| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 9/14/2006 9:03:03 AM | OK im goin to revive this thread as i did a thread search ..
I heard about this from an american friend of mine and i read through this thread
Im still not sure i completely understand
Am i correct in saying :
Tantric sex is so that the body deprives itself from ejaculation and focuses on the feelings of orgasm ???
I also think it it something like a deeper connection to the partner your sharing this with and focuses on the feelings of sex and lovemaking instead of the ultimate orgasm in turn producing mind blowing sexual experiences
Am i right > am i wrong > is it worth trying ? Anyone have any other experiences or stories to share ?
I find this interesting as where my friend is in Georgia Tantric sex is all the rage ( and ive never heard about it or knew it existed till she told me about it this morning !!!!!)
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| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 9/14/2006 1:34:17 PM |
Tantric sex is so that the body deprives itself from ejaculation and focuses on the feelings of orgasm ???
You are never to deprive yourself of the orgasm - men or women - you are supposed to prolong it and yes focus on the feelings of the orgasm. You have to make yourself aware of every factor that leads to the orgasm. What is your body and mind feeling as you climax and go towards the orgasm? How does your skin feel? What sensations are you experiencing?
What triggers you to feel the greatest sensations? Make your mind go directly to the sensations or your body and away from anything outside of your experience. Of course focus on your partner but pay special attention to the way your bodies are connecting. How do your bodies function together that makes the experience fruitful? Look inward to that aura you get before orgasm then hold on to it as long as you can then don't ever stop any sensation let your body take over and orgasm naturally - never yell stop let it be! Your orgasm will be spectacular and hopefully you will carry that feeling on until you meet again. You should be able to keep the sensations in your minds eye from encounter to encounter. Each time you touch or think of your partner you will feel orgasmic and crave the encounters more and more. You need not worry if your partner is not tantric since this comes from within you - but if your partner is also tantric then baby you have a keeper!!! LOL Enjoy!
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| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 9/15/2006 12:33:14 PM | | I am sitting here wonder where have I been? I seen the word on a thread and bumped into this thread now I must run to Google for I need to know more. | |
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Posted: 12/12/2006 7:54:55 AM | | leanne has it !1 i cant explain it any better. there is supposed to be an eastern religious part to it but who s thinking of that when you re in a sensuall trance tantricman3athm | |
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| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 12/12/2006 8:09:46 AM | A 'trance' is a BIG part of many eastern religions. In a very real way true Tantric practices are akin to meditation...if you don't have the patience/discipline for that, you probably won't get the full value out of the other.
That being said, anything that get you more in tune w/ yourself & partner ought to at least be explored.  | |
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| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 6/11/2007 9:21:16 PM | If you really believe the nonsense about the Quodoushka, try this link:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chuluaqui_Quodoushka
I've done the "Q" as it's called. It's such a f***ing waste of time. It's been described as a school for sluts. I can readily agree. The things they do as "ceremonies" are so pathetically "new age native american" as to make you cry with laughter or indignation. The article linked above is about as accurate a description as I've ever seen.
They had some chubby broad showing us her c**t as part of the demonstrations. Like I really need to see some poor fat ****'s cooey. She acted like the slut she was. There were people there that didn't even know each other masturbating each other and calling it a "massage" of some type.
All shrouded in mystical sounding hindu and kemo sabe indian s**t.
Did it improve my sex life? Yes tremendously. We finished the seminar weekend, and decided we'd been ripped off. We got our money back after we threatened to go to the media.(they try and force some crap non-disclosure agreement on you - boyfriend at the time was a good lawyer - sux to be them hahahaha)
We took the money (it's over priced as hell - only a loser would pay bucks for this crap) went to dinner, then a hotel. So yes, we had great sex. In the whirlpool while we were drunk. | |
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| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 6/12/2007 1:32:42 AM |
The things they do as "ceremonies" are so pathetically "new age native american" as to make you cry with laughter or indignation. The article linked above is about as accurate a description as I've ever seen. ....only a loser would pay bucks for this crap
Sadly Tantra has been used as a means to promote several cults and new age money making ventures in recent years. Western knowledge of basic Tantra is pretty ignorant and sensationalistic. Dont let the fancy words fool you. Don't let the Playboy articles be your only source on the practice. It is about more then Extended Massive Orgasms that last hours at a time.
The basic fundamentals of real Tantra is the belief that all life is energy, and sexual energy in particular is a healing force that binds male and female. When done correctly then yes Tantra is a very positive thing. However if you are not a person who values spirituality or humanist outlooks on life then your cynical side will destroy any benefit that comes from it. If you do not practice good in your life or if you live a selfish existence then you will not understand it.
If your mind is closed then you are exploring the wrong road.
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| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 6/12/2007 7:02:43 AM | The reason why alot of this doesn't work for me and alot of other people is due to the fact that many people have a compartmentalized mind while others are more "holistic".
I'm very compartmentalized.The feelings I have for my spouse are more associated with her personality,intellect and the things she does for me,things OUTSIDE of the sex act.It's in a whole different category on a completely different shelf than sexual arousal.To me sexual arousal is more of a bodily act,stimulated by sight,smell,touch and taste,the emotional aspect is not triggered in the same way.
Tried it,been there,done that,I'm just not one of these spiritual "one with cosmos" people.In many ways I am a "typical male" and I offer no apologies for this.Tantric doesn't work for me,but then neither does meditation,prayer,mantras or any of that other stuff with spiritual overtones. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 11:29:48 AM | It is unfortunate that a yoga tradition which sees women as disposable
vessels for male enlightenment should be held up as the model for spiritual sexuality. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 4:07:38 PM |  Tantra is joining together, sexually with love. Mediation, invoking ALL senses in a gentle way. Flying together up to "heaven" the love/sex act to touch God's face.
