| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/2/2008 11:51:16 PM | "All of the people in this thread that felt the need to criticize the way I should feel about myself clearly have your own issues. I am a firm believer that people project their own weaknesses onto other people."
ISSUES?????
YOU ASKED FOR THIS!!!!!!
You, my friend, are equating sex with love. You're 22 years old. Sex is not the be-all end-all of your life. How about a little self discipline. Quit thinking with your d!ck. Women actually have more to offer then a place to warm your johnson. Maybe YOU'RE not as ready to have sex as you think you are. I for one don't think you are ready for a committed, adult, sexual relationship. | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 1:33:53 AM |
I am not nearly as shallow as everyone in this thread is portraying me.
and then....
My attitude usually is; if a woman is not into me after 3 dates I am going to move on. I am not going to wait around for any woman to want to sleep with me. I am going to find one of the many other women that will like me enough after 3 dates to want to sleep with me.
Not since my teenage friend Clayton have I seen a guy talk like this. It's almost like a comic-book character sprung to life and joined the forum here.
I'm completely amazed the gravitational pull from your ego hasn't dislodged the earth FROM it's orbit and began hurtling us all into deep space.
Firstly a previous poster was correct, she knew within about ten minutes if she was going to have sex with you, that is a fact.
Secondly, you're dating a girl you think is wonderful and you want a serious relationship, and you think waiting for sex is beneath you?
Last but not least...
I am going to find one of the many other women that will like me enough after 3 dates to want to sleep with me.
Well, I guess I know who to feel really sorry for in the future | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 2:57:00 AM | I once waited on a girl for 2 years.
No, it wasn't worth it. After we started having sex we only lasted 3 months.
She only came around when I started seeing someone else.
Could have saved us both a lot of trouble if we'd done it at the beginning.
The mere fact that you're asking this question tends to provide the answer. | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 3:50:37 AM | I have to say that is one of the dumbest things i have ever seen said. How are you losing your self respect by waiting 2 months?!? Perhaps maybe she just might actually really like you, Thats why she doesnt take things further. Or then again maybe she just aint into you.
And really, If you like her as much as you say. Why are you putting a due date on things? Take your time | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 4:46:21 AM |
Thank you "esad". This is the help I was looking for. Maybe I should evaluate her feelings a bit more.
I said this in the second post:
She does know if she wants to have sex with you. But maybe she doesn't want to rack up another number with someone who might not be around later. She's thinking about her own self respect too, JW.
Sorry if you did not see the same help offered in mine as in the other one. Part of the reason you are getting the responses you're getting is because you didn't provide any other details. You said you want someone who can't keep her hands off you after three dates. Does her nonsexual behavior lead you believe that she's into you? What kind of conversations do you have? Do you have fun when you're with her and call each other in between dates? If what you're questioning is why are you staying around for something when it might not work out, you're asking it wrong and looking for sex as the answer, when it might not be. | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 6:04:51 AM | hahahahah.. 2 months? 6 dates? Dude, whats your rush???? this is exactly what she's waiting for- you to bring out the inner ***hole who's going to dump her because she didnt put out.
6 dates. can you answer any of these questions?
1) where did she grow up
2) the names of her siblings
3) what school she went to, what her major was
4) the most embarassing moment of her life
5) what she likes in her coffee
6)where her grandparents are from
7) her favorite color
8) name 3 of her friends
9) name something she does when she's tense (ie bite her lip, twist hair, etc)
10) where was the last place she went on vacation?
If you cant answer these questions, how well do you know this girl???
learn this.
A WOMAN WANTS TO KNOW SHE"S WORTH WAITING FOR.
if she isnt, break it off with her now so she can find the guy who is willing to wait as long as it takes. | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 6:11:20 AM | aw, i'm sorry dude, but yes, you are that shallow. I have to wonder just how interested you STAY in women who you sleep with having only known them for 3 dates....
that you'd toss a woman who wants to get to know YOU before getting to know your****well, that shows your age and maturity plenty. | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 11:30:48 AM |
you don't need to be dating. just go to bars and have one night stands for a few years. don't lead girls on to think you want more than a f**k.
I think that's the bottom line. You can be as much of a jerk as you please, but don't mislead women into thinking you want anything more than sex. | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 11:48:43 AM | | Apparently, OP, YOU feel your self-respect (see, that's the self part) is being sacrificed. Find someone you CAN have sex with. In all these posts, you haven't mentioned anything about the woman--is she cute, nice, do you like her laugh etc? I think SHE prolly knows you're into her just for the sex. | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 11:55:45 AM | Start to distance your self from her and if she wants you she will beging to pull you back, and may be even have sex with you. Women know the second they meet you if are F-kable or not. Men find out after a few beers if a woman is F-kable or not (the not never happens)   | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 12:32:41 PM | Oh please! Ok... it's been 2 months..... maybe that is an issue for you..... but 6 dates......
Dude.... hell I have been on a lot more dates then that before getting between the sheets with a girl. Mind you 6 dates can be anywhere from 1 - 3 weeks......
If you have only seen her 6 times in 2 months you are barely dating each other. If this is a problem for you..... you are dating the wrong kind of girl.... you know... one who seems actually interested in a long term relationship.
Maybe you need to find someone who is looking for intimate encounters or hookups and save your self respect  | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 12:46:21 PM | | if sex is that important to you then maybe you should tell her i like women who are easy then....sex isn't important at all...its the personality that counts....sounds pretty shallow to me expecting her to have sex...just cause you've dated her for 2 months... | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 1:09:11 PM | OP~ you've got issues that need tissues.
You have been on six dates in two months. That isn't even once a week. Since the primary interest you seem to convey is sex, go out and get laid.
It's not that damn difficult, anyone can do it. Nobody likes a whiner. Perhaps you aren't all that?  | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 1:13:54 PM | If you are only dating, why the need for sex? Maybe she thinks sex is something you have once you're in a relationship.
No girl is wirth waiting for longer than that?
So getting sex is that the reason for dating a person in your mind? In my mind it's to find out if you want to keep that person in your life as you exclusive partner. But that's just me.
Maybe she knows you rather date Pamela Anderson and is constantly looking for other females as well.
I guess I spew some venom on you this time too. | |
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 2:06:03 PM | Sh1t.. you have more issues than National Geographic.!!
Your lady has her head well and truly screwed on, she has not slept with you because she knows EXACTLY what you are like. At the moment you see her as a challenge because she has'nt slept with you, and she has dented your ego by not whipping off her knickers the moment you took her to McDonalds for dinner...
Leave her alone, go away and grow up a bit - hopefully by the time you come back out of your cave you will have realised that women need more than that.
But i love the fact you have posted on here.. you have made yourself look a complete idiot by splashing your immaturity all over the Forums and now your chance of a date from here are positively nil.. i love that.!! WAY TO GO..!!
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| At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2008 2:32:59 PM | Well...I wasn't going to respond any more in this thread. But since I have been pretty much dragged through the mud, I have no choice.
The response I was looking for was the advice someone gave about being more sensitive to how the girl feels. I will use that advice. I certainly didn't expect to have my character attacked.
I had typed out a 3 paragraph long response to the people in this thread who took the time out to criticize how I should feel. I decided not to post it since it was too harsh (although very true).
Good luck folks. I am done reading this thread. | |
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