| Teased for liking bbw's
Posted: 2/23/2009 3:37:07 PM | WOW! Beofroe I go on a bit of a ramble, I must say that you, blondecharmthe3rd , are absolutely, stunningly beautiful and there is no way on Earth that I would keep you behind closed doors (other than the obvious  ) I would be out parading like a peacock with you by my side.
Now then, as far as being teased for liking ladies with a fuller figure (I too dislike the term BBW), it is a distinct lack of self confidence on the part of the 'teaser', because I have worked with many men who have ridiculed curvy ladies, but, when on our own, have admitted to me that they too prefer a girl with 'a bit of meat on her bones' and they only date skinny girls for the accolades of other insecure males.
I, like the originator of this post, have ALWAYS preferred curvier ladies. Most of my girlfriends at school were full figured and as I grew older, the curvier the lady was, the more attracted I was (and still am!). My wife is a size 18 and she is beautiful. She also knows that I prefer full figured women and that she has absolutely no need for concern if we are surrounded by stick thin females. She does however become a little less tollerent around the more perfectly formed ladies, as I am an intollerable flirt in those circumstances lol.
So, in essence, please, all you beautiful, perfectly formed ladies (you know who I'm talking about), stand tall and proud of the fact that YOU are the secret fantasy of ALL men (including the 'teasers') and it is YOU who is 'the sexy one'!! | |
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| Teased for liking bbw's
Posted: 2/23/2009 3:42:45 PM |
So, in essence, please, all you beautiful, perfectly formed ladies (you know who I'm talking about), stand tall and proud of the fact that YOU are the secret fantasy of ALL men (including the 'teasers') and it is YOU who is 'the sexy one'!!
Gag.
From one extreme to the other, eh? | |
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Posted: 2/23/2009 6:12:49 PM | I had a friend that was larger than I am now and she got some really nice looking guys ...
You can like who ever you want , but if you prefer fuller women then just remember the one you fall truely inluv with may not be a fuller woman and visa versa ...
I am working on loosing more weight ... I am doing for health reasons ... I dont care what other ppl think of how I look cause I am me no matter what size I wear and if they cant see that then they dont really care about who I am ... Its not my weight that makes me who I am nor is your weight who makes you who you are ...
Its what is in a persons heart that makes them who they are ...
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Posted: 2/23/2009 6:17:40 PM | I've only read 7 out of 21 pages but gotta get up early in the morning. I like average women, not too skinny or too big. Am I wrong? I guess as wrong as a woman not wanting a guy who is 5'9 because the shortest she likes is 5'10". We like what we like. If I like someone and I don't fit in there "mold" of what they like in a man. Oh well I move on. Yeah I'll pout for about a day or two. But after that there are plenty of fish in the sea. ;)
But this is for all the bigger women who attack me who don't like bigger women. I mean wtf I understand that you've been attacked most of your life. But I was always the small skinny dorky guy. I was 100 lbs when I was in 9th grade. I was only 125 lbs in 12th grade. I'm 5'10" that little weight on that height was awful. I was always teased by the jocks and cheerleaders. Y0u don't see me attacking the "alpha male" for what happened almost 15 years ago. The past is the past. We can change the future but not the past.
And I've heard bigger women call thinner women "scrawny" and "crack whores." That is just as wrong as someone calling them "fat."
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Posted: 2/23/2009 6:33:06 PM |
And I've heard bigger women call thinner women "scrawny" and "crack whores."
I live in an area where you see real crack whores. They have a very distinct, skeletal appearence. You average thin woman could never get there and wouldn't want to . It's a scary look for anyone. | |
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Posted: 2/23/2009 10:45:53 PM | Hey, Go for it! I have been utterly amazed at the amout of men out there that love BBWS.It's refreshing and from what they tell me...the reason is that we are more fun on every level.So, I intend to own that title proudly. More to love and "more bounce to the ounce" Baby!  | |
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Posted: 2/24/2009 9:42:59 AM |
And I've heard bigger women call thinner women "scrawny" and "crack whores." That is just as wrong as someone calling them "fat."
