to pick one. No choice is right. You like the fat girl your a " Chubby Chaser" and only pick her for easy sex.. If you like the hot chick your a " Shallow **stard" and only want her, to show her off as a trophy... So no matter what you like your gonna take heat for it.. So you might as well pick something that you like and will enjoy. | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 4:19:54 PM | I'm too small to be a BBW.
But too large to be "Average"
ANNOYING! | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 5:42:27 PM | | There is a weight we all look at and say, that is too much, how could they let it get to that point? For some people that weight is less than others, so there. People often relate being larger to unhealthiness, it is true that obesity and carrying extra pounds is a good way to raise your risk factors for many diseases, it is also true that a skinny person may have unhealthy eating habits and use extremes to keep off the weight. Liking what you like is all right and yes the younger the crowd the less "cool" it is to like big chicks. But as long as your big chick lives healthy then stick with her, but if you're merely enabling someone to maintain habits that destroy their body for your own physical pleasure, then you are bad influence. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 8:59:03 AM | I have nothing against "Big" women. I am not attracted to the really big women but thats just me. What I really can't stand is when you go to a club and all these big women are wearing super tight clothes which are obviously not their size and they have their chub hanging out of every posibble place and then they get to the middle of the floor and start pulling all these moves which the skinny girls can get away with but on a bigger person its just clowning.
So Big women carry yourself with more respect and please wear your own size. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 9:44:40 AM | The human body is beautiful in all shape, sizes and color...
Be who you are and to hell with what other's think! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 10:02:04 AM | Im BBW and totally comfortable with it.
I hate that those sterio types exsist.
Im proud of who I am.
You dont need to please your friends u need to please you.
More cushion for the pushion...Bring it. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 12:35:58 PM | I just wanted to add my two cents so to speak. I am attracted to women with real curves.I find a look of starvation to be unpleasant as well as unattractive.I guess what I mean is I think I was born in the wrong generation as the standards now days do noting for me. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2008 3:11:46 AM | | I think that all women are beautiful no matter what. I was kinda heavy at one time and I didn't feel bad about myself. I thought of as, I bought and paid for this and damn proud of it. I think that as long as everyone is happy than that is fine. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2008 3:54:35 AM | | I hear my co-workers talk . " hey , that is way too fat . heck she makes a rino and hippo look skinny " they don't know what a BBW is like . | |
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Posted: 6/29/2008 8:54:08 AM | ThaSam I Am, not all fat people are walking around angry and bitter. I am overweight, and trying to lose weight working with a personal trainer. I have never been bitter. There are lots of overweight people living and enjoying their lives. People like myself have accepted that we may never be a size 10. To be honest I am pretty sexy in a size 14. I have learned not to get all riled up when someone gives me a rude look. I cannot do anything about people not liking fat people accept change my weight. And I am doing that for me and no one else, especially a man.
One more thing. Why is it that men who are average looking or not attractive, with out of shape bodies, think they have the right to pick some top shelf looking woman and putting down fat women? Explain that one to me.
To the guy who is 37 and likes his BBW's without concern of what other people think. Good for you baby. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2008 11:09:39 AM | | I wish more men would "come out of the closet" and admit that they like curvy women. I believe there are many more of you out there, but because of comments of their peers, will not admit it. One man I dated thought I wasn't large enough and wanted me to gain more weight (an extreme example). I am a BBW but I have no problem walking, hiking, swimming without losing my breath. My current bf favorite saying is "I don't want to have to shake the sheets to find my lover". | |
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Posted: 6/29/2008 11:54:26 AM | | Yeah, but I don't want to take her to the beach and find David Suzuki and friends trying to push her into the water. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2008 12:09:17 PM | that sam i am
That is exactly the type of comment that the OP is talking about. Obviously, your preference is for smaller women, which is just that, your preference. The issue here is the OPs right to state his preference without ridicule from those of you who don't see the attraction. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 11:34:38 AM | BBW often have lower self esteem. They also tend to have an unhealthy dependency on food. As a result, they are often less picky than skinny women and are more accepting of whatever men is involved.
Is it thus unfair to take advantage of this need and lower self esteem? | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 12:45:02 PM | I wish more men would "come out of the closet" and admit that they like curvy women.
There is nothing wrong with liking BBWs, but curvy and BBW aren't the same thing. | |
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