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 TakeMeTheWayIAm
Joined: 7/19/2008
Msg: 51
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karen200606: "Why do so many men pose as girls online to chat to women, are you one of them. What do you get out of doing that I would love to know. Do you realise how infuriating it is having spoken to a girl for a length of time only to find out your actually a man.
Please explain?"

I have joked for years that I should do that. Probably the biggest reason would be to simply be treated with respect for once from a woman who normally treats guys like they're jerks. I think it would be fun just for one day to be treated with the same default trust that you reserve only for other women... not for us.
 whatevar
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 52
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 8/14/2008 8:07:12 PM
There are a lot of people who don't believe in homosexuality, and believe that all lesbians need is a**** and they'll forget about girls. It's quite simple. Also, there are people who just think being lesbian or gay is all about sex, not about relationships, so they figure any sex will do. This has happened to me several times. Get a life, creeps.
 urbanite_416
Joined: 11/12/2007
Msg: 53
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 8/18/2008 11:45:40 PM
It's very, shamefully simple - it's a known fact many men fantasize about a threesum with two girls (altho, many have problem satisfying just one, but I digress). Therefore, the easiest way to get some good j erk off material is to pretend to be a bi/lesbian woman, get new material for their fantasies if the e-mailing or chat gets a little heated, and try to extract a few nude photos to add to their 'self-loving' collection.

I honestly do not think there's any deeper meaning in it all.
 Atlantadayguy1
Joined: 7/12/2008
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Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 8/19/2008 12:23:39 PM

I think it's gotta be something sexual cuz the first sign to me is when they ask if you're feeling horny 5 mins into the IM convo, and then go quiet when you ask to speak on the phone


So how far into a conversation would a real lesbian wait to ask the question....

(moving hidden mic closer)

I'm a little horse right now but sure we can chat on the phone....
so what are you wearing.....

All kidding aside I think posing as someone or something your not is a deviant thing to do which I might add includes pretending your not married or in a relationship.
While men posing as a woman to chat with adult woman that embrace an alternative lifestyle is not illegal it can be a form of very personal violation in my opinion.

I think it is possible some are pre op TG candidates that may not yet have admitted to themselves where their inner most desires might truly lead them.

I doubt there are many women lesbian or straight that emulate this behavior which does not bode well for the emotional maturity of men in general.

Ever notice when someone is arrested for posing as a young boy or girl and trying to meet a young boy or girl its almost always some old Caucasian guy that looks like he might also hang out in a porn shop back room.... then you find out he is a school councilor, principal, priest or other profession that leaves them in close contact with children.

I've gotten of topic but am ashamed to acknowledge that most serial killers are also white males over 40......

I have the same respect and opinion of them as I do of a man that would pose as a lesbian..... there is something disturbing about them and their desires.
 Gangster Kitten
Joined: 4/3/2008
Msg: 55
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 8/19/2008 12:43:19 PM
This reminds me of a joke I saw once.

So there's this gorgeous woman, at the edge of a cliff. She's ready to jump and kill herself when a guy walks by and sees her.

"What are you doing?" the man asked

"I'm going to kill myself by jumping off the cliff." the woman responded

Well the man looked at her, puzzled. She was beautiful. He had an idea:

"Hey, since you're going to kill yourself, think you can give me a blowjob before you die?"

"Sure why not?" she reasoned. So she gives the man a blow-job. When they were finished the man was amazed.

"You're amazing at that, why on earth do you want to kill yourself?" He inquired

The woman looked up at him, sperm oozing down her face

"My parents disowned me for dressing up like a woman."

It dawned on the man what had happened. He then threw himself off the cliff.
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 56
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 8/19/2008 12:47:07 PM
Well in my case I just recently found out I must be a lesbian I love all the same things. J/K as to why someone would 'pose' beats me other than a substantial lack of self confidence and can only talk to women in this guise. If the talk rapidly moves to a sexual context then the reason is rather obvious
 Bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
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Posted: 8/31/2008 2:39:19 AM
Because I AM a lesbian! I have NO interest in men whatsoever!!!
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 58
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 8/31/2008 7:57:29 AM
Wow I didn't know they did that.............men trying to prove how stupid they can be once again............LOL
 john_raymond21
Joined: 8/6/2008
Msg: 59
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 8/31/2008 8:46:27 AM
Sad. Pathetic. But yes it does happen. I wonder if they do it trying to develop a FFM threesome in the process? Think about it.
 ThorntonHottie
Joined: 12/29/2007
Msg: 60
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 10/25/2008 7:36:15 AM
because they're freaky hornballs who think two women are hot...it sickens me...men are gross pigs
 er1ka
Joined: 11/3/2007
Msg: 61
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 10/25/2008 10:49:45 AM
They're either:
1. Sexual Deviants and are on some weird Jeffrey Dahmer type crap.
OR
2. Want to see nudes/talk dirty to a chick.

Males..
 produceninja
Joined: 5/7/2008
Msg: 62
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 10/25/2008 2:28:37 PM
Maybe we want to be lesbians?
 The rock man
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 63
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 10/25/2008 2:48:24 PM
I'm not posing! I came out of the closet years ago. Before it was the hip thing to do!
I'm proud to say I love women!
 junipermoon
Joined: 3/1/2006
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Posted: 10/25/2008 3:01:20 PM

Why do men pose as lesbians online?


because someone has to do it and they can't afford real lesbians?
 leserz
Joined: 12/20/2005
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Posted: 10/25/2008 4:08:34 PM
i think they pose as a woman so they can get details on the girls sex activity with there penis in there hand. just a thought .
i have said to my self if there is a thing as reincarnation i wanted to come back as a drop dead beautiful lesbian
 printer2
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 66
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 10/25/2008 4:23:48 PM


because they're freaky hornballs who think two women are hot...it sickens me...men are gross pigs



Wow, and I shake my head when I hear some men's homophobic comments.

Now if life was fair you would get the guy pretending to be a lesbian talking to a woman who happens to be a guy pretending to be a lesbian.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 10/25/2008 5:39:46 PM

So very scarey thinking about the way a man's mind works!
Be afraid...be very afraid!

But......but.......but.....I am a lesbian....trapped in a man's body. However, I've outted myself to my friends and family; and so far, everyone has been very supportive. It's true, I'm sexually attracted to women. I knew I was attracted to girls from a very early age; before I even knew what sex was. I didn't understand the significance then; but now I'm comfortable with my decision; I feel good about myself, and I'm glad that I can finally be myself in public and around my friends.
 TheDirtyBen
Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 68
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 10/25/2008 8:57:21 PM
What are lesbian poses?? I didn't know that there were such things!

So, if you watch a model go down the runway and strikes a pose. Do you whisper to your friend, " See? I told you that she was a lesbian! Just look at her!! Throwing out her lesbian pose.......for all to see!" ????

First of all, I can't stand in high heels. Let alone walk in them!

And now you tell me that there is some secret pose that only lesbian do??

Really people. You need to start e mailing them memos!!!!

Get with the times!!!!
 EyesWideOpen66
Joined: 8/8/2008
Msg: 69
Why do men pose as lesbians online?
Posted: 10/25/2008 10:20:12 PM
People do this?! My goodness... nothing will surprise me after that! People are screwed up!
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