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| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/2/2009 11:52:14 PM | ^^^^ ~  ~ ^^^^
I guess this would only start working for a man or a woman, who has turned at least 36 years of age. Otherwise, you would be looking at windows with bars on them ! ~  ~  | |
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sorot
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Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 78 | |
| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/18/2009 3:46:40 PM | right younger woman are emotionally enjoyable since haven't gone thru all the BS that much so called "broken hearth" nonsense, not physically, and those over 35 are hotter and enjoyable with their endurance.
it;s hard for me to see someone to be enjoyable from here though  | |
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| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/20/2009 7:44:33 PM | Age is nothing but a number until you reach young enough to be your son or old enough to be your father. Then, it's just WRONG!
What would/could you have in common with someone 20+ years older/younger than you are? | |
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| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/20/2009 8:29:18 PM |
What would/could you have in common with someone 20+ years older/younger than you are?
Seriously? Other than sex? Nothing. A guy 20 years older than you would be nothing more than a father figure. There's nothing in it for you - maybe some sense of security but that's Daddy stuff. Stay away from those older men. | |
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Posted: 8/21/2009 10:02:37 AM | Women who marry much older men eventually end up as widows. My sister married a guy 15 years older than she was about 25 years ago. She is still in her prime at 61 and he is fast becoming an old man........Those 15 - 20 years really make a difference once you get past 70....
It's better for a woman to marry a younger man.....Women live longer...
Unless he is VERY old and VERY rich, then that is a different story.... | |
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Posted: 8/21/2009 6:33:02 PM | LOL CalifBoomer said it all:).
One of the more interesting things that I have ever experienced was belonging to a country club. Just about every month there is a note posted on the board concerning a member who has died (400 men plus approx 300 spouses). Being one of the younger members, at least I was when I joined 20 years ago I've been to plenty of funerals. Surprisingly mostly the wives funerals. This contradicted conventional wisdom and I came to believe some of these guys were some hardy and mean old coots and that if a man reaches a certain age and is healthy, he's likely to outlive his bride.
I've also seen some strange and sad things. A guy I played poker with at the club had been married 50 years, and his wife died a long painful death. He seemed not as upset as one would expect but I wrote it off to his grieving over the course of the illness. After a few months he began dating this gorgeous 50 year old gal and he fell head over heels. She dumped him after maybe 6 months of dating and he mourned as if he'd been married to her for 50 years. He went downhill rapidly from there.
There was an older lady who survived her hubby and kept her social membership. She was 96 and drove a car, delivered meals on wheels to older folks and dated quite a bit, much younger men, like 70. I would see her at lunch and dinners with these old guys all dressed up like it was their Junior prom and I would kinda freak out at the possibility that was me one day. I used to joke with her about dating and I noticed she stopped, and asked her why? She said she got tired of having funerals for her boyfriends lol.
But I've already provided the formula for age differences, you can look it up | |
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| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/21/2009 7:37:41 PM |
She said she got tired of having funerals for her boyfriends lol.
Maybe it wasn't age killing them off, but HER.......LOL
Thanks for a very entertaining post....
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sorot
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Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 85 | |
| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/24/2009 11:14:15 AM | so a normal, young woman may go play with some parts of 99 yo man for years hoping he will die to inherit his wealth?
by the way, if it's a man not male he won't even include his so called "young wife" in the deed or whatever.
I would give everything to my relatives instead of a hooker. | |
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Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 87 | |
| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/24/2009 12:45:27 PM |
Has anyone on here been approached by someone more than twice their age? And if so, what did you do about it? Were you comfortable with the situation, or did you just let it fly by? And by approached I mean genuine interest....
no but in my forties i was approached by a woman half my age. and yes i mean genuine intrest and al gore had not yet even invented the internet. what i did about it was to enter into a most rewarding and affectionate relationship that lasted more than a year. as you might suspect our varied interests, friends our own ages, etc., finally did get the better of us and we decided to split up but we remain good friends to this day. dealing with age differences is nothing but a state of mind over matter. if neither of ya mind then it don't matter. | |
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Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 88 | |
| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/24/2009 12:52:57 PM | a guy goes to his fiftieth high school reunion and runs into his best buddy from those days. his friend is now very wealthy and still somewhat attractive. on his arm is a twenty something knock out with a rock on her finger the size of a walnut. he get's his ol bud off to the bar alone and asks, "so what'd you do lie and tell her you were 35 or so? hehehehe...."
his friend leaned in and whispered, " hehehe. nope, i lied and told her i was 95." | |
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Posted: 8/24/2009 1:05:57 PM | OK against form I'm going to get all gabby and verbose and dispense wisdom just this one time.
Age doesn't matter so much as phase of life. Let me digress for a moment. One day all of us will have 4 marriages, marriage one will happen between 18- and approx 24 and be all about discovery, adventure, excitement. Marriage 2 (25 to 45)will be one of building, building career, family, business, etc. Marriage 3 (45-60)will be marriage to self, kids gone, acceptance of one's professional and personal cicumstances, the M3 will be one of selfish regeneration. Marriage 4 will be to one's best friend, holding hands into the sunset.
