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 floosie
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 26
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Exactly right, OP. Kiss of death.
 PostPunk
Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 27
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/25/2008 10:14:23 PM
No, no no, ChattyCathy got it right.

It's all in the context, but last time I used that word I couldnt get enough of him.
 floosie
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 28
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/25/2008 10:25:27 PM

Every woman is going to have a different answer for you.


Looks like discofied got it right.
 Irishlass0668
Joined: 5/6/2007
Msg: 29
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/25/2008 10:34:08 PM
Suppose you should consider the source. When I call a guy sweet or say something he did or said sweet....I really like him a lot. He has not been relegated to the friend zone, it does not mean he will not see any action from me. If I have relegated a guy to the friend zone...its "cool" or "nice.
 dnguyen4
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 30
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/25/2008 10:40:47 PM
What if she say he's a great guy. What does that mean? I told her I like her, and she say that was sweet, and I was a great guy.
 punem264
Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 31
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 1:05:48 AM
Sweet means to me, a really super duper guy who is a rare find. The sweet guys I find are gentle, always try to be there for u in your time of need. Can be soft and mushy too. He. He. Oh, I almost forgot the eyes get me going too.

 Marius66
Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 32
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 1:27:23 AM

For those of you that use that term, do you mean that he is nice, but nothing more? Should a guy be offended if a woman uses that on him? What exactly do you mean?


If a woman says she thinks you are sweet.....she is been sincere and using it as a term of endearment....it is no way offensive.

The only men who will find it offensive are those who are paranoid and have insecurity issues.....

It's unbelievable how people think the term" sweet" has a double meaning
 RedCassandra
Joined: 10/9/2007
Msg: 33
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What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 1:28:26 AM
If she's on a low-carb diet, no fun coming anytime soon.

If she has a sweet tooth - lots of fun coming his way.

In fact, enough fun to make the green banana dance.

 zippylarue
Joined: 5/21/2006
Msg: 34
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 4:46:04 PM
I call a guy "sweet" when he is not afraid to give you compliments and wears his heart on his sleeve. I love sweet guys.


Exactly!! When I tell a man he is 'sweet', it's a compliment, not a bad thing at all! It means he smiles when he talks to me and says lovely things. He's not a phoney, he's honest, he listens. He's compassionate and truly cares about other people and treats them with respect. He may be a little shy, but, yes, he wears his heart on his sleeve. He makes you feel truly desired and cared for. There's nothing more attractive than that!

There are a lot of 'pacifier' things that both men and women say to each other, in my world 'sweet' is not one of them.

Zip
 lil_feet_80
Joined: 10/29/2007
Msg: 35
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 4:52:50 PM
I would equate a sweet guy with someone who is thoughtful... thinks about things that will please me and does them. I would definately take it as a compliment...oh and a guy can be hot as hell and sweet... that would be such a lovely combo.
 firedupdesire
Joined: 10/7/2007
Msg: 36
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 5:07:56 PM
you and me both huh? Getting called sweet means, you're nice, but there's no way in Hell.
 rguy84
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 37
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What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 5:19:21 PM
I found it to be like "oh buddy I think you are cool, but I would never date you." But if its from a friend, it means they can see you care and she's saying thanks.
 firedupdesire
Joined: 10/7/2007
Msg: 38
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 5:21:56 PM
add a little to that my friend. "Thanks and... you know that guy who's a total D-bag? yeah, him, the guy that beat up those 7th graders eariler today, just to look cool? yeah, he asked me out. I'm spending the night at his house"
 painterpaul
Joined: 12/11/2007
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What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 5:33:40 PM
funny how almost all the guys responses say it is the kiss of death, and you can put me in that category.

I think annikat told it like it really was. Most of the really nice guys who do things that women call sweet dont get laid often. Usually they get laid when they are all pissed off and run into some girl. She gets on his nerves he tells her off and she gets so hot she cant wait to do him. That is why ALL men know if you getted called an A$$hole then you are in like flynn.
 SueisWho
Joined: 1/9/2008
Msg: 40
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 6:25:32 PM
And how many women love chocolate???? hmmm....
 firedupdesire
Joined: 10/7/2007
Msg: 41
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 6:41:54 PM
I rest my case and my belief in your words.
 Globalman56
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 42
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 8:03:23 PM
As others have mentioned here, the bottom line is:

Men: if a woman says that to you, don't assume you are "friend forever", there is still hope.

Women: if you are going to say that to a man, combine it with another signal, a sparkle in the eyes, a touch of the hand (good) or gazing off into the distance (bad). As you probably know, no subtlety - you have to hit us over the head with it!

From now on, if a woman ever says that to me I will reply "what exactly do you mean by that?"

Thanks to all for the responses.
 passionandsong
Joined: 10/9/2007
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What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 8:14:32 PM
i still say i have never got a datefrom a girl who said i was a sweet guy.
 Beholder
Joined: 5/23/2007
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Posted: 1/26/2008 8:15:28 PM

if you are going to say that to a man, combine it with another signal
Preferably some sort of groping, 'cause the instant they hear "sweet", most guys are immediately picturing themselves falling in to a bottomless pit. (Okay well that might be just me, but... definitely thinking of something unpleasant.)

 floosie
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 45
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 8:40:13 PM
What if she say he's a great guy. What does that mean? I told her I like her, and she say that was sweet, and I was a great guy.


In that context, said that way, it means move on. She's not interested.

Don't worry, you're young and you've got lots of time. Pre-med means you're gong to be super busy over the next few years anyway. Wait until you're a doctor, the women will be falling all over you then.
 dnguyen4
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 46
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 9:02:59 PM
But when she say it she already has a bf.
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 47
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 9:08:45 PM
This is complicated.. so bear with me. You won't believe your eyes, but trust me. I know I'm right about this.

Are you ready? Brace yourself. Perhaps you ought to sit down... just in case the shock overtakes you...

It means that you're sweet. AKA decent. AKA nice.

Trippy, huh?
 nickphilosoph
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 48
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/26/2008 10:12:15 PM
So from what I read, at worst it means friends zone, at best it means appealing but only when coupled with "hot" etc. So "sweet", alone, suks!
 passionandsong
Joined: 10/9/2007
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What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/27/2008 10:52:49 PM
every girl that responded to this thread are very nice girls.
 hapeenurse
Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 50
What does it mean when a woman calls a guy sweet
Posted: 1/27/2008 10:55:58 PM
it's a compliment, sometimes it really means "you're sweet!"
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