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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 1/27/2008 5:52:36 PM | After-Thought by Lord Alfred Tennyson
I thought of Thee, my partner and my guide, As being past away. -Vain sympathies! For backward, Duddon! as I cast my eyes, I see what was, and is, and will abide; Still glides the Stream, and shall not cease to glide; The Form remains, the Function never dies; While we, the brave, the mighty, and the wise, We Men, who in our morn of youth defied The elements, must vanish; -be it so! Enough, if something from our hands have power To live, and act, and serve the future hour; And if, as toward the silent tomb we go, Through love, through hope, and faith's transcendent dower, We feel that we are greater than we know. | |
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 2/1/2008 5:13:27 AM | Spirits of the Dead...
Thy soul shall find itself alone 'Mid dark thoughts of the grey tomb-stone; Not one, of all the crowd, to pry Into thine hour of secrecy.
Be silent in that solitude, Which is not loneliness- for then The spirits of the dead, who stood In life before thee, are again In death around thee, and their will Shall overshadow thee; be still.
The night, though clear, shall frown, And the stars shall not look down From their high thrones in the Heaven With light like hope to mortals given, But their red orbs, without beam, To thy weariness shall seem As a burning and a fever Which would cling to thee for ever.
Now are thoughts thou shalt not banish, Now are visions ne'er to vanish; From thy spirit shall they pass No more, like dew-drop from the grass.
The breeze, the breath of God, is still, And the mist upon the hill Shadowy, shadowy, yet unbroken, Is a symbol and a token. How it hangs upon the trees, A mystery of mysteries!
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 2/1/2008 5:46:35 AM | LIGHT
by: John Milton (1608-1674)
AIL holy light, ofspring of Heav'n first-born, Or of th' Eternal Coeternal beam May I express thee unblam'd? since God is light, And never but in unapproachèd light Dwelt from Eternitie, dwelt then in thee, Bright effluence of bright essence increate. Or hear'st thou rather pure Ethereal stream, Whose Fountain who shall tell? before the Sun, Before the Heavens thou wert, and at the voice Of God, as with a Mantle didst invest The rising world of waters dark and deep, Won from the void and formless infinite. Thee I re-visit now with bolder wing, Escap't the Stygian Pool, though long detain'd In that obscure sojourn, while in my flight Through utter and through middle darkness borne With other notes then to th' Orphean Lyre I sung of Chaos and Eternal Night, Taught by the heav'nly Muse to venture down The dark descent, and up to reascend, Though hard and rare: thee I revisit safe, And feel thy sovran vital Lamp; but thou Revisit'st not these eyes, that rowle in vain To find thy piercing ray, and find no dawn; So thick a drop serene hath quencht thir Orbs, Or dim suffusion veild. Yet not the more Cease I to wander where the Muses haunt Cleer Spring, or shadie Grove, or Sunnie Hill, Smit with the love of sacred song; but chief Thee Sion and the flowrie Brooks beneath That wash thy hallowd feet, and warbling flow, Nightly I visit: nor sometimes forget Those other two equal'd with me in Fate, So were I equal'd with them in renown. Blind Thamyris and blind Mæonides, And Tiresias and Phineus Prophets old. Then feed on thoughts, that voluntarie move Harmonious numbers; as the wakeful Bird Sings darkling, and in shadiest Covert hid Tunes her nocturnal Note. Thus with the Year Seasons return, but not to me returns Day, or the sweet approach of Ev'n or Morn, Or sight of vernal bloom, or Summers Rose, Or flocks, or herds, or human face divine; But cloud in stead, and ever-during dark Surrounds me, from the chearful waies of men Cut off, and for the Book of knowledge fair Presented with a Universal blanc Of Natures works to mee expung'd and ras'd, And wisdome at one entrance quite shut out. So much the rather thou Celestial light Shine inward, and the mind through all her powers Irradiate, there plant eyes, all mist from thence Purge and disperse, that I may see and tell Of things invisible to mortal sight. | |
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| MYSTICISM Posted: 6/28/2008 9:02:40 AM | By intuition, Mighty Things Assert themselves – and not by terms – “I”m Midnight” – need the Midnight say – “I”m Sunrise” – Need the Majesty? Omnipotence – had not a Tongue – His lisp – is lightning – and the sun – His Conversation– with Sea – “How shall you know”? Consult your eye!