Floating back down bringing bliss to the home. A healing bonding form of sex with love. Spiritual and physical union. More a great way to pray, yet most focus on the sexual part of it. A dance of the wounded, dance of escasty. And yes it is trance like, going into a superconsciuos state. heightened awareness. Don't join a club tho. Find you true love, soul mate FIRST. Sex and love and not necessarily the same thing.
Namaste..Gail | |
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| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 6/22/2007 6:05:40 PM |
Don't join a club tho. Find you true love, soul mate FIRST. Sex and love and not necessarily the same thing.
I missed that part. I was going to say almost the same thing. Totally forgot. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2008 1:34:27 AM | I just dragged this thread up because someone somewhere else made reference to tantric sex.
I read this and only ONE post was right on the money.
The girl who said she knew of this but hadnt known it had some special name.
FFs people. This is not stuff you get out of a girly mag or learning new 'positions' from the karma sutra (or making up your own)
In fact it has very little to do with the physical manoevering at all.
It is simply 'letting go'
Letting 100% of you enter the experience
There are some guys who have been trained to not ejaculate in 5 minutes and then think a 9 hour session is fun. Well honey, if you're not 100% there 9 minutes is too long.
The art of not ejaculating is just muscle control (physical) and in scandinavian countries ALL people practise it and it is a great shame to a man if he orgasms first and did not satisfy his partner.
However THIS IS NOT tantric sex.
Try this.
Walk outside and stare at a tree until there is nothing else in your focus AT ALL besides that tree. Can you 'feel' the tree?
If you cant, practise some more before you go around chanting you can DO tantric sex.
You cant DO tantric sex. And you cant learn how to PERFORM tantric sex.
Tantra is about 'no barrier and becoming one in the moment'
There is a selfless joining element
The sex itself is only a part of the greater whole of the joining
You can experience TANTRIC joining with most living things
The fact that someone can fcuk a marathon....gets just plain boring if you arent joined
If you ARE joined, whether its 5 minutes or 5 hours, you wouldnt know.
Because no-one is THINKING
Gosh these TV shows and magazines have a lot to answer for. | |
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| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 12/21/2008 5:16:06 PM | | I have been doing a form of tantric for a while, even while not even knowing I was doing it. For me its all in the breathing and calming myself down and keeping a perfect level of arousal so can go on for a good long time. It's hard at first to keep control, but gradually I do get into that 'zone', where it's very powerful and intense yet profoundly relaxing. When I do let go, usually when she is having her orgasm as well, the feeling is incredible and I feel like a million bucks afterwards, not just in the afterglow, but for the rest of the day. I would like to get into some more formal training (is what what they call it? training?) for tantric zen because it seems like such an amazing thing to explore. | |
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Posted: 12/22/2008 2:14:33 AM |
The Secret to Tantric SexImagine: Your man strolls through your front door and announces, "Baby, forget Must-See TV. Tonight, I want to worship your body, massage you head to heel, make love to you on a higher spiritual plane, then provoke an out-of-this-world orgasm so you reach a whole new pleasure plateau."
Probably, you'd think either you were dreaming or your guy had temporarily lost touch with reality. Well, in the case of tantric sex, you'd essentially be right on both counts. Tantra is the exotic art of prolonging your passion play to reach new levels of lusty satisfaction. "The idea is to build arousal very slowly so you both stay just below the boiling point for as long as possible," explains Nitya Lacroix, author of The Art of Tantric Sex. "That way you really focus on the full sexual journey — getting turned on, stimulating each of your five senses for maximum passion, harmonizing your sexual rhythms." The result is an out-of-body bond with your partner plus very physical ecstatic orgasms.
hmmm learn something new everyday
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| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:58:50 PM | | Elevates sex to an art form but not for everyone. Not for the intimacy challenged or committment challenged or ones with walls surrounding their emotions. But well worth the journey..books, videos, seminars..solo or couples..a journey | |
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| Tantric sex.... tell me more !
Posted: 3/2/2009 8:19:22 PM | | tantric sex isn't just about going nine hours, it's about controlling your body with your mind, so you can go as long or as short as you want, you control when it's over. whether u want a quicky, or longer sweet lovemakin. | |
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Posted: 3/2/2009 8:42:05 PM | | tantric sexuality is just one dimension of a spiritual path that is devoted and dedicated to the challenge of becoming aware, in every moment of our embodied lives, of the supreme flow of the sacred lifeforce itself—the Sacred Unity of Love. | |
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Posted: 3/2/2009 8:51:47 PM |
I don't want to have sex for 9 hours.There isn't much of anything I want to do for 9 hours if I'm not getting paid...but Tantric is too much like work.Sex to me is recreation.
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Posted: 3/2/2009 11:43:51 PM | Its fantastic to get into that state. Not so much a trance per se, but something that you cannot experience in any other way.
But I agree with some posters here, you really have to love the person or at least care alot for them. Its not something I would recommend with a one nighter or someone who you dont think you can share your feelings with. Also, it doesn't focus on the orgasm, more on the act of sex itself, the way your partner feels, looks, smells... The sense become more in control rather than the consciousness.
Pick up a book on Kama Sutra, tantric sex uses alot of the same ideas. Your local sex shop should probably have a few, maybe try Indigo, Chapters or Coles in their Sexuality/Relationships section! | |
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