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Posted: 1/9/2009 4:10:21 AM | | I just think that if you rule anyone out because of their size, no matter WHAT it is, you are narrowminded and could be losing out on the best thing that ever happened to you. PERIOD. | |
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| Teased for liking bbw's
Posted: 1/9/2009 4:46:57 AM | BBWs have been known to be more passionate than say an average size woman....have talked to them and dated one....its your choice and lucky are they! | |
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| Teased for liking bbw's
Posted: 1/10/2009 6:28:45 AM | I think it's wrong to lump us all together. Any ALL statement is inappropriate for any group of people. We aren't ALL happy...we aren't ALL good in bed (I know I am but ALL? No)...we aren't ALL passionate....we aren't ALL anything. Just like not all skinny women are pretty...LOL.
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Posted: 1/10/2009 6:48:20 AM | The war over the shape of people’s bodies. When I was little I would look at the very thin girls and be so envious of something they seemed to have with so much ease, a body that boys seemed to drool over. I never had many boyfriends growing up and faced a great deal of rejection even though I hovered between a size 10 and a size 12,which was much smaller back then than it is today. I was athletic, ran everyday and watched what I ate, but never could get past a size 10.
When I got married and had a child I didn’t have time for running and I was lucky to find time to make food that my family would eat. I have never been under a size 16 since I was 19 years old and hover between a size 16 and 18 now. I use to think there was something wrong with me. Not only was I very hefty, but I loved guys that were big themselves. Normal sized men and especially thin men totally turn me off. I am rather strong and it always seemed like I could break them in half.
One day, while researching body building, I discovered that there was indeed body type designations that fit me and the type of men I liked and classified the other two types of men I had no interest in: Ectomorph, Mesomorph and Endomorph. I celebrate my endomorphic body as well as that of my current special friend. Our bodies are stronger, more resistant to disease, more resilient and we have more endurance than the other body types. We generally weight far more than what people think because we are packed with muscle. I weight 225 and can wear a 16, but my special friend can still bench press me ;)
So bring on the Endomorphs, because I can bench press the Ectomorphic men, break them in half, beat them up and sometimes beat them at arm wrestling. Let someone tease me about what I like. He better not be an Ectomorph ;) | |
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Posted: 1/10/2009 7:43:01 AM | I agree with silverdevil! We all are shaped differently and weigh differently! I hauled hay most of my life and am now a CNA so I get my share of lifting in everyday! I'm solid for the most part! I love my body probably more than some women who weigh only 100 lbs! My ass is what gets me, I can't make it any smaller but it is rock hard! So let someone call me a BBW and I will take pride in that, cause they are atleast calling me beautiful!
And it's all about how someone carries themself. I've seen completely obese girls look prettier than girls that only weigh 100 lbs. Just for the simple fact that they carry themself better! Now I must say to all the BBW's out there that wear the skimpy clothes and spandex, IT'S NOT ATTRACTIVE!!! If you have rolls hangin out everywhere for everyone to see, it's not pretty!!! I think I look the hottest when i'm in jeans, tshirt, tennis shoes, and a visor! But like I said it's all in the way you carry and present yourself!!! | |
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Posted: 1/10/2009 3:31:32 PM | OP,
It's not shocking to me @ all that you're being teased, alot of BBW's tend to get alot of negative flack from people , mainly guys...yet these same guys tend to be the biggest hypocrites. | |
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Posted: 1/10/2009 4:43:47 PM | | Closet chubby chasers... how many of us Big Beautiful Women have encountered that??? I say pass, if you want to keep me behind closed doors, there is no point in even meeting in the first place. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2009 2:12:54 PM | I like them in all shapes and sizes...I really don"t care about a persons physical appearance as long as they are good in the sack and we get allong ...The more I am with a person the more physicly attractive they become too me....
But more often than not I end up with bigger girls , maybe because I don"t find bigger girls intimidateing like I do stereotypical "Pretty" girls....
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| Teased for liking bbw's
Posted: 1/26/2009 12:48:53 PM | I fall somewhere in between as a size 16/18, not exactly BBW, but definitely NOT thin either (one guy I dated called me "sexy thick"). I have been blessed to have men in my life who consider me attractive regardless of my weight. I think how YOU feel about YOURSELF makes a huge difference in how others see you. It does not matter if you are a man or a woman, most of us are drawn to a person who walks with a spring in their step, head up, shoulders back, and smiles when they make eye contact.
I grew up with parents who constantly reminded me "You would be a beautiful girl IF you would just lose some weight". It wasn't until I became an adult that I realized that God DID make me beautiful, right from the start, and the amazing thing was, as soon as I started to believe it, others seemed to too! To this day I have no patience for those who, like my parents, judge the beauty and worth of a person by their external shell.
When a man writes in his profile that he prefers a woman who is slim, slender, height/weight proportional, etc. it tells me a great deal about his character, and most importantly, it lets me know he is someone I would never want to introduce to my kids. | |
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Posted: 1/26/2009 12:54:38 PM | When a man writes in his profile that he prefers a woman who is slim, slender, height/weight proportional, etc. it tells me a great deal about his character, and most importantly, it lets me know he is someone I would never want to introduce to my kids.
There is nothing wrong with a man being attracted to slender, average, or athletic women. He isn't making any rude comments about larger women. There are men who aren't interesterd in me because they like younger women, larger women, shorter women, black women etc. I'm not offended by this. I simply don't match what they are physically attracted to. | |
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Posted: 1/26/2009 1:02:24 PM |
I just think that if you rule anyone out because of their size, no matter WHAT it is, you are narrowminded and could be losing out on the best thing that ever happened to you. PERIOD.