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| MYSTICISM Posted: 6/28/2008 9:15:13 AM | Mystic Analysis
The air is a mill of hooks -- Questions without answer, Glittering and drunk as flies Whose kiss stings unbearably In the fetid wombs of black air under pines in summer.
I remember The dead smell of sun on wood cabins, The stiffness of sails, the long salt winding sheets. Once one has seen God, what is the remedy? Once one has been seized up
Without a part left over, Not a toe, not a finger, and used, Used utterly, in the sun's conflagration, the stains That lengthen from ancient cathedrals What is the remedy?
The pill of the Communion tablet, The walking beside still water? Memory? Or picking up the bright pieces Of Christ in the faces of rodents, The tame flower-nibblers, the ones
Whose hopes are so low they are comfortable -- The humpback in his small, washed cottage Under the spokes of the clematis. Is there no great love, only tenderness? Does the sea
Remember the walker upon it? Meaning leaks from the molecules. The chimneys of the city breathe, the window sweats, The children leap in their cots. The sun blooms, it is a geranium.
The heart has not stopped.
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| I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings Posted: 6/28/2008 3:26:31 PM | I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings The free bird leaps on the back of the win and floats downstream till the current ends and dips his wings in the orange sun rays and dares to claim the sky.
But a bird that stalks down his narrow cage can seldom see through his bars of rage his wings are clipped and his feet are tied so he opens his throat to sing.
The caged bird sings with fearful trill of the things unknown but longed for still and is tune is heard on the distant hillfor the caged bird sings of freedom
The free bird thinks of another breeze an the trade winds soft through the sighing trees and the fat worms waiting on a dawn-bright lawn and he names the sky his own.
But a caged bird stands on the grave of dreams his shadow shouts on a nightmare scream his wings are clipped and his feet are tied so he opens his throat to sing
The caged bird sings with a fearful trill of things unknown but longed for still and his tune is heard on the distant hill for the caged bird sings of freedom.
Maya Angelou | |
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| I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings Posted: 6/28/2008 4:01:28 PM | I love this thread. I come back oft to read the beauty that shines through in all of your words.
Each step that takes me closer to death brings me back to the view that I want to live every moment, squeeze in every laugh, every child's smile I can see, every hug that wraps it's arms around me, every sparkle of a friend's eye, every person that is soul deep, wrought in friendship, sealed in love.
and music is a must. Spirit in the Sky is a great one...happy songs. I loved the idea of Jim Henson's passing becoming a huge celebration. I also love that some people in New Orleans make a passing a party.
Isnt' it?
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| I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings Posted: 6/28/2008 4:02:09 PM | jesyka, ^^^ wow! i was just looking for this book in my collection to reread it. frequencies, frequencies and more frequencies.
i love it! | |
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| Restless Farewell Posted: 6/28/2008 4:35:05 PM | Oh all the money that in my whole life I did spend, Be it mine right or wrongfully, I let it slip gladly past the hands of my friends To tie up the time most forcefully. But the bottles are done, We've killed each one And the table's full and overflowed. And the corner sign Says it's closing time, So I'll bid farewell and be down the road.
Oh ev'ry girl that ever I've touched, I did not do it harmfully. And ev'ry girl that ever I've hurt, I did not do it knowin'ly. But to remain as friends and make amends You need the time and stay behind. And since my feet are now fast And point away from the past, I'll bid farewell and be down the line.
Oh ev'ry foe that ever I faced, The cause was there before we came. And ev'ry cause that ever I fought, I fought it full without regret or shame. But the dark does die As the curtain is drawn and somebody's eyes Must meet the dawn. And if I see the day I'd only have to stay, So I'll bid farewell in the night and be gone.
Oh, ev'ry thought that's strung a knot in my mind, I might go insane if it couldn't be sprung. But it's not to stand naked under unknowin' eyes, It's for myself and my friends my stories are sung. But the time ain't tall, Yet on time you depend and no word is possessed By no special friend. And though the line is cut, It ain't quite the end, I'll just bid farewell till we meet again.
