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Posted: 1/18/2008 12:22:09 PM | Dump the **stard and grow up. Make him realize he can not have his cake and eat it too. You are more than woman enough for one man, so do not settle for less. Yes it will hurt but if he truely cared for you he would have dumped her for you. he will do it again, wether by intention or not. Do not buy into this
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Posted: 1/18/2008 12:31:34 PM | "oh ok...he is from New Joisy...figures..."
What an intelligent remark. Travel much? | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 12:35:12 PM | Buuuhhh hahhh! Pity me, pity me.
You're in school, you're young and without scruples. Just don't do a blame game and accept responsibility. So what to do? Dump him? Nahhh. Find you another duffus with a girlfriend and sleep with him. See if you can make them dump their girlfriends in the process, better yet, go for a three some.
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Posted: 1/18/2008 12:49:40 PM | "Sunny228"
Only from a man that would cheat!!.........Have pride in yourself, What?? you feel like you have to take sloppy seconds from another women?? Stop it before he gives you something you can't get rid of!!!! If he will do it with you and a girlfriend, you think you two are the only ones???Wake up this one sounds like a jerk!! and he's playing you like a fiddle....  | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 1:29:13 PM | | The best way for you to see what you're doing is to imagine that you are the 'other' woman. The one who doesn't know anything about this. Try to imagine how you would feel, were the tables turned? At least you KNOW he is playing both sides. At least you have the choice of doing it when you know this. Getting mixed up with someone who is involved with someone else almost ALWAYS leads to heartbreak in some form or other and that could easily end up being you. As long as you know what you're headed for - and take into full consideration of what you're doing, I guess you can enjoy it while it lasts, because it probably won't. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 2:16:18 PM |
Whats worse is he initiated it.
.........so, it is his fault you slept with him? Grow up, take responsibility. You are helping him cheat. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 2:27:37 PM | I hope you like the nickname "whore" because it's going to be yours when this all comes out and it will come out.
Truth is, the guy will get some crap for his behaviour, but it's the other woman who is most hated and blamed when these things happen.
And don't think that you don't deserve that name. You are knowingly screwing with a guy who you know has a girlfriend and you even know the girl, so there's no way for you to look innocent here. Frankly, I have zero sympathy for you, you deserve everything that's heading your way.  | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 2:33:34 PM | you are creating some major drama for yourself. take my advice, as someone who has been there, end it. he's a jerk for starting it, but you are also responsible for getting together with someone when you KNOW they are taken.
how would you FEEL if you were that girl? most likely, he would end up doing it to you as well so you just might find out!
run away, and go learn how to control your passions a little better. learn to THINK first before getting involved, otherwise you'll just end up hurting other people and all the girls on campus will start hating you. do you want to deal with all that drama?
not trying to be harsh, just trying to tell it like it is...
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Posted: 1/18/2008 2:51:44 PM | Nasty that you would take part in Hurting someone you claim to like. How would you treat someone you don't like?
So many are calling 'him' the jerk because he is cheating on his g/f.
OP is also a Jerk - she knows better.
They are both Jerks!
Hell - give me the Real g/f's email and I'll tell her. She deserves better! Then this op can claim the jerk as her own and they can have meet and greets at the local free clinic.
Of course this could also be just another of those trolling threads designed to bait some of the married fella's (looking for "friends") .. Now they know this op will cheat with them.
Never ceases to amaze me what people will literally tell the world of themselves without even a hint of shame. Be 'funny' if a dorm mate decided to print off op's pic and poster campus with it. I wonder who would be blamed for that?
Sorry for the rant .. but cheaters are nasty.
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Posted: 1/18/2008 2:56:16 PM | | He may have initiated the move, but you went for it. Have some self respect and move on to someone that is single and not be with someone else's s/o. In other womens eyes you will be labeled as a tramp (kindly said). Is this the reputation you want? | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 2:57:24 PM | | If he cheats on her he'll cheat on you... Walk away... | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 2:57:33 PM | It is terrible. And awful. And reprehensible. But, in your defense, you're very young. You are forgiven.
Now, go forth and sin no more.
That means quit having sex with someone else's boyfriend ...  | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 3:04:24 PM | | You are not the other woman, you are in college for christ sakes and so are they. When you have responsibilities and they do then you will become the other woman. Right now your job is to figure out who you are. After all this passes(and tears are cried) I suspect you will learn some lessons that will help be the adult that you will become. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 3:06:49 PM | | Humans are not monogomous creatures. Most women gravitate to a harem situation. Women are looking for the best genes. Life is a ****. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 3:08:54 PM | Help you what?
