| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 7/13/2008 12:13:34 PM |
What do you do with those guys that claim they will treat you like A Princess? Or, A Goddess? Are they for real? What are they really saying?
I don't do anything with them; when I see any of those terms in a man's headline or profile, it's an automatic turn-off, and when they write to me I send back a polite "no thanks."
I can't imagine wanting to be treated like or thought of as a "princess" (what does that mean anyway?); I'm a grown up, and my hope was to find a man who was interested in a sincere, grown up relationship. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 7/14/2008 6:27:29 PM | oh yes... they all claim to be our "night in shining armour", thay are sooooo different from the rest of the men !!! and will treat us as a princess.... NOPE !!!!!!!! they sure cant sell me their crap !!!!! | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/7/2008 6:48:28 PM | | OP..if a man promises me the moon,stars & like a princess....I am running the opposite direction as fast as I can....and I'm not stopping at go to collect200.00 either!!! | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/7/2008 7:51:00 PM | [qoute] ..if a man promises me the moon,stars & like a princess....I am running the opposite direction as fast as I can....and I'm not stopping at go to collect200.00 either!!!
There is nothing that scares a woman as bad as being in the same room as a nice guy. I have seen women make a new exist right throw a side of building, to get away from a nice guy. This is a tragic thing, tragic for both the man and woman. The man for not having a chance to show a woman just how good she would be treated. The woman for believing that all guys are alike and therefore she goes back to a guy that is just like the one she had before, abusive, etc.
Words are not always just words. I am completely puzzled about woman, they want romance and yet prefer somebody who only can speak one word, Babe. Women want somebody loyal and yet they want somebody to leave their girlfriend for them. They say size doesn't matter, have a limit on your credit card and see what type a gal you get.
To find love, one must wade through some muddy waters and take some chances. I don't even know if love exist anymore. I have been searching for something that nobody believes in anymore. The proof is in the profiles themselves, I didn't know one can put limits on love. So many miles, must be this tall, make this much many, the list is endless.
If there is a single woman out there that believes in love, I would like to meet her. After all that is the reason I am on here.
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/8/2008 1:19:16 AM | | Men that claim they will treat you like a princess are guys who cant keep promises. They usually fail to treat you how they said they would in the beginning and they let you down. In this situation it is better to put forth a low standard for yourself so that when women actually does meet you for the first time she will be impressed. I like to tell women that I will leave them with years of emotional torment and perhaps a bad case of syphillis so that their expectation of me is shit. It works every time. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/8/2008 5:17:24 AM | from my experience when guys say they will treat me like a "princess'" or say they treat their womens like "queen"
they are usually picky when finding a woman and when they do they mean to invest time into them , the reason for pickiness is becus they are looking for someone that actually deserves to be treated like a queen
some say it just cuz they know thats wat women would like to hear
when i hear it lots of things cross my mind like "oh really so what do u want in return so i can be treated this way "
and i think " how often do u say that u must think im a fool"
im also thinking "DUH sherlock if u didnt treat a woman good at least in the beginning you would get nowhere"
i also think " how bout results instead of a promise" | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/8/2008 5:28:05 AM | I have always treated my women very well, and always will, but these days that doesn't mean the same as putting them on a pedestal. Very few women have an emotional need for that sort of treatment, so why insist on giving it to them?
I used to believe in chivalry - I was brought up in that spirit, actually, but the facts speak for themselves - I never lost my virginity until I lost the gallant, idealistic 'Sir Lancelot' routine. I've also noted how often nice guys finish last. Sweet is another name for "weak" in the vocabularies of women everywhere.
Chivalry is a romantic, idealised notion based on works of fiction. The only times I ever hear the plaintive cry of "won't you be a gentleman" or "won't you be chivalrous" is when a woman wants me to do them a favour, or get something for free. If chivalry ever existed, then women killed it - and frankly, given that it's not actually a sustainable basis for most relationships, that's a very good thing. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/8/2008 5:36:49 AM | Whenever I read will treat you like a princess or queen in a profile now, I  as fast as I can away from them because without fail every guy that has ever had that in a profile that I've gotten to know wasn't a "nice" guy or a "prince"...most were delusional and/or turned out to be the biggest fuktards with the most "abusive/controlling" type of tendencies.
Obviously they are trying to convince themselves that women deserve to be treated well; because I suspect on some subconscious level they know they don't usually treat women fairly or with respect...kind of like the profiles that state...my children are my priority and come first if you don't like it, then don't contact me...hmmm really who are you trying convince- me or you?  | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/8/2008 8:23:13 AM |
Wouldn't you agree that a man that possesses these traits of respect and integrity doesn't have to make such claims, she will know and feel that she is indeed his Princess or his Goddess!!!
Thought you gals hated Hated HATED being put on a pedestal like that.
So I'd say that any guy that claims he will treat you like a princess or a goddess is an idiot unlikely to get dates. Not beause he's lying, but cause such behaviour is one of the quickest ways to fall into nice guy fail. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/8/2008 3:49:31 PM | Its a bit of a false promise I reckon.
Its the same for women who show lots of leg and boobs in their profile.
Its full of promise but in the end no substance.
I once went out with a woman who was always showing off her huge boobs.
But she would never let me touch them !
Its a bit like having a Ferrari on your drive that has no engine...... | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/8/2008 4:00:18 PM |
Don't you think that we should just be treated with the respect and integrity we deserve?