It is okay for a man to be attracted to BBWs. It is also okay for a BBW to be comfortable with her weight. But some BBWs will complain about people making fun of them because of their weight. Then these BBWs will say rude things about thin women. That's hypocritical. I think calling someone a crack whore is a lot worse than calling someone fat. The word fat isn't any more derogatory than skinny. Both fat and skinny can be accurate descriptions of a person's body type. | |
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Posted: 2/24/2009 3:28:21 PM | I think it's all about preference! Everyone has a preference, be it thin, average , full figured, husky, male , female, tall, average or short, the list goes on and on. I think it boils down to respecting each others preferences without ridicule or being judgemental It's not right for thin folks to make fun of fat folks or vice versa. It's the same as racism to me.
What I don't understand is why obesity is the last socially acceptable predjudice? It confuses me.
We all need to strive to treat each other as we would want to be treated ourselves. We are all adults and need to act that way. | |
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Posted: 2/24/2009 4:18:14 PM | O P,
It sound like you need some new friends. I could careless who is dating my friends, relatives, and so on. All i care about is that they are treated with respect and are loved. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2009 11:54:12 AM | Well you know most men do not know what a BBW is. If you advertise you like BBW and are not specific you will most likely hear back from women that weigh 250 to 450 pounds or more (seriously). So if your not specific in your profile on what you like you will be in for a suprise. Most men think if a women is 40 pounds overweight or less that is a BBW. I am a BBW and I am proud and not ashamed to tell people my weight or size but I am amazed at how many men I talked to that has no idea what it is to be a BBW. I spoke to many guys that think all a BBW is just a women with big boobs. LOL.
Well anyway I applaud men that can like a woman for who she is on the inside and can accapt a person regardless of size. Even though I am a big person I have dated men of all sizes from the very skinny to men 100 pounds more than me and over all its the persons personality that wins me over a persons size. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2009 11:57:02 AM | | Also I want to add on how suprised on how many hypocrites are out there. I was talking to this guy once that was a good 80 pounds heavier than me if not more so and he put me down for not being good enough for him because of my weight. I was like dude you should talk ???? LOL | |
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Posted: 3/1/2009 12:04:33 PM | honestly i commend your openness and honesty! the heart wants what it wants...
go for what you love... | |
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Posted: 3/1/2009 1:22:57 PM | | There are loads of ladies that are larger than the media dictates they ought to be, yet they look stunning. Then there are the women that one sees every day on the streets who are plain fat, don't care what they look like or what they are doing to their health and frankly look disgusting. That's the difference between being a "big woman BW" and a "big beautiful woman BBW" and the difference is huge. Massive. Nuff said. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 10:11:35 PM | The old joke..What do large ladies and scooters have in common?
Both are fun to ride till your friends catch you on them!
Sad but true that people are so weak as to not be able to stand up for themself, i have had many wonderful ladies of all sizes grace my path on my journey through this life and have always been glad i was raised to stand on my own two feet ant lead a life dictated by what others or society thinks.  | |
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Posted: 3/19/2009 8:26:14 PM | | we live in a superficial world. personally if a woman is comfortable with herself, that's what should matter most. i've dated bbw women b4, and i could care less what people think. | |
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Posted: 3/20/2009 2:24:13 AM | Thanks shredtec first and foremost.
I think men should express honestly what they want, either small med large or athletic. I PREFER men who say they want someone healthy and height and weight proportional in their profiles. To me, it means they will be more upfront all the way through. Same for the men that express they love big women.
I don't have an age or body prefer in my lovers. But one thing thats common among them, they have to be comfortable with me and be ok with being seen in public with me. Respect... goes a long way.
The person I am seeing right now is quite young, and definately hot. I do get a bit tired of the dirty looks we get, but he just pulls me closer and plants one on me to let me know it doesn't bother HIM. It grounds me to the fact they shouldn't matter, and by and large doesn't.
