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 femmina

Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 26
The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 5/4/2008 10:59:16 PM
You are BOTH still on - that's the point regardles of reason why. Why not sit down together and delete together ;) If he refuses - well then that should make you think twice ;) Hard thing to do because naturally we all dislike rejection but make that step and whatever happens should benefit you!
 Best In Blue

Joined: 4/16/2007
Msg: 27
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The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 5/4/2008 11:02:22 PM

Uhhhmmm... If I can do the math and interpret the calendar thingy, 3 months ago was on November 1st... So, how come that you have joined on December 12th? ... About month and a half after starting a relationship.
It is possible that she made a separate account to spy on her boyfriend.
 xfahctor

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 28
The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 5/5/2008 9:00:09 AM
My girlfriend and I met on this site and though we both canceled our past memberships after we were "together", we both maintained our accounts on another dating site we were both members of, just changing things enough so it was noted that we ere both taken and together. We stayed because we had both made close friends in the forums and wanted to stay part of the online community there.
 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 29
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The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 5/8/2008 2:22:32 AM
wow; you are naive; of course he's talking to others; stop it or get used to the drama and pain. Get a backbone or he'll never respect you;
 clambroth

Joined: 10/27/2007
Msg: 30
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The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 5/8/2008 9:47:01 AM
Keeping his options open and, yes, most likely waiting for something "better" to come along
 browneyed_girl36

Joined: 5/5/2008
Msg: 31
The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 5/8/2008 7:44:39 PM
Well I have to say OP that I know exactly how you feel....my bf was on here most of the time we were dating even after we moved in together. when I asked him why he simply told me he was just teasing girls and had no intentions of meeting any of them yeah, right, messaging them for sex when he knew I wouldn't be home? come on!! I still to this day don't know if he ever did and I don't want to know....he told me almost the same thing..."don't worry, I live with you now and I wouldn't cheat on you" "Stop being so insecure " is what he told me.....well after several months I said enough is enough and moved on. And that's exactly what you should do he's obviously doing the same thing as my bf was.....Move on and don't waste your time, trust me he's not worth it.
I still care about him alot and wish it had been different as will you but you'll be better in the long run and happier too.

Good Luck!
 Landscaper

Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 32
The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 5/27/2008 10:07:55 AM
There have been numerous threads done about this subject, depends on what he is on this site for still, is it he is just keeping in contact with old friends? or is it he is still casting his line in the pond? waiting for the BBD Bigger Better Deal, in which case i can understand your frustration, is his profile listed as not single not looking? if not, you need to find out where you stand with him, if you cant get a straight answer, kick him to the curb and cast your line again, and your still on here only because he is? two wrongs have never made a right, if you dont trust him or he is giving you reason to doubt your relationship.. wake up and smell the coffee, no trust, no relationship.. again i dont know specifics so if you think you have a problem with him, thats your gut talking and your instincts,, listen to it, JMO.
 femgirl

Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 33
The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 7/19/2008 1:27:12 PM
he's looking for something better...and when he finds it...you'll be dumped. He doesn't love you hun :(
 mitchchan

Joined: 12/11/2007
Msg: 34
The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 7/19/2008 6:11:05 PM
he's fishing for a better ones, talk to him to see if there is a pontential relationship or else dump his arse.
 LauraAnn1983

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 35
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The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 7/19/2008 11:59:20 PM
youre quite the optimist huh? It's only been three months. Are you exclusive?
 melaniee9999

Joined: 7/30/2008
Msg: 36
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The guy i'm seeing is still on this site. It's been over 3 months and he says he loves me.
Posted: 8/19/2008 7:38:36 PM
Just some good advice: If you have to ask the question then you KNOW the answer...the fact he is on Fish tells you is Words and Actions do N OT go together...
Talk is Cheap............A good lesson in life is to believe what you SEE and not what you hear...What you see is not what you hear in this case so it is a no brainer.
Move on and call it a lesson learned...
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