| what does SEX do for you besides...
Posted: 8/2/2008 4:38:12 PM | | Luckily sweetheart god, a woman no doubt, allowed us in times of excitement and exersion to release endorphins ,which tests have shown are more powerful than any drug known to man, this is what you to a degree and athletes when they train, get released in differing amounts that act as a stimulant and also surprisingly as a calmative. If we could only learn to stimulate the release of endorphins by instant thought alone, which I am working on because as a psychologist I believe it is possible. To clarify, god must be a woman how else could you possibly explain putting a mans most stimulative spot, his 'g' up his ass | |
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Posted: 8/2/2008 5:03:54 PM | | Sex is a great form of excercise-I always feel refreshed and full of energy being with the man friend. After a long bout of booty I tend to sleep better and wake up the next day with a smile on my face. My general overall outlook on things is far more positive after having sex with the manfriend-and it shows in all other areas of my life. It certainly relaxes me-and makes me feel connected to the man I love *blissful sigh* | |
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Posted: 8/9/2008 10:05:26 AM | | makes me hungry//// hungry for more like a lays chip. And i would have to show you what it does. Do you have the time? | |
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Posted: 8/9/2008 5:39:58 PM | | For me, I love it because it allows me to express how I feel about someone even if I just met them. If a choose to have sex with someone, it's because I find them beautiful and I enjoy the beauty of that person. I know that sounds corny, but that's my reason for it. I love the exchange of pleasure and the release it gives me. I'm never the "give her cab fare" in the morning type, I always say thank you and escort them home or spend time with them afterwards. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 7:20:49 AM | | Sex is a way to test boundaries you wouldn't otherwise.....Try out kinks and fetishes ....And can show a more aggressive side, or a more passionate side....Sex for a lot of people is a starting point, for some it's an ending point....For me it relaxes me afterward ....Sex is a natural high for me... | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:16:49 AM | | i would rather watch a movie have a beer shoot pool or go bowling camping or swimming then have sex. It doesnt do a thing for me. In my expierence most women look better with their clothes on than off. and when they brag believe the oppisite | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:20:30 AM | I'd go with all the positive points made here, I got into a serious but not particularly successful relationship when very young and stayed in it for 16yrs. I never learnt how to separate sex from all the emotional stuff and self worth stuff and usual hang ups so many people never lose, but once I was single again and got over all that I was a much happier person.
It isn't just about enjoying sex, its about an outlook on life. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:30:32 AM | | For me, making love is very mentally therapeutic. To know you're appreciated and cared about seems to lessen the weight of the little things that can get you down. Sex is nice, but making love is what I crave and miss so much. In my opinion, if the mental side isn't present, then I'm not real sure I belong in that bed. | |
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Posted: 11/18/2008 6:03:50 AM | That question is something I have asked my self for several years. What I have noticed and learned, sex can and is satisfying, it's relaxing and playful.
However, I find that sex is empty nowadays, not because the act of sex isn't fun, but rather I know for me, it's missing that true emotional bond with a woman. Once you truly experience love, it's not the orgasm that makes sex great, it's the bonding of two souls, the warm feeling we get inside of us, it's a connection of love that seems to just flow from one body through to the other, it's a sense of belonging and being a part of each other, I remember that and so much more, sex doesn't start in the bedroom, it's starts well before you even enter that room, it;s when I'm at work and you think of your partner, just the thought of her get me aroused, (and sex was not even a thought) it was just the thought of her, of course when that happens, your thoughts run wild, from past experiences to new and exciting ideas. In the end, it's not about the big O, It's truly for me, the knowing and feeling of Love, not just the word love, the true feeling of loving and being loved, if that is sex without the big "O" I used to experience that daily,, But that really wasn't the question"Love and sex",
Like many have said sex if fun, excitement, the willingness to please your sex partner,, in the end, yes relaxing, yes, contentment, but never has it been fulfilling without the "true emotion of LOVE" | |
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Posted: 11/18/2008 6:13:20 AM | Sometimes the act of being close in such an intimate way can help, I dont always need an orgasm, the act of two halves forming a 'whole' can be both beautiful and tantric in my opinion, it can be healing.
Simply being so physically close with your lover during a moment of distress, kissing eachothers tears, this is as close to 'making love' I get.
I'm all for it but then again, I rarely ever allow myself to appear that vulnerable around other people.
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Posted: 11/18/2008 6:25:17 AM |
I'm all for it but then again, I rarely ever allow myself to appear that vulnerable around other people.
I agree with you,, but what I have learned is, we don't allow ourselves/me to be vulnerable, not because we don't want to, but rather, one must have trust in the other person for our vulnerabilities to escape us, therefore that is just a part of the true bonding sex and love,, just my opinion..when we achieve that and many other thing, the act of sex, in more defined as making love, Of course that eludes me in this stage of my life,,, | |
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Posted: 11/18/2008 6:32:37 AM | | It keeps me from going on murderous rampages. More than a week without and I'm ready to pound someones head inside out, maybe thats why I like to play hockey during "that time of the month" | |
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Posted: 11/18/2008 9:34:33 AM |
sex doesn't start in the bedroom, it's starts well before you even enter that room
Good answer. I also agree with the trust and the vulnerability points you brought up. With more trust, one allows themselves to be more vulnerable. | |
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Posted: 11/18/2008 9:52:00 AM |
With more trust, one allows themselves to be more vulnerable.
I say this because I think it very relative to this topic of sex,
Vernerability,, many men might not admit to this, I will, because of what I know to be true because of my life and the love I once cherished,, I have cried during sex/love making, because of that vulnerability that we speak of,, now if a man wants to experiace an orgasm bigger than himself, with a love that is so intense, yet so free, it's the ultimate exprression of an orgasm,, because you have just experianced love in a very different /special way,, | |
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Posted: 11/22/2008 7:47:26 AM | Once you truly experience love, it's not the orgasm that makes sex great, it's the bonding of two souls, the warm feeling we get inside of us, it's a connection of love that seems to just flow from one body through to the other, it's a sense of belonging and being a part of each other, I remember that and so much more, sex doesn't start in the bedroom, it's starts well before you even enter that room, it;s when I'm at work and you think of your partner,.................
rdcnorm..............you got it
And IT is almost impossible to think of sex with less in mind!!!
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Posted: 11/22/2008 8:39:01 AM | Aside from the "O" factor sex is always good for friction burns, mental scarring and stained sheets!javascript:smilie(' ') | |
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Posted: 11/26/2008 5:44:12 AM | | Afterwards I feel loved, squooshy, smooshy, huggy, kissy, smug, cat that ate the canary, comfortable, safe, euphoric, happy, relaxed and yet energized at the same time....I am sure I'll think of some more adjectives later. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2008 5:51:42 AM | When I am having a good sex life my hair shines, my skin becomes flawless, and I notice my nails grow faster.
Seems to also attract more men too.
I think it should be a regular thing for everyone.
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