Damn. They don't count fish icons when they want to make you make the post bigger.... | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 3:11:24 PM |
I am sleeping with someone in college, who has a girlfriend. Who I really like..
I respect the fact that you like him. You should realize that he's not going to change anything about sleeping with multiple women. That's his thing, and he's gonna keep doing it. Make sure you protect yourself against STDs. If you can come to terms with the fact that this guy will ALWAYS sleep around, then it's your business whether you continue this or not.
If it's always gonna bother you that he sleeps around, then start looking for another partner and begin weening yourself off this guy. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 3:25:16 PM | I think for the most part, we here on POF are not out to be mean. However, if you ask for my opinion, and it's just that. I will give it as we all do.
OP take if from the voice of experience, and most of us here have it. What comes around goes around. We are NOT trying to be mean, but hopefully save you from a lot of grief later on.
I know a player. Jeese, I was your age once and sex hasn't changed, nor the stupid games that go with it. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2008 4:57:39 PM | soon it will be your turn. try to feel what that will be like for you, ,know that is what it is like for her right now, remember you may not be the only one he is cheating with. do venereal disease checks daily and think very seriously if it is worth it to catch AIDS or risk uterine cancer from venereal viruses at such an early age--which even condoms cannot protect you against. both have happened to a lot of people in your age bracket and sadly in mine as well. in fact, the older people are in a steady rate of acceleration. if he has no qualms cheating and initiated it, so you say, he will have no thoughts about the ramifications. will you?
...just a mom, but a street wise mom. my kids have recently learned to listen to me and trust my judgement --at least in this area, not others!
ps i haven't read all of the comments, but i am from new jersey and born in nyc. not sure what that has to do with it ( as per above comment) , except that nj was a forerunner along with new york in health care delivery and prevention! pretty dismal health care delivery system out here in CA thus far. | |
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Posted: 1/20/2008 4:12:52 AM | Do you believe in karma?
As Spike Lee said "Do the Right Thing"
As Nike says "Just do it"
Break it off babe! I was "The Wife", and I had nothing against "The Other Woman", but I didn't know her. His girlfriend is going to take a long emotional journey over this. | |
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Posted: 1/20/2008 4:15:41 AM |
DON'T LISTEN TO THE COQUE BLOCKERS. THEY ARE MISERABLE AND JEALOUS OF OTHER PEOPLES HAPPINESS AND WANT THE SAME FATE FOR U. HE JUST DOESN'T WANT TO BREAK ANYONES HEART. KEEP SEEING YOUR MAN BABY!
^^Moron
*I was thinking more psycho serial killer | |
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Posted: 1/20/2008 5:09:22 AM | | Just looked at your profile your very intelligent and very Beautiful and very Young,you say he initiated it and your part?your in a triangle and it will end in tears even if he decides its you he wants,would or could you trust him not to do the same thing to you?one day you will meet someone very special and the same thing as you have done to this young female will happen to you,with out a doubt you know the old proverb what goes around.you deserve better! | |
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Posted: 1/20/2008 5:09:47 AM | | you answered your own question...you said you know you should call it off...what help do you need??? | |
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Posted: 1/20/2008 7:00:25 AM |
I know this is gonna sound terrible. But I am sleeping with someone in college, who has a girlfriend. Who I really like. You are right - it does sound terrible. He HAS a girlfriend which makes him unavailable to YOU and other women. And you LIKE HER???? Gee, aren’t you just a really nice person? What do you do to the girls you don’t like? Do you have no self respect ?
What’s worse is he initiated it. Oh, well then just disregard everything I said above. If he initiated it that makes it all ok. No worries - it's all good since he initiated it and you had no control over sleeping with him. It would be totally different if YOU initiated it. If you initiated it that would be just wrong. But since he did, it's all ok. NOT! *sheesh*
And I know I have feelings for him too Awww how sweet - you have feelings for some other girls boyfriend.
... but I know I should call it off. Ya think?????
get a clue - find your self respect and get rid of this guy. How would you feel if you were the girlfriend that he was cheating on. Do you have an ounce of self-respect, any
morals - anything even close to any decency? Honestly - he is not yours to have. RUN don't walk - exit stage left immediately and do not look back.
Can anyone help me? Help you what? | |
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Posted: 1/20/2008 7:39:11 AM |
Can anyone help me? 
You can chose not to fvck around with this guy.
or
You can continue to to do it.
There's nothing really confusing avbout it. | |
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