Were you asking us? Or the guy who was taking the pictures of you undressing that you later post on the internet?? | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/8/2008 5:54:57 PM |
So, read those profiles, emails, and IM's carefully ladies. I never fall for that gushy stuff from men.. and I agree "actions speak louder than words".. it's easy to say or write something like that. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/8/2008 6:07:11 PM | | I doubt many women really expect to be treated like a princess, queen or whatever. I guess it's east to ask for and easy for a guy to proclaim he will or even can. But in the real world we should just be concerned with being treated with respect and dignity. That sets the stage for anything long lasting. That goes for giving and receiving. I'd be a little leary of anyone who truely is asking to be traeted like a princess and the same of any guy who says he will. I'd just give it the Aretha Franklin test to see if there is any potential. R-E-S-P-E-C-T. That goes a long way in my book. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/8/2008 6:41:14 PM |
I have found that the guys who throw around the words princess and goddess are usually not worth it. Mostly, they're of the "I'm a nice guy who all the girls reject for a bad boy" type, and I hate guys like that.
Also, guys throw around those words if they're either players or desperate. A genuine guy won't use such grandiose terms, and will be a little more low key until he falls for you.
My thoughts exactly! I think most time guys who set women on pedestals, ESPECIALLY without even taking the chance to get to know a particular woman, often put women at a level high enough for the guys to get stepped on and walked all over. I genuinely like good guys, but if a guy goes around blasting super sappy stuff all the time like that they tend to get filed under the "nice guy/just friends" category in my mind. Let us girls realize how great you are and we will respect you and thank you for it!
Also I think that women who subscribe to the whole "I am a goddess, princess, queen, etc -- I demand that guys treat me as such" are often high maintenance. I guess they're a good fit for the "nice guy" types who want to be continually subservient to them. I am not that type of woman and I that's not my kind of guy.
Women want to be with a man we can respect and get respect from, and it's impossible to truly respect someone who acts as a doormat. In a healthy relationship, BOTH sides should give and take and treat the other person well.
My $0.02 everyone. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/10/2008 7:17:16 PM | | Since I am not in to Royalty,I think it is stupid for my significant to bow at me and to say " YOUR ROYAL A$$NESS "all the time if he wants to treat me like a Princess. About GODDESSES , I don't how GODDESESS treatment, that is before my time. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/10/2008 11:53:42 PM | This is probably whyI listed things that can be considered "turn offs".
No one should have to brag about their virtues.
But of course, there are those who will fall for the usual "I will treat you like a princess" line or it would have fallen out of use a long time ago. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/11/2008 2:37:08 AM | Ok, so It's probably already been asked.....but oh well.
Why do women say that they want to be treated like a princess when they become highly suspicious of a guy whom says he wants to treat you like a princess?
Besides, how does a prince treat a princess that differs from how he treats any OTHER woman of status?
BTW, my profile warns princesses away, unless they just want to piss off their parents!! LMAO | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/11/2008 3:18:59 AM | I always give people the benefit of the doubt, unless in due conversation the actions do not match the words.
How anybody can fall for demands like 'I want to be treated like a queen' or 'wines and dined' is beyound me.
The only thing putting me off if somebody says 'I'm very attractive' or 'very good looking', because it tells me that they are full off themself, regardless if are or not.
When a less than attractive person makes that claim, I just smile and shake my head...its obviously wishfull thinking, but chances are, they believe they are and are also full of themself.
This goes for male and female alike...
Have a nice day...
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/11/2008 3:35:53 AM |
What do you do with those guys that claim they will treat you like A Princess? Or, A Goddess? Are they for real? What are they really saying?
lmao - it's a red flag. I don't think they even know what the hell they're saying. It's usually indicative of someone not being real and saying what they "think" a woman wants to hear. The key thing here someone not being "real". You can't ultimately have genuine interaction/conversation with a person like this. Look for other signs of deception or the generally just not "getting it" - as in socially clueless when it comes to relationship and women. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/11/2008 4:02:47 AM | | a man who says that spends far too much time at renaissance festivals. and i put those right up there with civil war re-enactments and star trek conventions. so he destroys his credibility, while making me think of him as a goofball. | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/11/2008 4:16:19 AM | I have had many a guy claim that if I would give him a chance he would treat me like the princess/goddess I deserved to be treated as.....needless to say none of these guys EVER treated me in that manner, if anything they were worse than previous relationships. On the other hand the boy I am with now never made any claims to the treatment he would bestow upon me once we met and MY GOODNESS  , he treats me better than I ever have been treated in my life and better than I ever could have imagined!!! Yes there are men out there who have the respect, manners, and the willingness to put forth the effort to treat a woman good, I am just not sure it is ever going to be the ones who try so hard to convince you that they will | |
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/11/2008 4:24:22 AM |
I totally agree.. If it works people think "why not try it".. Its also the women that believe the stupidest things.. They probably been through it before, but yet they still fall for it..
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| Claiming To Treat You Like A Princess Or Goddess
Posted: 8/17/2008 3:18:31 PM |
I have had many a guy claim that if I would give him a chance he would treat me like the princess/goddess I deserved to be treated as.....needless to say none of these guys EVER treated me in that manner, if anything they were worse than previous relationships. On the other hand the boy I am with now never made any claims to the treatment he would bestow upon me once we met and MY GOODNESS , he treats me better than I ever have been treated in my life and better than I ever could have imagined!!! Yes there are men out there who have the respect, manners, and the willingness to put forth the effort to treat a woman good, I am just not sure it is ever going to be the ones who try so hard to convince you that they will
Ameeen! What I learned is that when people openly advertise and promise a lot of awesome things, be wary.
Decent guys and gals don't feel the need to brag that they are good people.
Also, people who sound self-centered and demanding in their profiles (people who have a lot of "I want____") usually are. 
my dos cincos.  | |
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