| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 12/2/2006 11:53:18 PM | no there aint as every chick likes you to do it a different way so no one size fits all when it comes to sex,ask the lady what she likes just a tip.  | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 12/4/2006 12:43:44 PM | I wholeheartedly agree with you, and kimmie1963 has a very valid point. That's why I believe that sex just isn'y as good, unless you find the right lady and commit to each other. Then get tested. After that dining at the Y is one of my favorite pastimes, LOL! Anytime, anywhere (with some discretion). and as often as she wants it.
On the flip side, you know she is going to take just as good of care of you, after treatment like that for her.
Always strive to please your partner first, is my policy, and it has never let me down. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 3/1/2007 5:29:04 AM | definatly is an art, but if your in love with the person, it can come naturally as the energy you put into the foreplay will be recieved anyway, but other than that, there is definatly an art in cunninlingus, like the sexual postions in the karma sutra, oral stimulation can be achieved in many ways, in many different techniques, heres one for you to try out, very slowly and passionatly with your tongue, spell out every letter of the alphabet on and around your partners clitoral area, this can be done accapella, or with use of extra stimulation with your fingers. enjoy.  | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/3/2007 8:32:09 AM | ya i agree on the art cause im close to mastering it...hehe alil more work...i have had no complaints at all...more compliments and revisits lol...;ets say once ur great at it ..u will be a womans best friends.... | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/3/2007 10:05:32 AM | This was on another forum. PAY ATTENTION MEN.
Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs. Now stop and look at what you see.
Beautiful, isn't it?
There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her cl*t. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her special. Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during lovemaking. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful cl*t, talk to her about it. Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her lips up until you can find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized c0*k. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
Whenever you touch a woman's cl*t, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of it's own and it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts.
But you don't want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled. Approach her cl*t slowly.
Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her ****, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her ****. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her **** lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of **** flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you're about to eat must be done gently. Tongue f*** her. This will really excite her. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit.
Check it out.
See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience it's presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it.
Lick hard now and press into her skin. Gently pull the **** lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder.
Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's when she'll be saying to u: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!'
There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon.
Just like with****sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger **** her while she's enjoying your clit licking talents. Before, during or after. She'll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you're ****ing her.
Well, since your****is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the ****ing. Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can't get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. **** her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do.
If you're sucking her clit and finger ****ing her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your****alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover. When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her**** If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now.
If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm.
Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 orgasms at one sitting.
Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56 orgasms to? She'd be yours as long as you wanted her.
The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her come, made her your slave by giving her the best oral she's ever had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down.
A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/3/2007 10:16:21 AM | absolutly! many people can say they know how to use there tongue and just fail on so many levels, You have kissing tongue as well as oral tongue licking tongue, ect....
I however have mastered the art and will be giving siminars on the island in the summer of 2007, let me know if you want to book your seats! lol
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/3/2007 5:05:48 PM |
I know I like oral and have had no complaints so far
most over-used line ever?
haha, so no-one complains..big compliment
would have to be fairly rude to actualy 'complain'.
"you SUCK..at sucking" ;) | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/4/2007 12:52:42 AM | There is a definate art to it... But, I use mine in combination with the whole "eye thing" and pouty thick lips,,, but ummm,yeahhh, the visual from his point of view,, thats "priceless"!!! Far as the men and oral go.. yeahhh I have had some that were WAY better than others,, soooo yeahh,, a definate "ART" to it......   | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/4/2007 1:29:35 AM | The art to use the tongue is to keep it in your mouth and use it just for talking.
it's very important that you talk to your partner before having sex, don't you think so!!! | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/11/2007 9:51:08 PM | | Well, a man has one tongue and two ears. His ears should tell him EXACTLY what to do or let him know if he's doing it right. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 10/12/2007 4:44:27 AM | | Let's just not be practicing the alphabet on someone else's crotch, guys. Thats a total turn off for me. Can't you just feel and sense and ask what she likes and skip all the theatrics and techniques??? | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 10/25/2007 11:47:24 AM | Tell me if my method is a good one.
I alternate between swirling my tongue around and around the little man in the boat.
Then go to the hole with my tongue briefly and then back to the man in....
All the time have two fingers in the hole moving them to massage the inner wall.
What do you think? | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 10/25/2007 6:53:53 PM | | every woman is different....listen to her sounds...watch her movements...pay attension to her reactions. you will figure out what she likes....oh....and if your jaw starts to hurt...take a quick break ....so use your fingers....stopping for too long is like starting at the beginning. | |
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