Oh.... and I have photos all dated on my profile. I have dropped 30 lbs since the first of the year for my own health. Not the numbers... but I think if you look at the most recent photo... the overall appearance is the same. There is no way I would let anyone dictate to me what size I NEED to be, but prefer the greater energy I have gained by losing that weight. Still have the curves, take more than that to lose them. | |
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Posted: 3/20/2009 4:21:50 AM | | Whatever floats your boat, brah. I've made love to all kinds of women of various shapes, sizes, colours, looks. And for me it's always come down to a lady who's self-confident. Self-confidence is sexy. I've seen some bigger girls who know how to work it, and it's still balls hotter than some supermodel stick who doesn't. | |
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Posted: 3/20/2009 5:51:53 AM | I referred to a former partner as a chubby chaser - he was offended, said I am not - I'm with you. I said baby, have you LOOKED at me, I'm not a hardbody, I'm a 'thick' girl, I'm chubby. Then I mentioned the women I knew he'd been involved with before me and he got this weird look, like a light went off.
I said I'm not IN ANY WAY saying it's a bad thing...if you weren't, we wouldn't be together.
I think a lot of guys are worried about what others may say or think. Sadly too many people let society determine what they SHOULD find attractive.
Be with who makes you happy!
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Posted: 3/20/2009 8:34:32 AM | I never thought about it until I got on here and got some attention from some BBW's. I said "what the hell" and talked to and met a few. I can happily say the ones I've met have been kind, considerate, sensual, and very comfortable with me and themselves which has been a complete turn on.
On the contrary, the rudest, and most selfish people I have known and met would be considered very attractive by most on here; yet they are emotionally "dead" to me. It's like looking into a wall. There is nothing there, no interaction, just a blank, distant look in there eye. And they expect all the time to be "spoiled" and catered to, even when your not even dating them yet!!! WTF, man!!!
Now, I don't really hold one's apperance against them. If the conversation is good, and they are fun to talk to and comfortable to be around, I'm pleased and will continue to know them. No matter what they look like.
As far as it going past that, that just depends on mutual chemistry and being willing to take the time. It doesn't happen overnight. (At least not with me) I find that this demand weeds out the "pearls from the swine", pretty fast in my experience. | |
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Posted: 3/20/2009 11:03:14 AM | Someone help me to understand (and I'm a female) what the term BBW means. I can understand why a man would be confused, hell I'm confused! I'm tall, I'm thick, I'm HWP, you know.. bigger hips and boobs than my waist.. technically speaking what key deteremines a BBW from curvy? Is it a size? Someone in here referenced a size 18.. ok is that a size 18 on someone that is 6' or 5'2"? Big difference.
Just asking for some clarification. As far as getting teased for what you like, screw them. I'm a chubby chaser, my friends know it and they do tease me but in a good way. They know I would rather hold on to a snuggly belly than ribs. | |
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Posted: 4/29/2009 8:47:15 AM | there's a programme running on tv in the uk at the moment where a female model takes every day ordinary women, some of them slim, some of them bbw's, and turns them into models. they compete against proffesional models etc etc. my point is, it was absolutely fantastic to see women of all sizes and shapes looking great together. maybe the world is becoming more accepting now and is embracing our differences instead of persecuting us for them. oh and i still luuuuuuuuuuurve those curvy bbw ladies  | |
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Posted: 4/29/2009 12:38:33 PM |
I can understand why a man would be confused, hell I'm confused!
A loved baby have many names, there is no clear definition.
Big Beautiful Woman is what BBW is, and it refers to the degree of chubbiness more than being tall or "thick boned". Looking at your profile I would not categorize you as BBW, cuddly is more fitting in my vocabulary, though I can not see the full pictures (no, don't send them...  )
Someone else might have called you a BBW at the same time. It is what we want it to be, perhaps. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2009 12:37:23 AM | Be who you are.
Like what you like . Who cares if someone Shallow teases you about anything.
Live your life the way you see fit.
Like who you like for whatever reason. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2009 3:02:02 AM | | OMG I was married to a feeder when i made him leave i lost 60 pounds.I'm also glad i got divorced from him he was bringing me down. | |
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