| if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 7:03:02 PM |
would you approach her?
If I thought she was hot - yes. If she thought she was hot - no. | |
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| if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 8:15:57 PM | | OP, no. Your question answers itself. Too = excessive. If I thought she was too hot, it would be because she would be exuding sexuality. I've been around women like that and it's not an experience I want to repeat. | |
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Posted: 2/9/2008 9:17:16 PM | lol... I always remember what I read once about "hot" men/women: No matter how beautiful a person is, someone somewhere is tired of their sh!t." So that sort of puts things in perspective.
~Posies~ | |
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| if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 9:31:13 PM | Define hot?...
ME = Mighty HOT!... ( I am a bit pre-menapausal too....lol) | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 12:03:43 AM | | I'm rather surprised the word "troll" hasn't appeared in this thread yet... | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 12:14:11 AM | Of course -- the Lord hates a coward.
With props to my lost friend , Owen. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 1:00:09 AM | I'm going to assume that you're talking about yourself...if I were 18-25 or so and you were nearby, I would definitely approach you.
There is no such thing as TOO hot. If you find yourself not getting approached, perhaps this perception of yourself is radiating and guys are reading it as conceit. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 1:07:23 AM | | depends on how many of her goon friends she has standing guard around her..I always keep my gonads coverd around them.. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 1:41:00 AM | Well since I live in So Cal, I do but not just any hot woman.
I made that mistake when I first moved here and learned the hard way some hot women come at a VERY high cost. The pretentious princess types, the I am too good for everyone types, etc.
I learned you have to observe first to see if there are any cues leading to these behaviors and if not then approach. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 1:48:21 AM | | I don't approach women who are too ugly. I'm shallow and stuff. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 3:15:53 AM | | Why not? Beauty is common so why treat her any different than anyone else? | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 4:32:18 AM | If I had sense, probably not. There are plenty of women who have an incredibly hot body, but don't show it off. So often, "hot" = "showing off your body". Kind of like the difference between the billionaires that live the same as everyone else, and the semi-rich people who only wear expensive jewellery when & where everyone else can see it.
I'm cr*p at playing games and wear my heart on my sleeve. So I'm not good with women who make themselves look beautiful, just so guys will fall at their feet. But when I've met a woman who looked like a model, but didn't act it, we got on like a house on fire. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 4:37:26 AM | How often do you ask yourself "how the hell did he end up with someone like her?" Maybe my perception of beauty is off kilter but it sure looks like a lot of people would and can say yes!
My own experiences however lead me to believe that the answer to my question above is that they are either rich and or that they have a twelve inch penis. God bless the metric system I say! | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 5:51:15 AM | Absolutely!
All the while holding out hopes that she has extremely low self esteem.
Those types are my favorite!  | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 5:56:24 AM | | Probably not, usually hot women are high maintenance , I just don't kiss anyone's butt no matter who it is. It's different if a woman looks at me at a certain way or brush past me. Looks isn't the most important anyways, personality has to be first. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 7:41:29 AM | Absolutely. Physical attraction is bait. I've heard "stories" about "the hot chick" that "never got asked to the prom" but I've never seen it personally. Besides. I consider myself attractive, and I get approached all the time. Works in both directions...
It's more important to have a personality connection though, and you can't see that from the dancefloor. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 8:11:22 AM |
if a woman is too hot
Is this a trick question? I would approach her for the exact reason that she is too hot. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 8:14:26 AM | No such thing as a woman who is "too hot".
With that said, I'd probably not approach her simply because other guys have labeled her "hot" and she's been drinking in attention for years; like the wolf who's tasted sheeps blood and will always want it again, she'll probably be the same with attention.
The same with men also.
The higher on a pedestal other people put attractive individuals, the more those attractive people expect.
But I guess that's normal - if you've always had something, it becomes part of your life.
These things happen I suppose.
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Posted: 2/10/2008 8:21:24 AM | | I might if I was single, but that's another story. By the way, you should already know this, but you're really not too hot. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 8:24:39 AM | By the way, you should already know this, but you're really not too hot.
I'm sure she already knows that, but wants to believe otherwise. This is yet another pointless attention seeker where the OP has some flaw that she refuses to accept, so she chooses to delude herself into thinking that her failure is caused by one of her positives being "too amazing." We all know the deal, and how it plays out. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 8:29:06 AM | | Also, your height requirement (as opposed to "preference") pins you down in my book as being somewhat conceited in your choice of men. It also shows me that you aren't looking for the kind of depth in a man that you ought to be, but rather that you want a really superficial guy who will parade you in front of his friends and treat you like crap elsewhere, then finally leave you for someone who is much hotter than you. Trust me, there are plenty of women who are better looking than you and if you don't attract men with your personality, then the men you date aren't going to stay with you for very long! | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 8:49:45 AM | Hello OP
Hotness is subjective to me.....what I view as " hot ".....others may not.
I would approach a woman I find" hot" whom is closer to my age requirements...i.e 35 yrs+...
Anyone younger....I would be happy just to smile and view from a distance | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 8:58:24 AM | Stray Cat in message #6 nailed it.
There's a difference between being a "Hot" and being approachable.
People judge by looks, clothes, social status, and features. Looks fade, clothes go out of style, and on any given day, you can loose your savings and or your status.
Behaviors are learned, and opportunities lost all the time.
Atraction goes so much farther than looks in my opinion. | |
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