| has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship
Posted: 6/25/2008 8:32:15 PM | I haven't had much luck with the lottery lately...
So, I say... GO FOR IT, I only ask one thing for this bit of contrarian advice...
Say a little million dollar life insurance policy. Not a big one, just a little one.
Who knows, this may work out rather well for both of us. (I promise to split it with you)
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| has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship
Posted: 6/25/2008 8:59:30 PM | | You admit that its disrespectful and yet you still do it -- you have no shame! Hopefully the girl will see the type of guy you are and realize that you're just a jerk. BTW, if you don't know how to spell the words, get a freaking dictionary!! | |
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| has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship
Posted: 6/26/2008 4:18:54 AM | No.
When in a relationship, of course opportunity comes up. Seems some men like the challenge? In fact, I tend to get hit on more often when I am in a relationship. Too weird.
I have never allowed the conversation to go 'that way'. I make it clear Im in a relationship and they need to move along. I would be hurt if my SO was contemplating a trade in, and wont play that game with someone I care for.
If they persist, I write them off even as potential friends, I feel if they respected me, they would not try to put me in a compromising position.
You are showing disrespect to this woman, and her BF. | |
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| has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship
Posted: 6/26/2008 7:45:01 AM | OP, it is not only disrespectful to the BF, but to the girl as well. When I am in a relationship, I do not have a wandering eye, do not flirt with others because I am with the man I want to be with and he gets the best of me...nobody else. And, no amount of trying to woo me away is going to work.
If you are persistent in your pursuit, I would not only get annoyed, but would probably lose any respect I had for you for not respecting the fact I am in a relationship.
In my last LTR, we both would get hit on by others, but we valued the relationship and had no desire to risking everything we had together to test the waters someplace else..and that is the way it should be. If somebody tried pursuing me, he would be told straight away that I was taken. On occasion, the guy doing the pursuing would ask if I was happy in the relationship. Of course, I would tell him that I was. The smart ones knew then to back off. The not-so-smart ones who continued with their pursuit were given the cold shoulder.
Be a gentleman here and let this girl be happy in her relationship and be happy for her. Then, go out and find somebody just as wonderful who is not in a relationship. | |
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| has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship
Posted: 6/26/2008 7:55:07 AM | Op Oh dear OP What the hell are you thinking? This woman is with HER man for a reason, she wants to be.
Throughout life we will meet people whom we adore because they may have a certain chemistry about them however we should not allow that chemistry to overtake our mind.
Even thinking of having this woman to yourself is self destruction. Don't do it to yourself. | |
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| has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship
Posted: 7/3/2008 12:03:32 PM | | ive done that one time, dumped a great guy for someone i thought was better, and i only have one thing to say about it: the grass isnt always greener on the other side. it was the worst mistake of my life, and when i tried to go back he wouldnt hear of it, so i lost both of them by doing exactly what you are trying to get this girl to do. the only one that will end up hurt out of this, is her. Maybe the guy she is with if he loves her. if not, she will end up hurt, guaranteed. Do you really want to do that to her? | |
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| has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:02:44 PM | I think many of you assume the OP says "has a guy ever got you" and means "has a guy ever got into your pants" ONLY, when I think he means to win your heart (and body too).
Her current boyfriend could also be treating her really bad and then its ok to let her know you are interested.
I value good strong relationships, especially marriages, and would never want to be the cause of one ending, but some relationships are bad and should end.
But, if he only wants sex and her boyfriend treats her ok, then he is dirt and deserves a butt kickin', especially if the guy is a friend. | |
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| has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship
Posted: 7/3/2008 8:19:19 PM | No, but I had more pursuers when I was married.
Now for all you cheapskate husbands out there investing in a nice big rock to slap all your friends with upside the head is a very good investment. Get one where you can recognize the indentation mark it makes, if you want to know which friends have tried it. My advice is not to ask because you do not want to know.
Honestly, my exhusband asked me ONCE, when he was drunk, just how many have tried it? I told him I would tell him when he was sober because he honestly had not thought that question out clearly. He opted out of knowing.
Contrary to popular belief, most women know not to say that unless you are willing to risk having your brother, father, or particularly significant other, that is the men you love in your life, in jail, hospital, or dead. Only if my life were in danger. Otherwise, I would let the offender know I will not say anything to my husband as long as this proves to be the first and LAST time he makes his malintent known. Dream on, you wish, and keep it to yourself. You're also kidding yourself if you think you're the only one to try that. | |
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| has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship
Posted: 7/3/2008 8:30:55 PM |
im pursuing a girl who already has a boyfriend, any advice?
My advice is to leave her alone. If it is meant to be then you two will get together later. You are persuing a girl that is already involved and you have no indication that she is even interested in you .
and a question for the women here, has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship?
No, this has never happened with me because when I am in a relationship I am faithful to the guy that I am with and not concerned romantically with other men. | |
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