There is nothing that scares a woman as bad as being in the same room as a nice guy.
Some people who describe themselves as 'nice' are anything but. When they get rejected 'after all I've done for her' they turn decidedly nasty.
This is a tragic thing, tragic for both the man and woman. The man for not having a chance to show a woman just how good she would be treated.
It might surprise a lot of these 'nice' guys that many women want a companion and equal partner. They don't need a doormat and to be placed high upon a pedestal by some needy bloke who would prefer to 'treat her like a princess' rather than engage in a relationship with her.
The woman for believing that all guys are alike and therefore she goes back to a guy that is just like the one she had before, abusive, etc.
Most women take a man how she finds him, they don't paint with such a broad brush. 'Nice' guys whine about women not choosing them, or taking them for granted, when they don't actually offer them anything real.
Words are not always just words. I am completely puzzled about woman, they want romance and yet prefer somebody who only can speak one word, Babe. Women want somebody loyal and yet they want somebody to leave their girlfriend for them. They say size doesn't matter, have a limit on your credit card and see what type a gal you get.
And women certainly don't want bitterness and jealousy.