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itsjsmejj

Joined: 8/2/2007
Msg: 50
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I know what your problem is...... Posted: 1/23/2008 2:57:02 AM
Msg 24, MissPriss, I can so relate to what you say as I've self sabatoged every dating relationship I've ever had. Married twice, and they ended for other reasons, but you say it nicely and it's something that honestly never crossed my mind before but is so true! I never trusted myself. So bringing us to the now, I've found my fishie, and found her right here on POF! Well, she found me actually. Point is that we're sooooo perfect for each other, clicking going off in my head on every single level. And still one night I found myself in a small anxiety attack awhile back. Why? It's so clear to me now that I just didn't trust myself. And I actually believe I'm a pretty cool guy! I've had almost 18 years of clean sobriety, gone down many roads in that time and learned many life lessons, and truly have made myself into a better person, one who is ready and deserving of a like person in my life. Still there was that last trust hurdle to overcome. Good thing is, I've done it. And now today I have a woman in my life who is very likely going to become a permanent fixture in my life one day soon. GREAT post OP.

Two Hawks

Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 51
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I know what your problem is...... Posted: 1/23/2008 3:16:39 AM
Two Hawks takes the Talking Stick from Cosmic: Cosmic, dear woman...what an absolutely magnificent post! My hat is off to you for that one! Sometimes when we hit a fork in our life path, we cannot decide which way to go. It is then when our inner strength takes over and guides us to the answers we are seeking. It may be a simple book? It may be something someone says? But we are guided toward the answer we are seeking. I am in full agreement with you on the "getting laid" part. For some...sex is the answer to all problems. THEY HAVE MUCH TO LEARN! When I read something like that I want to go somewhere and yell AAAARRRRGGGGHHHH! then give a big rock a good swift kick! So immature! No offence guys, but "getting laid" ISN'T the answer! Again Cosmic Angle....I thank you for your very timely kind remarks. Your post made my evening! Two Hawks passes the Talking Stick

outofthedesert

Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 52

I know what your problem is...... Posted: 1/23/2008 4:14:06 AM
Maybe some of us should take a serious look at the stick by which we measure ourselves.

Wemble_on_KrimiaRiver

Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 53

I know what your problem is...... Posted: 1/23/2008 6:59:38 AM
outofthedesert wrote: Maybe some of us should take a serious look at the stick by which we measure ourselves. Some people have one stick to measure themselves and a different one to measure others. They demand others to live up to a standard that they do not meet themselves, but will nobly bleat about how they will not settle.

Wolves-Lower

Joined: 9/9/2006
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I know what your problem is...... Posted: 1/23/2008 9:31:20 AM
If I didn't sabatoge myself, who would? Self sabatoge is often self protection. It is the subconcious way of settling things up. Now the real question is, "Why am I killing myself?"

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