| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/8/2006 1:53:58 PM | 
omg, yes. Absolutely. There is totally an art to oral... no way to really teach it though, except to say that you need to know your subject and her reactions and act accordingly. You will know when what you are doing feels G O O D to her...
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 1:44:53 PM | Many props to jimmimcsandy and McLeary for their beautiful renditions on how to please a woman. BRAVO!!
Let me add the following.
Stopping for a break. HUGE ISSUE. Unlike men, women don't pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she's not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:53:43 PM | One of my favorite tricks is to firmly rub her g-spot with my middle finger while waiting for her pelvic muscles to tighten and flex. When you feel her bear down on your finger, lick a little faster along the sides of her clit until she relaxes. Subconsciously she will start to stay flexed longer and longer as her orgasm draws closer. Just keep up the pattern of quick firm licks while she's flexed and slower when she's relaxed. You'll give her a mind blowing orgasm in no time, and since you are stroking her g-spot, you just might get a tasty reward
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 3:24:26 PM | Theres no 'art' to it. Your tongue is the strongest muscle in your body, it has also been pre-programmed over 100s & 100s of years of eating p*ssy, it knows what to do.
The true 'art' is in the mind. Its the desire, the want, the selflessness & inner need to make her feel as though no one else exsists. Her pleasure is paramount. With that, the control & presicion follow. You can have all the 'art' you want, but if the desire is not there then neither is the 'art' | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 3:39:39 PM | yes... too much contact doesn't stimulate them that much many times.... the art is in teasing the vagina... nibbling and flicking and letting them feel themselves rather than just slobbering all over it. Use your tongue and your lips.... stick your tongue out so it just barely flicks the labias and wave your head back and forth... another good thing is to gently suck on their labias... and pull them... make them jiggle *hehehe*
BREATHE on them....
Labias are very sensitive... lick the insides... suck them... if she tries to push you away, don't let her.
I'll admit it: I've been lousy and I've been good. It's not that simple of a thing to be good though. You want to make them WANT IT. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 3:49:43 PM | -Always read her signals to guide your tongue's actions
-Ask her to give verbal and motion indications so you know what works
-Start slowly and dryly and increase moistness/pressure according to her signals
-Let her know what she tastes like
-Suck on clitoris and release..repeat
-Use fingers to supplement tongue
-Don't bite
-Prop up her bum so it's more pleasureable for her
-Stimulate the perineum
-Make noise
-Lick the alphabet at a constant speed
-Use sugar-free cough drops
-Do tongue exercises to improve fine motor control, endurance and speed
-Press down on clitoris with broad part of tongue and hold for a bit. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 3:52:21 PM | | If your using fingers, stimulating the gspot with your middle finger is cool. the thing that has worked is stroking the spot while she's loose and then letting your finger slip out while she's contracting... all the while going to town on her clit | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 3:54:18 PM | Oh yeah... I forgot about that.
The clitoris is the most important part. You can tease it gently or pull it... or push down on it with your thumb... depends on what she likes... it drives women nuts. Sucking it can drive them wild... but make sure and do it the way she likes. Women are very different... some have orgasms from giving oral sex or having their breasts touched... some are so sensitive they can't deal with to much touching down there... or even direct contact with the clitoris..Have to play it by ear. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 5:04:53 PM | I don't know if you call it an art. A well used tongue can definitely arouse a woman differently than a****
Someone who knows how to pleasure a woman with his tongue definitely has a bonus gift!
And I am gifted!!!
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 6:59:58 PM | | Sure there is an art to using your tongue during oral..but the true art is when you have made her reach a point where she has the arech in her back and her hips are thrusting with a bit of leg quivers..now that is Art!! | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 8:36:06 PM | | stick out tongue...apply part a to part b......start swirling your tongue around....if she is moaning and writhing under you then congrats you are an artiste!!!!!! | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 9:03:09 PM | I am positive there is an art to this!!! What woman wants a guy down there that can't find the clitoris? How many times does that happen? But ladies when we find a guy that can find it.....and nows how to work it...........aren't we in heaven?!!!!
Some women like it when you guys suck it....some of us like the licks better. And most of us love the g-spot stimualtion at the same time!!
I think cutiestudent got it down pretty short and sweet, but still does the trick!! | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 9:11:25 PM | Scarlett has a point, in some cases the knowledge in the science of cunnilingus is lacking, not the art.
Guy might understand how to apply paint to a wall, and the floor, ceiling, curtains and pets inadvertently, and it might do the trick. But there's all sorts of knowledge to be had yet. At what point will he be an artist? | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/17/2006 9:59:27 PM | For women using the tongue, it is a trained art and vastly different between them.
Some women are absolute masters and some you encrouage to move on to the next stage.
1 in 25 women actually know how to use the tongue. Men's sexual organs change over time and women who know this change their tongue techniques. Some women know this, some don't. A woman who knows how to use her tongue can destroy and Empire.
As for men, the two hands are the sensory mechanisms by which you find out the layout of her mechanisms. Each woman is different and your hand on her nude body and flesh pick up her response, forget about what she is saying, go on the nervous system response then she'll be yours. It can be a combinaiton of suction and friction with the libs and tongue. You've got ot listen to your hands so you get her serious spots and she doesn't break out laughing.
Place a hand on the delicate fat layer on the hip of hers and feel for her vibrations as you tongue her, then you can find her out, feel her out.
The serious spots. Remember you want her to be your sex slave.
A real pro at giving women oral sex will have scars on his lip from the bucking and continual application of outrageous pleasure. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 9/5/2006 2:11:57 PM | | Hmmmmm is there an art to using a paint brush,or a feather,or a vacumn or a pencil,lol of coarse theres and art to usuing the tongue even when you sucking on popsicles and freezies too lol oiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii im gonna shhhhhhhhh | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 9/5/2006 2:28:15 PM | | You have to really love it to be good at it. It is actually power. If your really good at it she will cum in your mouth. Now that is a very nice treat. :) | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 9/5/2006 2:45:23 PM | | i have my own special technique and im applying for a patent. the patent clerk wants to see me in her office first thing in the morning... | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 9/5/2006 2:57:45 PM | | I remember the first time a woman communicated with me on how she liked oral. She told me to gently suck her clitoris while I rubbed her g spot with a finger. This developed into not only just sucking her clitoris but massaging it with my tongue at the same time. Gentle and slow seems to be the most effective but I always ask now how any new partner that i'm with prefers it. No doubt that when she is moaning and orgasming, chances are you are doing it right. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 9/5/2006 3:12:57 PM | There definitely is an art to using the tongue. Used correctly, it's absolute heaven. Used incorrectly, it comes up a little south of there. | |
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