as~is
| Joined: 12/1/2007 Msg: 51 | |
| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 1/26/2008 9:58:25 AM | If it's medicinal sex, it was started for a reason and very little of it emotional. It's a tension headache, or PMS generalities or relieving general horniness that I couldn't get rid of with time or BOB, that will drive me to get busy.
If it's lovemaking, wow, I may not have even been horny, but that thing he does to every square inch of my skin, that eye contact that makes me feel beautiful, that passionate kiss that throws me for a loop, and wow, the attention to my feet ;) what does that *do*??????? It leaves the undefinable something special with me for an extended length of time. It forgives any sin he might do. It amplifies any wonderful thing he says. It gives me this luscious memory at completely inappropriate moments...It makes me feel so good about myself, that I strut without thinkin about it.
If it's unexpected passion and lust moment, it stabs me all the way through with an O that wont quit. How many have I had? I answer I DON'T FICKIN KNOW!!!! They all blend into each other. A new one starts before I'm unwound from the last. What does that do for me? It takes all this carefully measured control and well monitored behavior and shakes me down. It makes me wild and unihibited and I don't care if the neighbors hear.
If it's angry sex. YEAH YOU I'M TICKED OFF AT YOU AND I'M TOTALLY MAD THAT YOU CANT FIGURE OUT WHY I'M MAD EVEN THOUGH I KEEP SPELLING IT OUT AND you're mad because I'm mad at you and no matter how you try you can't figure out how to make me unmad without doing what you don't want to do, and you kinda know why I'm mad but you won't admit it and that ticks you off that you have to admit to knowing why you're mad before I'll quit being mad
and WHOA! Angry sex. What does it do? We're too exhausted, sore, and generally too ull of endorphins to be mad any more. | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 2/7/2008 4:18:33 PM | oh karla please read my forum hunny ur missing out,u just have 2 learn how & it takes time,every woman can orgasm but u need 2 practise & then u can orgasm with ur man feel sorry 4 woman that have sex & dont get that pleasure also,so keep trying ,i did & now i no how 2 please me & him cheers!  | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 2/7/2008 4:23:08 PM | hey thanx 4 offering & im gald u agree on my feelings 2wards orgasms & what does sex do 4 u ect u might have 2 get on a plane,cause it aint gonna happen any other way haha hope u meet some1 special u sound like a gr8 guy handsm5 & a virgo hmmm whod have guessd another earth sign,always the way hey! oh well what can u do haha | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 2/21/2008 7:35:23 PM | It gives me a nice peaceful feeling as well...Sometimes all I need is the air that I breathe and to love you.....Making love with you has left me peaceful and weak, so sleep silent angel go to sleep......Ah............. | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 2/21/2008 7:54:31 PM | I like the attention from when i have sex...plus its kinda freeing and i dont kno but i like to feel naughty lol whether its watching porn or looking at a catalog for toys...i find it makes me happy and entertained  | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 2/21/2008 9:30:50 PM | sex makes me feel happy...confident, naughty, sexy....it makes me feel wanted and desired....k im stopping now.... | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 2/21/2008 9:44:42 PM | For me It seems to be a tension releaser, pleasure, comfort, excitement, empowering all rolled into one maybe that’s why I like it so much.
I have never thought about the empowering thing but all of the other components you mention are there. Also it is a good workout for your heart and your body releases many chemicals during arousal, orgasm, and cuddling (modern "grooming") that I believe make us healthier. I believe that sex is just plain good for you physically in addition to emotionally. | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 2/21/2008 10:24:18 PM | | sex relaxes me, it makes me feel good as hell if i cum really good, its a confidence builder especially if you had success with alot of women. even if i have some bad times with females, my sucesses will always outweigh the bad. i think thats why you have no many beautiful arrogant women out there, they know they have lots of guys who desire them, desire their bodies. i hear alot of hot women say "i'm tired of guys always coming on to me and asking for sex" thats such bullshit, if they ever went a day without any action from guys, their self esteem would fall to the ground, wondering whats wrong with them. everybody wanna feel desired, whether its for companionship or just sex. so yes....SEX IS POWERFUL! it defines your personality | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 2/21/2008 10:44:34 PM | Orgasms are short and to the point for guys - more than half the fun for me is having a responsive, playful female partner - the fun just goes on and on when this is the case :-) I guess its sort of vicarious pleasure.
I very much crave the simple physical affection and contact after the fact. Sex is entirely possible (though not as much fun) all on your own, but no one is flexible enough to give themselves a proper cuddle.
This has become rather acute for me, as the big black spooning kitty in my profile photo died of liver cancer about a year ago. The brown kissing kitty will come and sit on my chest if I'm deathly ill, but other than that she is only good for the occasional kiss, and is simply too squirmy for any sort of serious affection. Maybe PoF will payoff with a cuddleworthy female companion before too long ... | |
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TBLZ
| Joined: 3/23/2008 Msg: 60 | |
| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/14/2008 8:02:21 PM | OK, so what I think I'm hearing is...