Oh a false clock tries to tick out my time To disgrace, distract, and bother me. And the dirt of gossip blows into my face, And the dust of rumors covers me. But if the arrow is straight And the point is slick, It can pierce through dust no matter how thick. So I'll make my stand And remain as I am And bid farewell and not give a damn. | |
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 6/28/2008 5:10:00 PM | Remembered Joy...... Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free! I follow the plan God laid for me. I saw His face, I heard His call, I took His hand and left it all... I could not stay another day, To love, to laugh, to work or play; Tasks left undone must stay that way. And if my parting has left a void, Then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss... Ah yes, these things I, too, shall miss. My life's been full, I've savoured much: Good times, good friends, a loved-one's touch. Perhaps my time seemed all too brief— Don't shorten yours with undue grief. Be not burdened with tears of sorrow, Enjoy the sunshine of the morrow. | |
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 6/28/2008 5:25:12 PM | awesome idea for a thread....made me think of this write off tops....not the one i'd have at my funeral......but still....
When I Die
when i die i hope no one who ever hurt me cries and if they cry i hope their eyes fall out and a million maggots that had made up their brains crawl from the empty holes and devour the flesh that covered the evil that passed itself off as a person that i probably tried to love
-Nikkie Giovanni | |
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 6/28/2008 5:41:54 PM | I have, myself, full confidence that if all do their duty, if nothing is neglected, and if the best arrangements are made, as they are being made, we shall prove ourselves once again able to defend our Island home, to ride out the storm of war, and to outlive the menace of tyranny, if necessary for years, if necessary alone.
At any rate, that is what we are going to try to do. That is the resolve of His Majesty's Government-every man of them. That is the will of Parliament and the nation. The British Empire and the French Republic, linked together in their cause and in their need, will defend to the death their native soil, aiding each other like good comrades to the utmost of their strength.
Even though large tracts of Europe and many old and famous States have fallen or may fall into the grip of the Gestapo and all the odious apparatus of Nazi rule,
we shall not flag or fail. We shall go on to the end, we shall fight in France, we shall fight on the seas and oceans, we shall fight with growing confidence and growing strength in the air, we shall defend our Island, whatever the cost may be, we shall fight on the beaches, we shall fight on the landing grounds, we shall fight in the fields and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills; we shall never surrender, and even if, which I do not for a moment believe, this Island or a large part of it were subjugated and starving, then our Empire beyond the seas, armed and guarded by the British Fleet, would carry on the struggle, until, in God's good time, the New World, with all its power and might, steps forth to the rescue and the liberation of the old.
from "We Shall Fight on the Beaches" - Sir Winston Churchill ..........................................................................June 4, 1940
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 6/28/2008 8:23:39 PM | Sickle
Soon comes the Reaper. At what price is our harvest? Uncertain yield of hope Tiled in another time, A gentler season. What seeds are left On cracking ground? Who mows the bearded grasses Fragrant in the Summer's sun?
Such heavy fruits remain To feed those lovers left behind. Windfall bitter tart With metal's tang. The lush to pick so sweet with Lifetimes' ripened flesh. The scythe is of the cycle. Weary shoulders ache to burning. Cut to die.
T. Thorn Coyle | |
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 6/28/2008 8:23:54 PM | I would ask for any one of these to be read:
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The Blue Wind (by Nadja a surrealist poet 1902-1940)
I am the thought on the bath in the room without mirrors
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Time is a tease – because everything happens in its own time.
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With the end of my breath, which is the beginning of yours.
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The lion’s claw embraces the vine’s breast.
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I want to touch serenity with a figure wet with tears.
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Why this scale which wavered in the darkness of a hole full of coal pellets?
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Not to weigh down one’s thoughts with the weight of one’s shoes.
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A game. Say something. Close your eyes and say something. Anything, a number, a name. Like this: Two, two what? Two women. What do they look like? Where are they? In a park…and then, what are they doing? Try it, it’s so easy…You know, that’s how I talk to myself when I’m alone, I tell myself all kinds of stories. And not only silly stories: actually, I live this way altogether.
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The blue and the wind, the blue wind.
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I cannot be reached.
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Recognition (by Alejandra Piznarnick)
You made the silence of lilacs swaying in the tragic breezes of my heart. You made my life a tale for children where deaths and shipwrecks are pretexts for splendid parties.
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Bird dressed as solitude and tears... (by Jeannette Miller)
Bird dressed as solitude and tears, I see your body elapse. After the flows After the bitter tears, the song of the leopard in your eyes of wind.
