| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/19/2008 4:38:27 AM | What makes for bad sex? Selfishness.
Sex is about the mutual giving and sharing of pleasure and intimacy.
Selfish people only care about what they themselves are getting out of it.
The good news is most selfish people reveal their true selves long before things get to the bedroom | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/19/2008 7:13:30 AM |
'Too Brief? Too Short?
And, i *Thought* ... "Mmmm Hmmm , E X A C T L Y.
Tuffycat?!! Ok now was THAT really necessary?! I think IIIIIII may need therapy now - lol ! I think I can safely speak for all when I say we'd like to get tuffy's visual out of our heads ~ so lets stop quoting him m'kay!  | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/19/2008 10:57:35 AM | i'm sure everyone has their own list of deal-breakers for sex. just a few i can think of:
1. someone who doesn't enjoy both giving and receiving oral.
2. no emotion or passion
3. doesn't communicate likes and dislikes. doesn't listen to yours either.
4. ok..ok..i'll be the one to say this one. i don't care if you shave or not but if it looks like an amazon rain forest down there, at least trim it to the point that it can fit into a bikini.
5. not a good kisser | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/19/2008 4:36:07 PM |
So yea, there's a few things that girls can do that make the sex bad:
- be boring, ie. only want missionary / be fearful of cum / no handjobs, oral, etc.
- lie there like a corpse
- refuse to communicate what they like / want
- appear disinterested
- refuse to make a sound
I agree with the above! Especially if you are putting a LOT of effort into it, and you know you're doing a pretty good job! On the topic of oral, me personally, I could care less if my partner didn't go down, but if I did, and she just lay there and didn't respond to anything at all, wow that would just end it. I love pleasing, I get more aroused out of pleasing my partner than vice versa, so if you're a corpse in bed, thats terrible for me. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/20/2008 9:46:20 AM | Someone who isn't comfortable with himself.
Someone who can't talk about sexuality in a mature way
Someone who is only concerned with their own pleasure
Someone who isn't creative
Someone who doesn't break out of the teenage "formula" of sex (ie: kiss, fondle, lick, fvck...BORING)
Someone who actually believes women are like porn stars
Someone who isn't enthusiastic (nothing more boring than a dead fvck)
Someone who dosn't appreciate the value of anticipation
Someone who thinks all women react the same way... or should
Someone who is hung up on his "size" (serious turn-off)
Someone who can't laugh at themself... come on, sex is funny sometimes.
I can think of more, but these are the worst | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/20/2008 8:54:38 PM |
I just read another thread about a guy who broke up with a girl fairly new into a relationship because, as he put it.. the sex was bad. His thread didn't address the reasons it was "bad". I had to assume that she was a taker, or very unfocussed on the giving?
Made me wonder what a guy's opinion is on what makes a girl not good in the sack.
I've never had any complaints so far, never the less I'd like to avoid doing anything that would have me labelled as such.
Your opinion on a bad sex partner ??
My ex GF would be the epitome of bad sex, I would have to say.
Say the wrong thing and she would shut down. I like to talk dirty in bed. I said****one time and it just ended the entire thing because she felt it was demeaning.
She wouldn't try different positions, missionary was pretty much it.
All in all she was just a bad experience all together. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/20/2008 10:59:53 PM |
Someone who doesn't break out of the teenage "formula" of sex (ie: kiss, fondle, lick, fvck...BORING)
You mean there are other ways of doing it? wow...I don't know if I'm ready for Gimp masks and rubber gloves...but I guess you gotta do what you gotta do!
Pet hate for me are the selfish lazy lays. Maybe a cattle prod could enter the equation? | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/22/2008 11:54:03 PM | RE: First post.
The only thing I can think of would be lack of effort. If she lies there still as a dead cow... well... thats not very alluring. Theres no excuse for that. If they're bored or dont think you're doing a good job then they can damn well try something. Nothing worse than an unresponsive woman. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/23/2008 7:32:40 AM | Any discussion, during or after, involving “The Pitter Patter of Little Feet”
Not the two legged kind, the eight legged kind of "Pitter Patter" .  | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/23/2008 7:42:25 PM | Well.. it would seem lazy, unresponsive, smelly, conversation unrelating to the activity at hand , selfishness and; the pitter patter of eight legs (lol? wtf).. are the most undesirable traits in a bed partner for the men so far.
Other than the perverbial "minute man" I wonder what the ladies have to say about the matter. For me, it's when he can't pick up on my rhythm of choice at that particular moment... eg. I wanna go slow and passionate ~ he wants to bang away like a bunny. or vice versa. In other words, a guy who can't read the signals. Telling him directly is good... but it's great when he can sense it  | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/23/2008 10:20:07 PM | If she said the three little words --
that can make any man feel so small, and insignificant.
Each word begins with "i"
Each word is only two letters long ------
"Is it in???"
hahahaha!!  | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/23/2008 11:13:25 PM | | Close minded, timid, insecure, bad hygiene and unimaginative. Those all make for bad sex. There was a study done that the best women in bed are generally educated women. The study consisted of 3 stereotypes: Party Girl, Athlete and the Bookworm. All I have to say is, "The geek shall inherit the earth.". | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/23/2008 11:53:53 PM | | THE WORST SEX IN MY OPINION IS WHEN THE START TO FINISH TIME IS UNDER FIVE MINUTES THEN ROLLS OVER AND PASSES OUT OR PUTS CLOTHES BACK ON AND GOES OUTSIDE TO HAVE A CIGG | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/24/2008 1:03:42 AM | First off make sure you are very vocal,,I like it when a woman talks dirty to me:) Second, start softly when grabbing,pulling or scratching,,thirdly dont just lay there, move around and interact accordingly, keep the legs high in the air:) learn to give oral properly and direct your lover the same when he is pleasing you.
I hope this helps | |
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