I disagree. Would you date someone that you aren't attracted to? Probably not. Some people may not be attracted to fat people. Just like others may not be attracted to thin people. Nothing wrong with that. | |
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Posted: 1/26/2009 1:58:41 PM | | Nothing wrong with ruling out people you aren't attracted to. It only becomes an issue f you use abusive language to do so. I avoided putting my prefences in my profile myself because there may be that one person out there who contacted me who I would have said no to but just flat out does it for me. Unlikely but possible. However, there really is nothing wrong with saying you are attracted to a certain physical type. | |
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Posted: 1/26/2009 2:59:08 PM | I have heard from a few of the men that I have dated that they have taken flack for being attracted to bigger women. Everyone has their preferences in a mate and no one should be teased for their preferences. I myself am not attracted to skinny men but I wouldn't pick on someone who did. I have a girlfriend who is attracted to extremely pale skinny guys. I don't understand the attraction but I don't have to understand it to accept it. To each his own.
Also, I take no offense by someone telling me that they aren't attracted to me because of my size as long as they aren't insulting about it. I would hope that a guy would not be offended if I told him that I wasn't attracted to him because of his thinness. Actually I probably wouldn't even mention his weight unless he asked me specifically why I wasn't attracted.
As for the term BBW, I have just kind of been stuck with it. I didn't come up with the term, I wasn't asked for input and at this point I think it would be a big ole pain in the butt to start making changes to all those websites that use the term so I use it. Its a lot better than using full-figured and having men trying to figure out how full of a figure I am talking about. Of course I prefer Big Bodacious Woman.  | |
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Posted: 1/26/2009 5:19:18 PM | | Like almost all black men I get it all the time. I love all women of all shapes and sizes. Am I going to turn away a bbw with personality, hayle no!! | |
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Posted: 2/21/2009 12:29:10 PM | I read most of the posting out here. Some people are shallow and they think by making fun of other people that they will make themselves look good but it doesn't. It shows what type of character they have.
I perfer to be called PHAT (Pretty Hot And Thick)    or Succulent sexy or Voluptuous.
I'm a BBW and I'm SEXY AS HELL and I don't care what people say because they are just jealous of me. I work out at the gym and I eat healthy. I also love myself.
" Love me without fear, trust me without wondering, love me without restrictions, want me without demand, accept me how I AM!!!!!"
"It takes a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away."
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Posted: 2/22/2009 6:04:04 PM | | I'm only going to say this ...... Bigger is Better.... I do not have problems meeting new girls, but what I am looking for is BBW only. The curves some BBW have beats any skinny top model and average womens out there . I almost find them hard to find, and believe me .. I am searching. I have an athletic body , not because i train, just born like that. I already know what it's like. To touch a BBW that have the curves well developp ... let's just say .. THAT 'S MY THING !!!! ... Anyway ... you should not be concern by other peuple's opinion on that .They are sold by society perpective that's all | |
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Posted: 2/22/2009 8:06:28 PM | I've always liked bigger women. The only one who has teased me for that is my gf. But it really is only a tease because she's a bigger girl too!  | |
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Posted: 2/23/2009 7:45:45 AM | | There seems to be a lot of love for BBW from a lot of the guys out there but you hardly EVER hear women saying they like fatter guys. They usually rip them apart in here. Funny, I thought it was the men who supposedly only cared about looks but we don't seem to have the qualifying list of perfection that women in the dating world seem to have. | |
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Posted: 2/23/2009 9:31:30 AM | | I've dated big men. Love a big man who knows how to dress and carry himself well. Actually, I like me of all shapes and sizes. It's not so much about the body shape for me. A good face is more likely to draw me, a certain level of confidence, carrying yourself well, dressing with a sense of style, ect..... | |
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Posted: 2/23/2009 9:46:36 AM | Great point silverdevil. I have some friends like you - just because someone is "bigger" doesn't always mean they are fat/overweight.
Funny, I thought it was the men who supposedly only cared about looks
Nope. Some men may be more visual in certain areas and get attracted or reeled in more quickly by looks, BUT women care about looks too.
No matter how open-minded I may be, I just am not attracted to a larger or husky (doesn't always mean overweight) man. Nor am I attracted to a super muscle man. I don't even like really tall men!
A good face is more likely to draw me, a certain level of confidence, carrying yourself well, dressing with a sense of style, ect.....
This goes along with it as well and alot of men based their choices on a nice face rather than body size. I know I can get interest from a guy who is really fit, but if his face is not appealing to me - it doesn't matter how hot or fit he is. | |
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Posted: 2/23/2009 1:12:34 PM | | Because people need to tease other people because it helps them forget their own pathetic, miserable lives. Do what you want to do and lose the 'friends'... | |
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Posted: 2/23/2009 2:38:11 PM | | I've always been attracted to bigger women. Whatever is said about what body type I am attracted to I just ignore. In all honesty I'm (and you in this case) the one who likes BBW/Curvy/Extra Pounds, not them, so why let what others think get you down? | |
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Posted: 2/23/2009 2:44:15 PM | When a man writes in his profile that he prefers a woman who is slim, slender, height/weight proportional, etc. it tells me a great deal about his character,
It tells me something about his character, too. It tells me he knows what he likes, and he's outgrown the immature *screw anything that walks* mentality. It also tells me he's not afraid to be honest.
And profile that says, "I prefer women with some meat on their bones," tells me the exact same thing.
As do profiles that say, "I find beauty in all shapes and sizes."
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