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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 4/17/2008 12:24:57 AM | Date a woman with little or no sex drive.Sex or making love is the glue to a relationship.As far as I'm concerned if your in a relationship ..no sex no relationship.
No sex or just a little,dam scarey wake me up I'm having a nightmare!Its bad enough when your single dam it! | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 4/17/2008 12:35:07 AM | Hi get another medical opinion or perhaps the md may lower the dosage of your anti depressants would help. I have heard certain vitamins can help with depression for instance Vitamin D I believe...also a creative outlet for some helps.
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 4/17/2008 8:46:08 AM | Very difficult to say, I'd only being wanting to have sex with her if I love her and my sex drive is very high so not being able to as often as possible would be difficult
If she would let me for purely the emotional bond then maybe, if she's getting a lot from that side of things but even then without her physical pleasure to me it seem nearly pointless.
Only real solution is if she being happy for me to have a second girlfriend with a much higher drive, but does mean I'm having to love another women as well as her which might not be to her liking  | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 4/18/2008 2:02:10 PM | I won't win over the pharmaceutical companies by saying this, but antidepressants mess you up bad. They alter your neurotransmitters and instead of fixing the problem, train your body that the current levels are normal since you're supplying the extra. Most of the time they make things worse, frequently leading to suicide or anger issues.
If you're on birth control pills, that's the cause right there. They severly mess with your hormones and sex drive. I was on them for ten years before I realized that's what was making me seriously depressed.
As to the sex drive, the right man is the key. I lost interest very quickly in guys and had the impression I was frigid. I was 33 before I found one that actually took the time to please me, inside and out, and then there was no stopping me.
Good luck to you. :-) | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 5/9/2008 5:23:40 PM | Alot of men end up marrying such women.
Nope sorry absolutely not. If she has little or no sex drive I don't see the point of dating her. If I want dating without sex or intimacy I might as well date a heterosexual man. | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 5/9/2008 7:11:58 PM | | If she did not act like she was dead during sex, sure. Even if she is unable to cum she would probably enjoy being kissed and touched. What I could not handle is if she simply would not have sex at all. | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 5/9/2008 10:49:23 PM | No sex drive would be ok as long as that didn't limit things too much. If she was still willing preferably enjoyed everything else but actual intercourse, I could handle it assuming she was still comfortable helping me with my needs/desires.
Now if the interest was such she didn't even like to be touched or just sat there then no I couldn't do it. | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 5/11/2008 10:32:23 AM | Sorry OP, no way I could do that. I pretty much need to have some sort of sexual activity everytime I see my partner. Hence why I don't want to live with someone.
I didn't used to be that way, and it isn't a misogynistic thing. I just got spoiled by a couple of women last year.
I'm throwing my support into finding new medications that will help you not lose your drive. But also, it's most important that you maintain your treatment. Anything else, not nearly as important. | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 5/25/2008 6:59:11 AM | Op
No, I wouldn't get involved with a woman that didn't freely enjoy sex, and have a sex drive at least equal to my own.
If she doesn't have a natural craving for it, but instead just does it for you, it will eventually become something that feels like an obligation to her, and eventually there will be conflict over sex and the frequency of it.
And you will end up a very lonely man. | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 5/25/2008 11:43:11 AM | | I have to ask, if she(or he) isnt wanting to rip the clothes off their partner every time they see them in the early days(and mentaining that to some degree later on) are they really with the right person or have they settled for less(assuming there isnt a health reason for low sex drive of course) | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 5/29/2008 7:41:38 PM | | Hell my best lover of all time started out like a race horse leaving the gates and after two years completely lost her sex drive and I still Love that woman ! If anything just for the memories I will always have. So the answer is yes I would stay with a woman with no sex drive but I doubt I could start a relationship with one. | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:23:06 PM | | Sorry about the antidepressants however....I would not date nor embark on any sort of relationship with any female with no sex drive. I am keeping it honest! Frankly, what would be the point? If I were Richard Simmons maybe then we could go to the movies, restaurants, shopping for designer shoes, watching reruns of “Sex in the City” on the women’s channel? However I am not he therefore why would any heterosexual male waste their precious time in a sexless dead end? Why? (Maybe you should ask your doctor to revise your dosage). | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:49:43 PM | | I did and it was difficult; All this antidepressant stuff in an American phenomenon; we use it like candy; 79% of antidepressant and mental meds taken in the world are taken by the U.S. Its way overprescribed. I wouldn't date anyone that used them. | |
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| men..would you date a woman with little or no sex drive?
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:56:05 PM | Most anti-depressants cause your libido to decrease. However, you can find one that works for you and does not decrease your sex drive.
Intimacy is extremely important for most, so this would probably be a huge issue!
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