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Posted: 1/31/2008 12:18:37 PM |
While in the relationship, you meet Tom Brady in a bar and you find him charming. He wants to take you out and then begin dating you. You wouldn't find some excuse to dump your current boyfriend? Laughable. Point being that there always might be someone better out there.
For the men. You meet Pam Anderson in a bar and she wants to bang you that night and then start dating you. You don't leave your current girlfriend? Comedy.
That is a really sad outlook that says far too much about you.
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| Flirting question
Posted: 1/31/2008 1:11:50 PM |
she mentioned her boyfriend so that you are aware..she is not available, and her flirting doesnt mean anything.. Its harmless fun banter "
Did she say it was harmless, or is this something you assumed?
It has been aggressive flirting. She all but asked me out. That is why I am confused.
Someone certainly has a some what high opinion of himself.
This is my last post in this thread.
Thank god!
Tell me, when you look in the mirror, what do you see? | |
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| Flirting question
Posted: 1/31/2008 1:12:11 PM | | OP: I highly suggest that you keep your Work Life & Personal Life separate! | |
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Posted: 1/31/2008 9:28:43 PM | It sounds like a manipulation tacktic. Aggressively flirts then makes herself unavailable to you...typical human nature to want what we can not have. Or maybe she is just one of those women who goes from relationship to relationship without ever having the healing period in between. Which ever it is, it doesn't sound healthy. I strongly suggest you run and not look back. Obey the cardinal rule...don't date people you work with. Keep dating in the personal life and work in the professional life.
But then again I am the type of person who like to limit the drama.
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| Flirting question
Posted: 1/31/2008 9:48:50 PM | Go ahead, date her, and when all the trouble begins ask youeself if it was really worth it. You are right, just because she has a boyfriend doesn't mean she wants to stay with him, she may just want you as a way to get out. You date ,you like her, and guess what see does the same thing to you. I think it's a perfect match. Keep the players with the players.
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| Flirting question
Posted: 2/1/2008 12:11:17 AM |
While in the relationship, you meet Tom Brady in a bar and you find him charming. He wants to take you out and then begin dating you. You wouldn't find some excuse to dump your current boyfriend? Laughable. Point being that there always might be someone better out there.
Pffft.
So, OP is now Tom Brady?
To answer that silly question: NO.
If I care for the person, I wish for no others.
If you are always looking for someone better, you will never be happy with the one who is next to you.
Therefore, there is a good chance that you will end up alone. Die alone. And, your cats will eat you because no one will come and find you before they eat you... Or something.
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| Flirting question
Posted: 2/1/2008 12:21:02 AM | | Question is...would you want to get involved/date someone who flirts with her co-workers and doesn't mention you until sometime after...I wouldn't entertain it. | |
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| Flirting question
Posted: 2/1/2008 5:37:17 AM | | I flirt at work. Doesn't mean I want to date the. But I'm single now too. If she is "aggressively" flirting with you she obviously is seeking male attention. I wouldn't give much play into it because she already has a boyfriend. Also you don't want any drama at work. | |
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Posted: 2/1/2008 9:53:32 AM | Flirting can be part of one's personality and style, and not intended as a "come on" for anything more than the banter that it created in the first place.
What one must do is gage the ones you are flirting with, why, and how they receive it, then do the same when sent to you. If you are committed to just one, then the two of you should know each other well enough, discussed personalities and styles, and set the boundaries of acceptance when it comes to flirting, caring, and being thoughtful to your significant other and those around you.
Just my opinion.......   | |
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