Its a stress-reliever, skin cleanser (natural glow), inhalant, blunt, anti-depressant, sedative, work-out, race, meal-in-one, basically just W-O-N-D-E-R-F-U-L!
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/14/2008 8:06:10 PM |
What do you notice that it does for you besides the O factor? I have learned over the years to really enjoy my more primal side.
Sex improves my state of mine, my confidence, my drive and my sense of well being. And that is only the personal stuff.
In the relationship sex improves the bond between us, the depth of communications and the intensity and depth of affection. | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/14/2008 8:34:44 PM | for me, as a Scorpio, sex is a sacred rite. And not something I would ever enter into....lightly....nor inadvisedly;-) with anyone not my legal partner, and soul's-joy.
sex without boundaries for me, is like a Tsunami: powerful, but non-beneficial.
under the proper context and under the correct conditions? the most desirable experience given to the human race for bonding and for sheer joie di vivre! :-)
sex without love is like a body without a soul: completely empty and meaningless. sex with love and commitment: is the divine experience possible to two at once.
I cannot prove any of this of course, but it is what I feel to be possible and true, and this is what I want out of life; a relationship better than any ever on earth. It's nice to have goals;-)......nothing wrong with the Unobtainable. | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/19/2008 4:15:31 PM | The physical act of sex results in the release of hormones inboth women and men that cement bonding between them but women have a much more concentrated dose. That might explain why you feel happier when you see evidence of a couple in the sex act. | |
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nogo3
| Joined: 2/26/2007 Msg: 64 | |
| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/19/2008 4:27:06 PM | Well for me sex is the fuel that makes my engine run smoothly, it is an amotional conection. average says it pretty well
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pfft
| Joined: 3/13/2008 Msg: 66 | |
| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/19/2008 6:23:12 PM | | When I got a stuffed nose (from a cold or allergies), sex clears it and helps me breathe. I'd like to know why! | |
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medana
| Joined: 12/8/2005 Msg: 67 | |
| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/19/2008 6:32:28 PM | mind blowing sex is the best high ever, better than any drugs i've ever come accross. release of endorphines, detox, exercise, stress release, and a trance-like feeling.
can we get an AAAMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEENNNNNNN
thank u god for that one  | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/19/2008 6:53:25 PM | | Without it my vision becomes blurring, my strength becomes depleted, and my ability to work with others becomes unpleasant.... | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/20/2008 10:42:59 AM | sex i very healthy for us in many ways besides just being fun
it makes us healthier it's good exersize gets our harts pumping
for me the best off all is that i can relax a bit more affter, i have anxiety issues and regular sex very much helps I'm bettting it's good for deppresion as well lol
when i have to go too long without...i get all figity and tence | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/20/2008 10:50:57 AM |
Msg: 5 -- In your selections,,,,what does Activity Partner mean?
I can't believe THIS! Is this TRULY a SERIOUS question? "Activity Partner" means doing anything EXCEPT **SEX**! If you are h*rny, then AVOID the "Activity Partner"!!!!
WASTE OF TIME AND EFFORT!!!! | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/20/2008 11:46:13 AM | | Sure does take the headaches away............lol Not that I have gotten rid of a headache like that for a long time...........lol | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/20/2008 11:56:04 AM | [for me it takes me outside of myself and makes me soar into the realm I cannot explain.... it is the one thing that can can two ppl meld into one]
I think that quote captures it for me......with all the related stress that each of us have in our daily lives, SEX , with the right passionate person, can be an out-of-body experience that just tends to make everything right again!!!!! Life is simply way too short not to have this type of experience whenever you can  | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/20/2008 12:15:44 PM | 10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex.......from WebMD (You can read the article in its entirety at http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/10-surprising-health-benefits-of-sex)
1. Sex Relieves Stress 2. Sex Boosts Immunity 3. Sex Burns Calories 4. Sex Improves Cardiovascular Health 5. Sex Boosts Self-Esteem 6. Sex Improves Intimacy 7. Sex Reduces Pain 8. Sex Reduces Prostate Cancer Risk 9. Sex Strengthens Pelvic Floor Muscles 10. Sex Helps You Sleep Better
Don't forget that sex also makes your skin, hair, & nails healthier due to the increase of hormones circulated throughout the body!
So...as Marvin Gaye would say..."Let's Get It On"
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| what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 4/20/2008 12:38:35 PM | It helps me keep my perky. :) It's a serious mood lifter when I'm down, a great way to celebrate when I'm up, a tool for intimacy, and satisfies my skin hunger.
What's not to love? | |
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