Now what you are describing is an M3 or M4 man wishing he could do a M1 deal. I would say most of my failed relationships are my M3 and M4 phase with M2 phased women, it won't work because they want to build something while I am basically trying to avoid something.
People often challenge me and state I wouldn't like it if my 30 something daughter was involved with a much older man. Untrue. She's had her kids, had she not experienced through that phase I might recommend against it. But now she could use a little mature masculinity and if she's happy, well I'm happy also. Her trouble with men, liberal guys primarily 40 somethings who are Peter Panning who need mothers, not mates. Sometimes you can pick these guys out on boards lol.
PS. very lucky people will have all four marriages with the same person. | |
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sorot
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Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 90 | |
| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/24/2009 8:31:00 PM |
^^^ How do you know your relatives aren't hookers?
my mom raised 4 well educated, physically fit, successful children (she is not in USA and doesn't want to come), my brother has a wife, his business and a son, happily married, my sister has three children , happily married, director of a school, I employ several people here and am engaged to the woman of my dreams (not American).
how about you? using drugs in school?
what your mom and sister did before getting married if at all?
that's why were asking that question? | |
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sorot
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Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 92 | |
| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/24/2009 8:47:30 PM |
*hands Sorot a shovel*
I already have it and am sticking it wherever and whomever I want.
this is my way of telling the public in this site who has issues which is only a metphoric issue overall American Society has to tell them to go f@@@@ themselves with their so called "values".
as I said pig is a pig, and when there are only pigs around the pig feels as if it is normal.
but when you take your dirty nose out from the country where Dr. Phil AKA pshycological "father" of American Society advertises sugardaddy website and you go to normal places, such as Europe or other countries, not muslim countries, then you will really see yourself as merely a pig among normal people who have real cultures and normal values. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2009 9:02:59 PM | Well done Miss W!
My thoughts were the shovel would be a slow, painful process and we could have some popcorn while we watch.
No pain for us, just idle amusement.
Pearls before swine.. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2009 9:16:59 PM | you go to normal places, such as Europe or other countries, not muslim countries, then you will really see yourself as merely a pig among normal people who have real cultures and normal values.
Wow I don't even know how to respond to this. I lived in Europe for 5 years and what I saw was an American among whining, somebody take care of me unproductive, and some very degenerative people. If its so great why don't you live there. We are uniquley America with all our faults, but I will take all our faults over any European country.
We are European, we are better than you and understand more than you. Holy crap I really hated the self indulgent superior self Eurotrash when I lived there. | |
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| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/25/2009 12:00:40 AM | I've never been around more ignorant (about politics for example) people than the Europeans. Borat needs to go back to where he's comfortable... Isn't his sister the fourth biggest prostitute in Latvia or something? BTW - What kind of moron would take the time to explain that his family aren't hookers (to his knowledge)? Like they would tell HIM how many trick they turn while he's at work.
Remember the shovel has two ends. | |
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sorot
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Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 97 | |
| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/25/2009 10:40:12 AM | I plainly explained about normal family which only like 10% of Americans have, about me or anyone else living with normal values. I am more of a rule than exception who lived in normal society. If you with your American stupid head think I took it personal while I don't even have a profile here and don't date you are mistaken.
And I live in more than normal American society with our ethnic group with us choosing our politicians in where we live, so I am talking about America in general, not my America.
I created my America in couple of years which you with you redneck stupid head can't even dream to have for the rest of your life, main reason - bcs I am just a normal person. every american who acts as a normal person achieves the same.
You better go to Jerry Springer show with that hooker mentality of yours and take with you 80% of the members of your society.
So, fact is a fact, the only reason you can think my or someone else's family members can be hooker, is bcs it came to your mind bcs your own family members have done it, otherwise won't even ask about it.
SO, keep on being petrified with your wooden head. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2009 11:17:37 AM |
So, fact is a fact, the only reason you can think my or someone else's family members can be hooker, is bcs it came to your mind bcs your own family members have done it, otherwise won't even ask about it.
By your own logic your brought it up first:
I would give everything to my relatives instead of a hooker.
SO... Your own family members must have done it... otherwise you wouldn't have mentioned it out of the blue.
So, how much for your sister? Will she shave first? | |
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Posted: 8/25/2009 11:28:34 AM | I'm going to take my American stupid head and ask one question....
If someone one here is so cool, and engaged with the hottest woman, and from a great normal family...... Why are they spewing on this appropriate age differential thread? Did someone finally realize that there were too many undercover cops playing 13 year old girls in their favorite forum?
I think age doesn't matter as much as maturity.... but thats me..... I have the body of a 90 year old, and the mind of a 4 year old. | |
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| what's an appropriate age differential?
Posted: 8/25/2009 1:51:18 PM | Jack - you're modest - most everyone agrees, your mind is that of a 12 year old.
Pretty sharp catch, BTW, about the undercover cops. Sorbet is walking on thin ice there with his Roman Polanski age differential ideas. BTW, didn't Polanski find refuge in EUROPE?
I've got to wonder why he's here at all if he's so happy in the company of his age-appropriate hooker relatives.
I had an aunt who used to crochet, BTW.
(Did I avoid banned camp?) | |
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