| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/9/2008 9:25:08 PM | OK OK you're right Slumberparty. I shouldn't butt in on your post here but the DO was just too funny. Made me thing of Mt Dew and all those ads they had. LOL And F**k is just too blunt. Screw is still used but getting old and odd and ball is from way to back there . Hummmmm whats PC for one to say now? Lay has been a good one but is it dated yet? But again there I go butting in again. I mean no harm. I understand what is is your asking here and the answers have been very interesting too. So of the guys are really funny.
Sorry again Slumberparty
Lalani
PS I started a thread today too , feel free to butt in there if you want. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/9/2008 9:59:31 PM | | Hi, good stuff, thank you for replying, what is your thread, I will check it out ;-) | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/10/2008 6:30:05 PM | After chatting with a cute girl for a while, and she went about her business another girl I knew wandered up to me and said "You want to DO her, don't you?" uhm... if I say yes, I'm a piggie, and if I say no I'm gay. Decisions, decisions... I think I said no. I should have said yes. Honesty is the best policy...
Do. Bone. Motorboat. Spank. Pork. Get Wild. Get Freaky. Get Nasty. Sleep with. Make love to. Have intercourse. Knock boots. Bump Uglies. Swap fluids. Engage in Adult Play.
You must....
1)Pick 3 and write an essay explaining how they are significantly different.
2)Pick 3, put your helmet on, and engage in said acts.
(or)
3)Don't stress over how someone expresses that "sex is involved." | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/10/2008 9:38:25 PM | To the original question, technically speaking....
If fantasizing is defined as imagining without yet actually participating in an act, then I can no longer fastasize about her after I have done her. So instead I am thinking about her or rather, what I did to her or am going to do to her next time. Or if it was just a memorable experiance than I am just remembering. If I didn't like it I will just forget I ever did her.... | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/11/2008 8:32:17 AM |
If fantasizing is defined as imagining without yet actually participating in an act, then I can no longer fastasize about her after I have done her. So instead I am thinking about her or rather, what I did to her or am going to do to her next time. Or if it was just a memorable experiance than I am just remembering.
Huh? lol. My definition of fantasizing is "that you think about when you masterbate" - well in the sense of this thread anyway. Not talking about daydreaming type of fantasizing, hee hee. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/11/2008 11:21:08 AM |
Do you actually have partners that you HAVE fantasized about even AFTER you finally had sex with them?
In a word - yes!
And the fantasies tend to be either about things we haven't done yet - or on improvements on what we have already done.  | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/11/2008 11:51:16 AM | | lmfao we fantasize about sex all the time, i could walk around the mall see a gorgeous girl and play it out in my head in seconds lol, and it can stop, it depends on the guy, i rather long relationships instead of short ones or one nite stands, all i need is one girl n i fantasize about her alllll day | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/11/2008 2:54:52 PM | Huh? lol. My definition of fantasizing is "that you think about when you masterbate" - well in the sense of this thread anyway. Not talking about daydreaming type of fantasizing, hee hee.
Yea, lol, I knew I would get someone on that. Throw a dictionary my way and look out.
Just to clarify
fantasize: To create or imagine in a fantasy
fantasy: Imagination or imaganary, unnatural or bizzare image, illusion, phantasm, based on fiction.
Therefor if I have been with a woman I no longer fastasize about her, I remember her, its no longer imaginary or fiction in my mind. I can think about her while I am doinking myself. If I have not been with her I can fantasize about her while I am doinking myself. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/11/2008 8:25:59 PM | Guess weatern isn't getting any.
Op dont you fantasize about the guy you had sex with? | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/11/2008 9:40:49 PM | | After I have sex with a woman, I like to have french toast and bacon. If she hasn't burnt it, the fantas may well continue. That is when you know that she has made the cut. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/11/2008 10:05:09 PM | | Ok, let's say that you want a Ferrari. You fantasize about having one. Finally you get one. Would you fantasize about what you already have? Of course not. You'll be busy driving your Ferrari. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/11/2008 10:17:31 PM | From the Opost
Okay, I heard once that a man will fantasize about a woman before he has sex with her. And then, once he actually has sex with her, the fantasizing stops.
I have heard so too. Heresay! | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/11/2008 10:47:14 PM | | I think alot of the fantasy is a typical "grass is greener" cliched scenario. In some cases, men will continue to fantasize, especially if the actual sexual experience mimics the fantasy. However, if the primal goal of the male is conquest, then fantasy has become reality and loses its lustre | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/12/2008 1:00:45 AM | | We fantasize about women no matter what stage in the relationship we are at, even after sex, just not always the same woman. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/29/2008 5:10:06 PM | | You just laid it out perfectly Remote Control...Couldn't have said it better myself. Bravo! | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/29/2008 5:12:39 PM | heck no! I don't stop!
I fantasize about her even more...
Now that I know she's willing, I'm looking forward to how dirty I can make her. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/29/2008 8:23:49 PM | | Do Her? ok serious time warp , i imagine their is no correct or incorrect way to answer this, but IMO it would be , everyone has their little fantasies, however about someone they have never been with? thats the whole point of fantasy, after it becomes reality, then all their is left is wondering what personal limits are, if that makes any sense, again IMO if you are with someone and having sex with them and at the same time having fantasies about being with someone you already knew prior in that way,, YOU SHOULDNT BE HAVING SEX WITH THE PERSON YOUR WITH NOW. | |
|
| |
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 3/2/2008 12:27:29 AM |
Instead of thinking about what "it might be like," you can go onto fantasizing about what it WAS like, or how it could be.
I have done that, had fantasies about a partner after having a physical relationship with her, I found it to make for an intense experience the next time of for a few times afterward. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 3/2/2008 8:12:04 AM | Now this is a sticky one for me to answer........
My fantasies were always about HER doing ME!!
So the fantasies never came true, I never took it further and so got lost in a wilderness.... | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 3/2/2008 8:40:03 AM | If I finally get to root her ( as we like to put it in Australia) and I thouroughly enjoyed it, I'll just keep fanatsising about her til the next root. Until the honeymoon period is over, then I'll probably take up porn again and hope she's in the mood. Usual scenario would be laying in bed reading..I'd probably slide the hand down her pyjamas. If she turns me down I'll just pretend I was wetting my finger to turn the page. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 3/2/2008 8:54:19 AM | | I still fantasize about former lovers from many many years ago. But then I have been fortunate to have been with for the most part truely exceptional women. Standards certainly limit quanity, but it surely does enhance quality. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 5/30/2008 12:55:06 PM | I think it's fun to try to NOT do the deed so quick because the tease and the chase(foreplay) is soooo much fun! If you can keep him interested he will be fantisizing for a long time to cum  | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 5/30/2008 3:32:50 PM | slumber, Not quite true in my case, but then I won't go into any details for what's no one's business but our own. I'm sure that there are many guys ...as well as more gals than will admit, who value the initial 'conquest' before care to follow through on other levels in fidelity w/ that 'conquered individual', but then that's their loss. "Do someone?" Just what do mean by this vague assessment of self?
It seems that some folks don't fantasize at all before or following first sex, and I seem to have met me one who'd rather make love w/ me in reality than settle for anything less, and I suppose that she's not unlike me in caring to get it right regardless of what take we're up to for the making. If perfect sex ...a.k.a. lovemaking is a once-and-done event for you, I wish you luck for that 'bottom-line' fantasy. | |
|
| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 5/30/2008 4:12:08 PM | | The only time I fantasize about an ex, are things I should have done to her but didn't. | |
|
Home
login 
