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 Bad*MonkeyFunker

Joined: 7/9/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 5:15:32 AM
People do that to you until you get tougher, bitter and smarter.
and guess what then >>> ?

Then you start pulling that disappearing act to others.
Why ?
Because you don't give a fk anymore...

It's a vicious cycle.....
 pudra

Joined: 1/23/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:20:33 PM
BxCutie0416 it's not a nonsense thread at all.. It is a terrible terrible feeling, a cannonball in the stomach, and quite hard to comprehend and get over. Once I met a man, we quickly fell in love, we were both very happy and scared about feeling so, so quickly. One evening he didn't show up for the concert he confirmed a few hours ago. It was impossible to reach him, I thought he died. Then I realized that the disappearing act had happened. I was shaken for weeks, couldn't believe that this was really what happened. I never heard from him again until I let him know that I was about to give birth to our baby. He came to the hospital, he said he didn't know why he disappeared and wanted to start again as a family. Leave aside trust, I wasn't even able to take him seriously, he sounded like a character from a soap opera to me.. he was a joke.. but sure he caused me a lot of pain once.

Now he's trying to get visitation rights.

Luv Karla you do not have to comment if you don't have anything to say except repeating the obvious.
 pudra

Joined: 1/23/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:25:00 PM
You're wrong Turko. Tough, smart people never do that, shallow weaklings do.. By the way, glad to see that you're easily amused.
 Thaddal

Joined: 10/23/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:38:08 PM
Wake Up...consider yourself lucky that a Jerk Off decided to up and leave you...now...perhaps...you would prefer he was stalking you....threatening you...physically abusing you...would that make your emotions feel better...obviously he didnt want you anymore...why do you need closure...unless...you want to apoligize for driving him out the door....but then...you may want that closure time...to beg him to come back to you....think about what you just wrote...really think about it...use your head....
 Sweetsong43

Joined: 9/26/2009
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Posted: 11/5/2009 8:43:54 PM
It's not fun-- but it happens to us all. I think after awhile you will get better at screening men beforehand... you'll start to see what they are like --- and know the signs.
Sometimes you just have to take it slow-- and dont put your heart out as fast -- this way they have to work to get to you ... men like a challenge anyway. If they dont take the time to get to know you then you've done yourself a favor.
We will all get dumped-- but we will all find a man who will date us past a second or third date as well... you'll see--just hang in there.
 NCPantherFan

Joined: 5/7/2009
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Posted: 11/5/2009 8:48:22 PM
How do I feel? BLESSED.......That this person disappeared.....*S*
 truebluesue

Joined: 8/28/2009
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Posted: 11/6/2009 10:10:48 AM
Pudra is right on...

it's not a nonsense thread at all.. It is a terrible terrible feeling, a cannonball in the stomach, and quite hard to comprehend and get over.

Just confirmed my cannonball to the stomach yesterday, had been with him about 5 months and last few weeks sensed that something wasn't quite right but ? Then he quit calling completely and about 5 days later was in a terrible traffic accident. He finally sent an e-mail, claimed his phone hadn't been working (right) and that it is now is trashed from the wreck. I checked the accident report online and there was a lady with him when he crashed and she was seriously injured. He was not hurt much, and while I guess feel for the gal who didn't know what hit her, can't help but hope the wreck was a cannonball to his stomach. What goes around comes around. What a stinking coward.
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