| Yes means No?
Posted: 2/2/2008 1:03:34 AM | NO!
Now, tell me OP... What do you think my answer means?
Another insight into the paradoxical world of being male - in case you were wondering where all the "Ask A Girl" threads came from, it's stuff like this.
You really have to pay more attention to your sources... I would hope that you don't buy People's magazine to learn about war in Iraq. Similar approach should be taken when it comes to fishing here... A girl who expects to be hoaxed sound like one big hoax to me, and should NEVER be taken seriously due to the lack of credibility.
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| Yes means No?
Posted: 2/2/2008 1:04:22 AM |
Make her put her money where her mouth is...walk away and forget about her. Clearly you don't get much; or else, you are settling for the hags, uglies, and old hides. 
Girls often believe they shouldn't but they may not mind being coaxed into it. If you are unwilling coax a girl then do without. Another insight into the paradoxical world of being male - in case you were wondering where all the "Ask A Girl" threads came from, it's stuff like this.
*sigh*
You really have to pay more attention to your sources... I would hope that you don't buy People's magazine to learn about war in Iraq. Similar approach should be taken when it comes to fishing here... Recursive-recursive response! (this is making me dizzy)
Unfortunately even if this is a half-truth, or only a smidgen true... encountering it is enough to screw with our simple male minds. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 7:06:33 AM | No means no
yes means yes
maybe means I'll think about it and let you know.
it really isn't rocket science now is it? | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 7:44:12 AM | No always means no...when you're dealing w/ a stable adult.
If you have any questions..ask.
If you don't understand the answer...or the answer isn't clear....drop it and walk away.
They are playing games. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 11:55:54 AM | No always means no...when you're dealing w/ a stable adult.
What is it about the word 'coy' that you don't understand?
If you don't understand the answer...or the answer isn't clear....drop it and walk away.
They are playing games. Bye bye and don’t let the door hit you on the way out. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 12:38:12 PM | Hiya's bro, hope lifes well acapella :D
What part of coy dont I understand ? Ummmm it ? lol I personally dont want coy. Seems pretty immature to me. And having just gotten out of a bad situation, with a 35yr old child. Which btw: she was anything but coy, lol. Rd head, public sex, pretty much anything went.
The sex wasnt the problem, the immaturity was a big deal to me. Refusing to communicate like an adult was a big deal to me. So still think no means NO. And dont want a woman. Who no means yes. Yes means no, left means right. Or any variation of. Too annoying, confusing and immature to deal with. Why would U even wanna hump someone like that ? :D
No means no. Unless your dealing with an emotional child. Or have aspirations to be a rapist.
HEADGAMES, .... just say NO !!! :D | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 12:50:40 PM | I know that my no is always no.
If I'm being playful than I would say something like maybe or possibly, but haven't yet used pantaloons, like .marc suggested in his post. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 1:02:33 PM | Don't let ya mind play tricks on ya. Everyone knows no means no......ya just got a dirty mind...clean it up.........otherwise people will know what ya been doing.
Remember 2 no's dont make a yes......ok.......that means yes by the way, Shes reluctant , so ya have to be quick , dive straight in before she changes her mind.
If ur half way there , ya left with about 30 secounds........come on be honest....thats the only reason she let ya. you ain't that good otherwise ya would not be asking the question.
If she says no half way through don't withdraw, she obviously dreaming...ya dirty get.
Now lets get it right or you ain't the only one thats f .....d
Firm and fair:
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Posted: 2/2/2008 1:35:33 PM | You know..."no" and "yes" apply to other situations as well.
I'm sure you are familiar with the tens of thousands of threads on here about "He said he'd call, and then never did". "He said he had a great time and never called back". "She said she'd meet me at the restaurant, and never showed". "She took my phone number and never called it".
I just recently had a guy hit on me on here. We exchanged emails...went to phone. He called several days in a row and told me to call "anytime". He said I was sexy, hot, etc etc...kept telling me I'd look hot in a miniskirt and thigh high boots. I finally (like a moron), told him that my left ARM would not fit in a thigh high boot, let ALONE my left THIGH. Now, god knows, I should have lied my a$$ off so I could have ended up on yet another of the "they lied their a$$es off about their body size and when I met em they were as big as a damn house" threads....but I'm a little slow. So I sent him four of my less than sexy pics (showing large portions of my naked body - but none that were recognizeable as ME of course, lolol)....and all of a sudden the phone calls ceased.
This did not come as a surprise, but just to exacerbate the situation, because of course, I am a Master Exacerbator.....I wrote and said something along the lines of "So, what did you think of the pics?"....and he wrote back and said something along the lines of "DAMN THOSE THINGS ARE HUGE! Can't wait to smash my face in em!".....
I, surprised, said "So...does this mean that our date for Valentines Day is still on?"
He wrote back with this heartfelt and exceedingly romantic reply that shall remain forever etched into my memory..........
"YES".
Ok..now....
That was the last I heard from him.
F'ing YES SHOULD MEAN YES, and F'ing NO SHOULD MEAN NO, and F all this "COY" CRAP, LADY. I do not have the TIME nor the INCLINATION to wade through a bunch of immature childish BULL FECES and read in between a bunch of LINES.
Call it.
Walk it.
OWN IT.
