| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 10:53:41 AM | Many people are living with a parent or a parent living with them when they are aging so this is a question that may come up more frequently than one would think.
I don't see why it would be a problem, it is an issue that married couples with children deal with. If the door is locked it should not be a big deal unless he doesn't want anyone to know you are intimate. But if he is uncomfortable, he can book a hotel room unless he is totally OCD about this issue and that would bother him too.
Is there a reason you can't go to his place or is he in a similar living situation? | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 11:03:35 AM | | I rent the basement of the owner's house that I live in. hopefully that is enough privacy to at least to have sex in. So basically people live above me its almost the same as living in an apartment building I would think. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 12:37:24 PM | | I don't find anything wrong with having sex at someone else's house as long as you clean up after yourself. Sometimes the thrill of having sex in a taboo spot is a real turn on. Public sex can be very fun too. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 3:56:15 PM | | as long as idont wake up with your grandmother, heck you can even leave the wet spot in the sheets and dont tell them and make them wonder how did it get there lol | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 4:00:00 PM | At her place, my comfort level would depend on when her husband was expected to return home.
There is an old saying that a women needs a reason to have sex whereas a man just needs a place. So, if we like one another and she is comfortable whereever we are, I'd go for it. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 4:01:14 PM | Locked bedroom, backyard patio, wherever.
Just have a little tact and it's all fun and games, right? | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 7:26:03 PM | | Absolutely, I found that my endorphin level was elevated and made for very fond memories. It's a must try situation which will heighten all of your sense's. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 7:51:24 PM | i was between apartments last summer and stayed at my parents' condo for a couple months...while they were away on vacation i had a romp at their place -- in the guest room and on the balcony (22nd floor, who was gonna see us? lol). if mom and dad were home, well then that'd just be weird. so yes if i'm in someone else's home, but probably no if they're actually there...lol or at least it would be very very very quiet sex (and i'm not good at keeping quiet  ). | |
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Posted: 1/21/2008 11:24:32 PM | I would have sex at someones else's house, hell if I can I remember all the times I had to hear my parents have sex, would I want to have them hear me, I think not. I hate to be quite and you shouldn't have that limitation when having sex. Sure, it would be kindof fun to have sex down stairs when your parents are watching tv up stairs, I guess i would have to stick a sock in it. hehehee  | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/22/2008 1:05:06 AM | | Well unless it's sex with your husband, or your brother, (or father!!) Sheesh! then most sex will be at somebody elses house. | |
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| hell yeah
Posted: 1/22/2008 5:45:23 AM | danger and excitement of getting caught adds 2 the pleasure so hell yeah bring it on    | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/22/2008 8:54:36 AM | i think its no big deal and i would insist on paying for any broken furniture.
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/22/2008 2:01:22 PM | brings back memories of the scene from ..ON Golden Pond ....where Henry Fonda is discussing having sex with his daughters boyfriend
yea i have done it in my parents house got caught by my father when i was 17 with my girl friend he was suppose to be gone hunting ,,came back for lunch saw my car there ,we didnt hear him thought we were alone then he opened the door to my room ...stood there a minute and said i dont suppose you want to go hunting with me do you....then closed the door and left.... he never told anyone ...not mom or her folks ...and he knew them well... never mentioned it to me or her either | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/23/2008 10:48:56 AM | I notice that a lot of the comments are referring back to when you were teenagers and having to sneak. However, we are both in our 40's, and nobody's sneaking, and yet, he still has a problem with it.
I don't know how to deal with the fact that he feels so uncomfortable about it. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/23/2008 10:55:58 AM | | hey you will just have to get over it ...cant change peoples opinions about that only they can change themselves.... my daughter and her husband moved in my basement and i couldnt even get any while they were home ..in my own house....now i could do it with an audience dont mater to me ....but holding up them cards grading my performance would be pushing it | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/23/2008 12:55:07 PM |
If he doesn't have privacy at his house, then he will come to my house. I don't want anybody - roommates, mothers, children - anybody in the room next to us.
Why? Uh, hold a second please...
"Will you two keep it down up there!!You're gonna fall through the floor!"
Where was I? Oh yea, why?
Meh, the only thing that would stop me from doing that in an SO's house would be if children were home and could overhear. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/23/2008 2:24:33 PM |
What I really need to know is, how do you deal with a partner that doesn't feel the same way?
muzzle?? | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/23/2008 2:26:25 PM |
Meh, the only thing that would stop me from doing that in an SO's house would be if children were home and could overhear.
good point... | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/23/2008 4:15:35 PM | | Tee hee, I've had 2 boy friends in my life... I'm only 19 so that's not too bad. But the first one(last year) lived with his dad still, so yeah, we had sex in his room, the door didnt' close well, but I'm sure his dad knew what we were up to and wasn't keen on walking in... | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/23/2008 7:48:58 PM | No, no, no!!! I'm WAY too old to being engaging in anything sexual in another woman's house. Don't care if he has his own room AND the door's locked. Can't do it.
At his mother's house while she's out of town? No. What's with this guy that he doesn't have his own place? | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/24/2008 5:57:51 AM | Yeah, I don't see a problem with it, as long as you are quiet and try not to mess up the sheets to bad! LOL!
OP, you said you were both grown and not sneaking, so what is the big deal? I think that most people, (Mothers, Fathers, Grandmothers, Grandfathers, etc.) probably assume that is what you are doing in there anyway, if the two of you are sleeping in the same bed! It's what comes natural when two people are attracted to one another.
I can't see where it would be any different than having sex whenever you could get the chance if you had kids. Are you NOT going to have sex just because your kids are in the house? I don't think so! You just lock the door and try not to make too much noise!
I think your boyfriend is way too uptight! Maybe he needs to see a psycologist. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:09:44 AM | Gez, throw him on his back in the middle of Sunday Family dinner and teach him to lighten up already! Adults have ***GASP*** SEX, can you imagine?
Um, well, LUCKY adults have sex!
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/24/2008 7:33:10 AM | | I have trouble swinging from the light fixture in someone else's house..Swan dives are also out.Finally can't give my Tarzan yell either. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/24/2008 7:43:40 AM | | I like to express myself also, but if it's "Have sex at someone else's house" or "No Sex", ... I'm going with the first option! | |
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