| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 11:59:53 AM | It's hard to say what's bad, but here' what's good, in my opinion:
We communicate. You tell me when what I'm doing feels good or not and I do the same. Then, I do more of what feels good to you and you do more of what feels good to me.
We will at least try what the other thinks is a turn on. (Yes I know one person's turn on is another's near death experience. We can all be reasonable.)
Your not afraid to get into it. I don't care who hears us!!
You have orgasms - the more the better. Nothing makes a me feel more like a man than when I make you climax again and again.
You'll wear the sexy lingere that I like.
That should be a pretty good start!!
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 12:07:29 PM |
I'm with Dynomite on that one.
Ditto!
I use sex as a meditation tool so it won't work unless there are 2 people who get that and are both into it. By the way Nip, that was really gross....
Double Ditto!
As for "hair on nipples" lol. Just so ya won't be shocked down the road... after menopause, hair can sometimes start to sprout in rather wierd places on a gal.. Starting at about 45 yrs old... get yur self a good pair of tweezers ladies (o')(o) 
FYI it's giving face & not head. If you are in fact giving head then it should be no secret as to why you're tasting another's.
Ziiinnnnng!
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 12:07:54 PM | The worst sex I've ever had was with a girl who would only do missionary, and wouldn't do ANYTHING else. I mean like she wouldn't even let me touch her down there. Yes, it was that extreme. We're talkin no handjobs, no oral, no nothing. Just straight missionary. I made an excuse and left, without even getting off. - James P.
I have a question, James P. How long ago was this, how old was she & were you? In my own personal experience
(granted my teen years were a while ago), that's what sex is usually like until you are mid- late 20's. Experimentation
& open-ness often comes with more maturity & confidence. And if you feel these things are absolutely essential &
manditory for good sex, I can see why she might have felt pressured.
Even now, I wouldn't really have a problem with someone like this. I would call these (ie-different positions, oral, etc)
bonuses, not really neccessary at all, to a good sex life. I do however, like a good passionate kisser & L VE hickeys | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 12:16:39 PM | I have a question, James P. How long ago was this, how old was she & were you?
This was a few months ago. We're both in our early twenties.
She's also lived in China all her life and has only been in Canada for like, 2 years, which led me to believe that her reaction to sex was a product of her cultural upbringing. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 12:39:32 PM | | For me? No emotional connection, it just doesnt work...by 'it' i mean my body, damn thing says 'haha lady your having a laugh right?'......:( | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 10:49:22 PM |
Communication is always good... but what Made it Bad? What did she/you do that made it bad enought that you couldn't be bothered communicating about it?
Stove Top, sometimes the not communicating is what makes it bad. It's ironic that some women yell at men for not asking for directions, yet they also won't give any voluntarily when their man is lost between their legs. Being responsive when something is really working (NOT faking it even if it's not) can very much add to the experience for those of us who are turned on most by turning our partner on. It doesn't have to be verbal...I've certainly had cases where I understood something to be working well even though I received only non-verbal cues...but vocalizing is nice too.
Your second point is highly valid, though...communication is by definition a two-way process.
Other things that will throw it off for me:
- Little or no kissing (and yes, I check my breath first)
- Not listening to my guidance
- Bad hygeine
- "Lying there and taking it" (again...if I should be a little to the left because nothing's happening, tell me...I'll be a little to the left, I swear!
- When a fire starts (sorry...that was from another thread)
- TV being on (honestly, whether she's watching it or not)...possible exception for porn! Comedy especially...laughing during sex is fine sometimes, a laugh track is NOT
- Talking about something (anything!) besides our feelings or what we're doing
- Too much teeth | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/18/2008 6:02:40 PM | I hate silence during sex. I've had to stop in the middle of a bj because the guy was so quiet I thought he might have fallen asleep.
Also no foreplay or five seconds of foreplay.
Doesn't care if I'm enjoying myself or not. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/18/2008 6:53:04 PM | I was involved with a woman for a while that swar she loved sex but she was very quiet and never really moved, I asked questions and tried to make a connection so sex would be better , but she never "liked answering questions"
I finally got fed up one day and I reached over and checked her pulse, and then said "Oh you are alive!"  "For a moment I thought I was a necrophiliac."
I walked out and never looked back. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/18/2008 7:46:03 PM | | lack of response, lack of good hygeine, thinking of themselves as the one with the pooty and using it as a tool for gain (prostitutes excepted), not willing to discuss if there is a problem... pretty much what everyone else has listed. on the other hand, the worst i ever had was wonderful at the time. yeah, i'm a guy and can be a little self cemtered occasionally. i think this is a two sided coin and most things noted work for both sexes. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/18/2008 9:54:07 PM | I Tried to write/post .... M E N
well, a lil 'mssg' popped up - sumpin sumpin about... 'Too Brief? Too Short?
And, i *Thought* ... "Mmmm Hmmm , E X A C T L Y.
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/18/2008 10:50:09 PM | sex with "Party Girls" is NFG!
if you drink a lot...
you pee a lot...
pee a lot...
your vulva smells and tastes like urine.
there you go bad sex.
if you can't talk about it you shouldn't be doing it.
a great body does not make up for a lack of class or conversational skills. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/19/2008 3:26:53 AM |
When she is still sleeping.....wake her up first.
depends on how you wake her Marius... could be fun
I have to say the worst sex is... he is horny....he climbs on has his O and then rolls off and goes to sleep... WTF... now I can see why my ex husband is my EX.... lots of role play and foreplay please..... | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/19/2008 3:48:32 AM | OMG TUFFY!!!!!!!! That is sooooooooooooo nasty! I can't say I have EVER EVER EVER done that! I am borderline anal (excuse the pun) when it comes to hygiene and when women don't look after some of those "2000" parts, it's no wonder some guys get "hoochy-shy" when it comes to oral....omg that is just so gross! That actually made me gag....
But remember guys, sweaty groin smell is a huge turn off too...so PLEASE remember to clean it up a little (with water AND soap) it is always good for sooo much more when it's nice and purdy smellin'....lol | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/19/2008 3:51:09 AM | Sorry !
Your faced with the eternal dilemma when it happens tho..................
Do I spit or swallow..........
Tuffycat?!! Ok now was THAT really necessary?! I think IIIIIII may need therapy now - lol !  | |
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