ohio07
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| | A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need itPage 5 of 6 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6) | You got it but man, bad kissing sucks! It's always awkward when you kiss a stranger for the first time. But if your into each other, you slow down and enjoy each other more.
Guys do make the mistake sometimes of trying to rush this to get to the rest of it; But if you do this right, it can certainly lead to long sessions of passionate lovemaking. It's just too bad too many people don't take the time or the effort in kissing as you get older.
When you were young and growing up, this was a favorite pastime, now everybody just wants to get straight to the sex without any play or detours. A really good kisser gets a little more slack in consideration, than a fair to bad one, at least in my book.
Sex without kissing is no good. If there is no passion and intamicy, then I'll opt for a good book, movie, or other event to entertain me. I don't know how anybody can have really good sex without kissing... It's essential. I couldn't live without it. | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 3/18/2009 5:01:03 PM |
But, if I may, kissing is a two party activity and it only function well when both parties are compatible with each others.
No two men kiss alike, neither do any two ladies. As Doc Sage put it its a two party activity, and it take compromise. One has to lead and the other has to follow, just like in dance. However, with kissing, the man is not always in the lead. Sometimes the man leads and sometimes the lady. What makes it a good match is when as Doc says they are compatible with each other and lead and follow each other without missing a beat.
Kissing, what a wonderful way to spend your time. And to think that something this much fun doesn't cost a thing.
Most ladies would probably agree on what makes a bad kisser. They would probably agree on what makes a good kisser. What makes a great kisser is entirely a matter of personal taste. From my experience you define someone as a great kisser after lots and lots of practice, because after all as the saying goes, "Practice makes perfect,"
and when it comes to kissing this rule definitely applies. | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 3/18/2009 5:19:18 PM | Thanks for bringing back this old thread and reminding us that a good kisser is born, not made, and that a great kisser comes from learning how to be that much more than good..........
An awesome kiss is as much foreplay as slowly touching ones body or caressing each others genitals.......it is all good, and all so necessary if one is making love and not just having sex.......  
Just my opinion........   | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 3/18/2009 5:32:02 PM | I've said it before........I'll say it again.......
A Kiss is like a story in a good book........it has a beginning, a middle and an end.
There should be romance, drama and intrigue. And it should make u want to read the next book! | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 3/18/2009 5:34:09 PM |
now everybody just wants to get straight to the sex without any play or detours. A really good kisser gets a little more slack in consideration, than a fair to bad one, at least in my book.
Sex without kissing is no good. If there is no passion and intamicy, then I'll opt for a good book, movie, or other event to entertain me. I don't know how anybody can have really good sex without kissing... It's essential. I couldn't live without it.
I agree. Sex with no kissing is not good. Personally, I could just kiss for hours. Kissing is an art.  | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 4/5/2009 7:34:40 PM | | I have to applaud the man that can create heat with his kiss. I felt something melt inside me. A kiss that will always be remembered. Any man after him has to try harder regardless of how good a kisser he may be. With the heat comes passion that passion equates to great sex time after time. | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 4/5/2009 8:03:12 PM | | OMG!! Do you really think that people need a primer on how to kiss and learn how to do this? Who or what have you been kissing??? Make love to her mouth? YES of course. Damn, kissing is where it starts and ends, who doesn't know how? Are we really that bad for you girls with our lips and tongues???? | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 4/5/2009 8:40:21 PM | One of the smartest men in the world had this famous quote to say and I have to agree it serves this forum well LOL........
"Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves"? ...
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 4/5/2009 8:58:14 PM | | I've kissed about 150 girls and have a pretty good bell curve of what's falls within the norm and what gets weird. In fact, I've classified these few pathological kissers and created some names for them, starting with: (1) "the ocean-going" kiss, where the girl slobbers all over you and you feel you may drown in her drool; (2) it's opposite, the "desert kiss" where her mouth is so dry, your tongue almost sticks to hers like dry ice; (3) the "vampire" kiss, where they begin biting, not gently and a part of varying routine, which is fine, but where their overzealousness brings blood; (4) the "dental hygenist" who attacks the inside of your mouth and you feel like you are choking on her tongue, but at least you get your tonsils checked and teeth cleaned for free; (5) the "turtle" where you can't find her tongue, which appear to be very shy - hard to get worked up with no tongue; (6) "anal-lips" where they have formed their lips extremely tight - it makes you wonder about their potty training during the formative years; (7) "blubber lips" where they smear around on your face and you feel you are kissing a dead corpse; (8) the "windmill tongue" where, although you're into a few swirls here and there, she keeps going faster and faster and there's no variation and what the hell is wrong with her?; (9) the "tongue sucker" who sucks your tongue, which is sort of cool is done gently, but I'm speaking here of more of a vacuum-cleaner sensation, where it feels like your tongue is going to be sucked down her throat; (10) your turn to add your own. :) | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 4/6/2009 4:59:34 AM |
It's always awkward when you kiss a stranger for the first time.
