| | What do women mean when they say I feel safe with him?Page 7 of 7 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7) | As I observe all these answers from women they vary in need which means their interpretation of safety was developed from their own experiences which made them feel in danger or insecure, these answers are the remedy for their own personal need of safety.
I guess a mans version of this same Question would be What makes A Man feel Respected and Loved because those are the qualities that unlock our desire to protect those we consider our loved ones. | |
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| What do women mean when they say I feel safe with him?
Posted: 2/9/2013 11:37:19 AM | | That's a good question op. I want to know the answer myself. This girl told me exactly that and I never really thought about it till you started this thread. I am tall and I am nice, lol. It's gotta be more than that. I ended up getting frustrated with this woman because she wouldn't have sex with me and she wasn't trying to get other boyfriends. I guess she was just going through a rough time in her life, she had gone to prison for murder and I did help her as much as I could, but I was young and she is probably gone forever. I've been in at least 3 other relationships since then and none of these women have what I need. Money, gold, black gold, Texas Tea. | |
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| What do women mean when they say I feel safe with him?
Posted: 2/9/2013 5:23:26 PM | When I say that, it means that I don't feel he is going to hurt me or break my heart. It means I trust him in every way. I met a guy on POF I felt that way about. Different women mean it in different ways I guess, but for me it had nothing to do with money or anything like that. I don't know what made me feel like that about him. I just did from the moment I met him.
The men answering your question are either joking or don't have a clue. I felt this guy was a "keeper" and it had nothing to do with money, looks, or anything like that. It also didn't mean I just wanted him for a friend. I really liked him quite a bit.
I don't recall ever having that "safe" feeling before.
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| What do women mean when they say I feel safe with him?
Posted: 2/9/2013 5:23:53 PM | | If she feels safe it means she trusts him with her heart. This is what all women are looking for and very few women find it, so if a woman actually says this out loud you can bet she won't be letting him go. | |
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| What do women mean when they say I feel safe with him?
Posted: 2/9/2013 6:01:29 PM |
If she feels safe it means she trusts him with her heart. This is what all women are looking for and very few women find it, so if a woman actually says this out loud you can bet she won't be letting him go.
.. nah... this guy VVVVVVVVVVVV has it correct....
" I feel safe with him " means that he's a good guy to hang out with until a bad boy who REALLY turns her on shows up or the bad boy she had kids with decides to show up again. The " safe guy " is a temporary guy who she can do things with, who is always there for her, listens and talks with her.
" Safe guy " and " nice guy " are often interchangeable terms but " safe guy " may end up in her bed for a while.
The safe guy is in the same group as the woman's gay male friends.
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| What do women mean when they say I feel safe with him?
Posted: 2/9/2013 7:52:12 PM |
As I said: the men are either joking or don't have a clue.
il capitano proves my point.
Yah-but, did you bang him, or put him in with the gay friends?
Besides.... you speak for all the rest of your sistahs? Nah, don't think so.... feeling safe doesn't equate to wanting to bang the guy. I'd say it's likely NOT much of a real turn on.
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| What do women mean when they say I feel safe with him?
Posted: 2/9/2013 8:26:47 PM | It sounds like a compliment when a gorgeous lady says to you.."I feel safe with you".
Two points of concern. She finds you predictable and unattractive. Not physically attracted to you. You could also be a "provider". So basically you are in for a headache. You could be the safe house and provider whiles she finds someone exciting, and if you are lucky, she will dump you and move on with the new fella...If unlucky then you will be sharing her fine assets with someone else ..not that this is rare. lol..Most do share without knowing..ignorance is truly bliss. | |
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| What do women mean when they say I feel safe with him?
Posted: 2/10/2013 3:49:40 PM | | he has your back when out in public, even though you might disagree on things. he doesn't loose it too often and when he does, no physical overtures. yes, there is a physical component as well, but it is secondary in my world to the first. if i was in the wild west, maybe it would be different. he is trustworthy, stable, reliable and kind. not a flake or liar. | |
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