| Problems with your man turning you down?
Posted: 2/29/2008 4:42:55 PM | Hey OP I know what you mean....I have a very high sex drive and lots of times had my bf turn me away which I found odd too....I talked to him about and asked him if there was something wrong with me coming on to him for sex.....he said it was just my timing instead of waking him up in the middle of the night....he prefers it in the morning so that's been working for us....so if I were you just talk to him about and like strawbs08 said be kind & gentle.
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| Problems with your man turning you down?
Posted: 2/29/2008 8:10:57 PM | Zorba,(A.quinn) the greek thought refusing a lady this comfort was intolerable.
Mabye he's too ignorant to pose a question.
Does he feel trapped? | |
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DonQ
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| Problems with your man turning you down?
Posted: 2/29/2008 9:14:09 PM | There were a FEW times (notice I emphasized that?) I turned my ex down when she was feeling a bit randy. There were times she was convinced I was doing it out of petty revenge for the NUMEROUS times (notice I emphasized that?) she turned me down but to be quite honest, I was either tired, not feeling well, or truly just not in the mood.
Yes... there are times when a guy just doesn't want to put out. Its not often I'll grant you but it does happen. | |
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| Problems with your man turning you down?
Posted: 3/1/2008 8:31:53 PM | | There's a really interesting saying that might fit with your bf: 'His dreams are bigger than his ambitions.' If that's the case then doesn't matter what you do - he won't take the opportunities to move forward. Plus he knows how he is and he's unhappy with himself but can't do much about it. Could play into why he can't even bring himself to be with you sexually. Good luck | |
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| Problems with your man turning you down?
Posted: 3/1/2008 11:21:46 PM |  ... A man gets turned down on a regular basis as if it's "the norm"...the guy turns the lady of the house down and it's a major frikken relationship disaster! ...Build yourself a bridge and get over it! Contrary to popular belief, guys are not up for it 24/7. Maybe he needed a shower and didn't want to freak you out, perhaps he just finished jacking off because he thought he wouldn't be getting any...again, maybe you just don't smell good..Who the feck knows?
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| Problems with your man turning you down?
Posted: 3/2/2008 2:09:12 AM | | Well' I know most guys are different but when it comes to sex that is a place where we are mostly the same. In other words if a guy is with a woman that he wants to be with if she wants sex' Sex she will get. But' If a guy is with a woman that he really doesn't care about' Well' That's different. He might have sex with her if there is no one else and he gets horny. But if there is someone else she might find herself being ignord. At 27 he should be banging like a rabbit with anything that has 2 legs and a hole in the middle. If he isn't with you then you can almost bet he is with someone else. The only other thing is something medically wrong with him. You will have to figure that out. | |
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| Problems with your man turning you down?
Posted: 3/2/2008 4:28:26 AM | Maybe you need to get between the porn and your man ... or at least in it. If you've been together awhile and he's a little older, you may need to spice it up in ways he may not think you're in to. Being in an LTR, the routine gets a little stale.
You're young, so no need to heed the advice of Team Jaded and become a track star just yet (no offense ladies). See if there are other solutions first. | |
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