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Shadow Of Things To Come (by Alejandra Piznarnick)
Tomorrow they will clothe me in ashes at dawn they will fill my mouth with flowers. I will learn to sleep with the memory of a wall with the breathing of an animal that dreams. | |
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 6/28/2008 10:34:13 PM | When I die Laugh Think of any time That brings a smile Then Laugh You can't look at me For I'll be ash Mix me up with water In a douche Run Me through One last time With a sweet woman That drinks life And Laugh | |
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 6/30/2008 7:11:56 AM | Why! who makes much of a miracle? As to me, I know of nothing else but miracles, Whether I walk the streets of Manhattan, Or dart my sight over the roofs of houses toward the sky, Or wade with naked feet along the beach, just in the edge of the water, Or stand under trees in the woods, Or talk by day with any one I love--or sleep in the bed at night with any one I love, Or sit at table at dinner with my mother, Or look at strangers opposite me riding in the car, Or watch honey-bees busy around the hive, of a summer forenoon, Or animals feeding in the fields, Or birds--or the wonderfulness of insects in the air, Or the wonderfulness of the sun-down--or of stars shining so quiet and bright, Or the exquisite, delicate, thin curve of the new moon in spring; Or whether I go among those I like best, and that like me best-- mechanics, boatmen, farmers, Or among the savans--or to the soiree--or to the opera, Or stand a long while looking at the movements of machinery, Or behold children at their sports, Or the admirable sight of the perfect old man, or the perfect old woman, Or the sick in hospitals, or the dead carried to burial, Or my own eyes and figure in the glass; These, with the rest, one and all, are to me miracles, The whole referring--yet each distinct, and in its place.
To me, every hour of the light and dark is a miracle, Every cubic inch of space is a miracle, Every square yard of the surface of the earth is spread with the same, Every foot of the interior swarms with the same; Every spear of grass--the frames, limbs, organs, of men and women, and all that concerns them, All these to me are unspeakably perfect miracles.
To me the sea is a continual miracle; The fishes that swim--the rocks--the motion of the waves--the ships, with men in them, What stranger miracles are there?
~ Walt Whitman
(in a last attempt to encourage others around me see the greatness in it all) | |
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 6/30/2008 10:08:33 AM |
Which poem would you want recited in your honor?
Mama plucked all the feathers off her guardian angel God sent more angels
…She teased them unmercifully Finally in His Grace He took her home
Now she finally resides at God’s feet He better give her the answers
…unless He wants hell for eternity
I hope my children know how to laugh through the tears, there’s nothing like writing your own eulogy  | |
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 6/30/2008 1:45:35 PM | "God alone is enough."
Let nothing upset you, let nothing startle you. All things pass; God does not change. Patience wins all it seeks. Whoever has God lacks nothing: God alone is enough.
by St Teresa Avila | |
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| MYSTICISM Posted: 6/30/2008 1:52:24 PM | Confused and Distraught
Again I am raging, I am in such a state by your soul that every bond you bind, I break, by your soul. I am like heaven, like the moon, like a candle by your glow; I am all reason, all love, all soul, by your soul. My joy is of your doing, my hangover of your thorn; whatever side you turn your face, I turn mine, by your soul. I spoke in error; it is not surprising to speak in error in this state, for this moment I cannot tell cup from wine, by your soul. I am that madman in bonds who binds the "divs"; I, the madman, am a Solomon with the "divs", by your soul.
Whatever form other than love raises up its head from my heart, forthwith I drive it out of the court of my heart, by your soul. Come, you who have departed, for the thing that departs comes back; neither you are that, by my soul, nor I am that, by your soul. Disbeliever, do not conceal disbelief in your soul, for I will recite the secret of your destiny, by your soul. Out of love of Sham-e Tabrizi, through wakefulness or nightrising, like a spinning mote I am distraught, by your soul.
by Rumi
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| If you where Dying, At your funeral... Posted: 6/30/2008 3:53:17 PM | I would want someone to read this to inspire the living:
The Dash
I read of a man who stood to speak, at the funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates on her tombstone from the beginning…to the end.
He noted that first came the date of her birth and spoke of the following date with tears, but he said that what mattered most of all was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth and now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own the cars…the house…the cash… What matters is how we live and love… and how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard; are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left that can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough to consider what’s true and real… and always try to understand the way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger and show appreciation more and love the people in our lives… like we’ve never loved before
If we treat each other with respect And more often wear a smile… remembering that this special dash might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy is being read… with you life’s actions to rehash… would you be proud of the things they say… about how you spent your dash? | |
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