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Posted: 2/2/2008 2:13:09 PM | You love it and you know it, Acapella. You are just hoping I'll be "exacerbating" YOU in person one of these days!
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Posted: 2/2/2008 3:20:17 PM | OP:
No means no. It doesn't sound like you're at the place where you're using code words in role-playing scenarios with your dates , so just take it for what it is. Be a man and zip your pants up when you hear that shit. If you stay calm and don't act butt-hurt or irritated about it, there will ALWAYS be another opportunity with the same girl (sometimes the next night).
Take your blue nuts home and squeeze one off. It's not the end of the world. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 4:10:39 PM | not to further exacerbate the point, unless of course it does, in which case - sorry for exacerbating the point! ..
no means no in my world.
met someone last spring who thought it meant 'try harder'. now my friends won't date him either .. funny bout that | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 4:15:07 PM |
"DAMN THOSE THINGS ARE HUGE! Can't wait to smash my face in em!"
Wow--- such a charmer.
I'm willing to bet if this is the mentality he can't take a joke-- probably read the bit about the Halloween hand with the red paint on the finger and defecated out of fear. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 4:22:49 PM | | I will take No for an answer. I mean sometimes women do say no and REALLY REALLY mean it. I figured out though that if they say "look you motherfricker, I WILL PRESS CHARGES " they really mean NO. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 4:26:02 PM | Do U get that alot sport ? 
Just kidding around. Saw a good opportunity for a stick and move. Nothing to add to the thread, other than this bs. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 4:33:33 PM |
Girls often believe they shouldn't but they may not mind being coaxed into it. If you are unwilling coax a girl then do without. The truth is that women are coy. Not just human females but also birds and other mammals.
If you're at the stage where you've got a woman alone and you're having to 'coax' her, then you haven't laid the correct foundation for you two to be in that situation in the first place. Fall back, regroup, and get that foundation in order.
It's that simple.
If you have no clue what I'm talking about, then you probably shouldn't be trying to take a woman to bed until you do. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 4:43:04 PM |
Girls often believe they shouldn't but they may not mind being coaxed into it. If you are unwilling coax a girl then do without. The truth is that women are coy. Not just human females but also birds and other mammals.
Girls, birds and "other" mammals? Birds are not mammals. But, OT, if a man is "coaxing" a girl, bird, or other mammal, he's got some problems.
If he's hetero, then he should be with a woman, and women say no if they mean no. The only time they "shouldn't" is if they don't want to & then they say no. If he's a man, he will accept that. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 5:05:52 PM | probably read the bit about the Halloween hand with the red paint on the finger and defecated out of fear.
Nah.
This is a man that hunts all his own food with a bow and arrow....and took a bite out of the heart of the first deer he ever killed.... I don't think he's afraid of much of anything (except telling ME the truth)....
and is a Schindler of Cows....
*sigh*
Actually, I think I was rather smitten. What's not to love about a Schindler of Cows?
His ex wife was an exotic dancer. I just didn't fit the bill. But I was disappointed that he was not just straight up about it. He took the cowards way out. *disappear* He never should have said "YES" when what he meant was "UNEQUIVOCABLY NO".
However, I did have a glimpse into the future....one of the other things he had said after viewing the pictures was "You are a nice, funny, pretty lady".
We all know that the word "nice" is the kiss of death..................
da da da DUM.
But thanks for the nice post, .Marc.
............as for the above post.....birds and other mammals being coy? Does this have anything to do with sex with chickens? ARe you finding the chickens you approach are saying no? Are they being coy with you?
Mammals are coy...apparently you've never seen a cat in heat. Or a baboon. Or a mandrake for that matter. Although I do agree one could say that mares can be coy...if you call getting the crap kicked out of you "coy". ROFL | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 5:08:49 PM | To some guys when asked to do something THEY don't want to do...the answer is an ironclad NO! It goes no further...
When women are asked to do something they don't want to do and they say "NO"! Its mostly "subject to negotiation" by the askor...
No means No in all subjects! | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 6:03:44 PM | ...so anyway, officer, I was just walking down the street minding my own business, exacerbating my point and looking for mammals to coax....
When, lo & behold I chanced upon a cute & comely lass who practically threw herself in front of me, and then actually had the effrontery to NOT be impressed with my substantial and obvious charms! the Noive!
Well, not one to be so easily diffused, I drew upon my vast POF forum-learned knowledge, and realized that she didn't REALLY mean "no"... she just needed a little coaxing, that's all.
The screaming, thrashing, and running? Oh, I'm sure she was just being "coy".
Honest officer, I'm a noble guy... I was just giving her what I KNEW she really wanted. So where's the harm in that?!? | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 6:23:41 PM | OH GAWD, IM LAUGHING SO HARD IT HURTS !!!!!
ty bro, needed it sincerely. But from the contents of this thread. And based on past experience, no doesnt always mean no. But it should be taken that way. Live and learn. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 7:34:06 PM |
I don't care if it's "pantaloons" --- pick a word that means no!
That's just floored me!! "pantaloons"!!
The interpritation of 'yes' and 'no' between consenting adults really does become apparant and if a woman is acting coy by saying no, her body is usually saying something completely different.
If she's not acting coy and says no then again, her body will tell you so....You get a clue when her knee strikes you nuts with great force | |
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