I've always thought it was exciting to kiss a stranger for the first time. There's nothing quite like the rush of that first kiss. | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 4/6/2009 8:19:57 AM | Kissing? It starts with the lips... don't pucker them like an ape posing for a funny picture so they can get a banana, I just let them relax.. my kisses don't just come from there though its all in the body too for a real affectionate kiss I want to hold them close, firmly but gently. Be gentle and slow when it comes to tongue action, its relative speaking of course since a usual kiss is only about 5 seconds long but you know what I mean... I open my mouth just a little bit, let my lips part and caress her tongue soft and sweet, let it linger only a second and then pull back the same way I started. I'm a teaser, so sometimes lick her lips whenI'm done; its so much nicer than biting them... and occasionally I place the classic peck on her chin or cheek before I let her go.
That's how I usually do it. | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 4/6/2009 12:56:00 PM | | A Good Kiss is the way to a womans heart, but it all depends really on the chemistry. But I can I can tell ya the best sex I have ever had has been started with a good kiss. | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 4/6/2009 2:29:32 PM | i think good kissers are born that way, either you have it -or you don't.
its always a great idea to practice, practice, practice 
the best compliment a guy can get is when she has to sit down or catch her breath, cuz all that kissing made her head spin or weak at the knees
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 4/7/2009 2:15:49 PM | excellent post- i wish i had a partner right now to practice this on.
to be honest kissing has always kinda nerved me.
when i was 16 with my first bf i was so nervous. i had no idea how to do it, and wantd to get it right before we tried. I would watch endless tv ad movies where they were kissing but still was confused. i practiced on everything, cut a hole in an apple, popsicle stick, my fist, i even used my huge stuffed animal frog with its giant mouth and lips and my hand to practice lol. my friends were constantly explaining it tom e as "go with teh flow" and i was terrified.
when we did have our first french kiss, it was beyond stupid. he just darted back n forth between one side of my mouth to the other. and i had to pull back and go "um this is really what kissing is?".
then when i tried, i took his tongue, put my tongue around it and went around and aroudn like a circle, and he said "clearly, this isn't it either". lol , that was mortifying.
the best advice was i took some candy, put it in his mouth, and explored his mouth while trying to get the candy. this was a good way to be comfortable.
i remember alot of highschool, asking ym friends "when u french kiss, can someone else from afar see, are your mouths wide open and tongues sticking out of your mouths?" lol. an dhtey would answer yes. and now i realize um no...
finally with my second bf, he showed me. THANK GOD. but i'm still so nervous about kissing, bc i just never know if im doing it okay or not.
thanks for posting this, thankfully i don't do any of your don'ts, and do plenty of your do's. phew phew.
just thought i'd post my embaressing kiss experience, so people know that girls make plennnnty of kissing mistakes too lol. | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 4/11/2009 4:55:52 AM |
"Slowly enjoy her whole mouth, starting with her lips. Mouth the top lip, then the bottom lip. Nibble at them a bit. Suck them lightly. Nip them lightly. Or while, a lip is b/t your lips, run your tongue along it. NO, don't drool on her mouth. And take your time enjoying the lips. "
oh my...so glad i stumbled across this post
Kaylie you describe a kiss eloquently. That is the kiss that makes my knees buckle.
Mmmmm, gotta get me some of that... | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 7/1/2010 12:33:41 PM | Ok I admit it ...after reading this thread ...I have no idea how to kiss ... so the conclusion I have come to is the ones who know or think they know how to Kiss are the ones that probably no one will want to kiss ... ...I really have no Idea how a girl wants to be kissed ..but I have had my share of "OH MY GOD " remarks as well as other compliments on my kissing ...I just always thought that I kissed with my heart instead of my lips .follow the lead of the woman and skew the kiss to my own personal distention ...and I have never had any complaints..but to say I know how to kiss every woman would be a exaggeration...so Im going to say that I have the instinct to instantly learn how almost any woman wants to be kissed ..and adjust/personalize my kiss .to her in a time frame so fast that she will never be able to detect the fact that I am improvising ...with hopes that I can deceive her into thinking I am the best kisser she has ever had ..or at least make her unsure when or if she has had better .... this seams to work for me ..
.this works evidently for women also ...I never had but one woman who was a bad kisser ...and she was the only one who thought she was an expert | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 7/1/2010 12:54:17 PM | Considering the places where some folks have put their mouths, along with dental care, one would think kissing would be obsolete by now. I prefer to kiss a glass of single malt scotch.  | |
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| A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Posted: 7/1/2010 3:41:40 PM |
A Kissing Primer - for guys or those who need it
Unm….not really. Rather presumptuous actually.
I detest having my sensitive lips bitten. I’m not the only one,
don't friggin bite my lips....
BTW I am a kissing expert; been practicing since I was six.
I've always thought it was exciting to kiss a stranger for the first time. There's nothing quite like the rush of that first kiss.
+1
The last time I felt that indefinable chemistry for someone I almost passed out before our lips touched. As he pulled me to him I trembled and he noticed. When I say I melt, I mean it literally. | |
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