| if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/10/2008 9:02:22 AM | I don't approach anyone nowadays. Seems like too much of a hassle. Since the start of the year, I've been on cruise control. It makes it easier to relax and just be myself, and if someone is interested, all the better. I'm relaxed, happy with what I got right now, and have no desire to have that extra pressure of deciding whether to approach someone or not. It's not that I'm "afraid of rejection", I just don't see the "reward" being worth the "effort".
If I were to approach anyone, I'd rather go for middle of the road.
OP, if you're having this problem on PoF (and here's the profile reviewer in me coming out), your profile indicates a degree of high maintenance with potentially even higher standards. I disagree that it's nearly impossible to describe oneself... that's just lazy and shows lack of thought.
You find it impossible to describe yourself, which shows that you'd probably have a hard time talking about yourself in a conversation. Someone would probably ask you a question, and you'd answer with some generic basic answer. I've come across plenty of that in the past and it just doesn't interest me.
If you're having this problem out in the real world, the guys are probably thinking the same as above, and like how many responded in the thread. | |
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| if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/10/2008 9:35:37 AM | I think the problem a lot of guys have is that they spend so much time eyeing a woman that they let their approach anxiety take over. The "three-second rule" is well known in some circles as the way to overcome this -- as soon as you see someone, you approach in less than three seconds. Soon you find that physical beauty no longer intimidates you.
In fact, just last night I was in a place and approached someone before I even had a chance to look at her. I mean, why not, right? I started talking to her and her friend, and as soon as I got a good look at her I saw she was, in fact, very pretty. And maybe some guys would not have approached. But she was a very sweet person and we ended up chatting for about 20 minutes; an opportunity that would have been lost had I been overly concerned with how she looked. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 10:01:07 AM | | Approach? Sure! But it will be obvious in about 2 seconds if she has the personality to go with the looks. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 2:41:05 PM | This thread reeks of self-aggrandizement.
Pitifully humorous, it is.
F. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2008 10:18:07 PM | | I can't believe so many people actually tried to answer this question. It's so ambiguous, you can interpret it in several ways. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2008 10:31:49 PM |
I can't believe so many people actually tried to answer this question. It's so ambiguous, you can interpret it in several ways.
Care to expand on that a little more? I am curious to see how many ways you can move that around. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2008 10:35:59 PM | I need two comments to answer your question.
1. Yes, I would most likely avoid approaching her, unless it were to simply say in passing that she looked very attractive at that point in time, without any other comments or awkward silences created by me drooling on her new shoes.
2. She goes in the spank bank, so she's never really gone from my life | |
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Posted: 2/11/2008 11:03:28 PM | | "Could God superheat a Buirto SO hot, that not even he himself could eat it?" | |
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Posted: 2/13/2008 3:42:31 PM |
"Could G-d superheat a Buirto SO hot, that not even he himself could eat it?" Well, let's look at it from your POV. What something could YOU eat, that you couldn't eat? Nothing.Which is a No-Thing. Which is a member of the empty set. Which is emptiness. So your question is: Could G-d create emptiness? And the answer is: Yes. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2008 3:56:01 PM | I used to all the time, since my mother (former HS cheerleader) told me that the really attractive women rarely get hit on, so they are typically more single than you'd expect.
So far, I have to say it hasn't worked once, so I don't bother any more. After all, once they've said, "no", you can't check 'em out discretely anymore 
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Posted: 2/13/2008 5:30:18 PM | She would just be rude and tell me to "fvuk off" if a below average guy like me tried approaching a hot women since thats what most hot women do.
You're only below average if you keep telling yourself you are.
Besides, I have to strongly disagree that most hot women have lousy personalities. They don't. I know a lot of very gorgeous women -- one a Playboy model -- who have wonderful and friendly personalities. Granted, they might be sick of being hit on all the time, so that's why you approach them in a friendly manner, and not make it seem like you're just some smarmy guy trying to get in her pants.
In fact, women who are accustomed to getting hit on and often reply tersely often welcome a guy who actually treats her as a human being and not as an object.
And if she does act rudely, then you can be glad she let you know early on how much of a jerk she is so you didn't have to waste time finding out later. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2008 5:35:59 PM |  If a women is too hot I would use a fire extinguisher to cool her off.... | |
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Posted: 2/13/2008 5:48:59 PM | | When approaching a woman the first step is to make eye contact and share a smile, then you go for it. If they make eye contact and smile, then it's time to act. But it usually never get's that far when they are clearly out of your league. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2008 6:08:53 PM | | Oh yes I forgot...."Eye contact", "Share a smile", and then use the fire extinguisher to put her out. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2008 6:10:37 PM | I did....and we have been married for 16 yrs.
Do not let looks stop you from striking up a conversation. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2008 6:13:26 PM | | Ye, I would. Unfortunately, she already knows it, acts it, and lets everyone know that shes too good to be approached. When she meets a man that feels the same as her, she feels rejected, like she's done to men, so its not ok, but what goes around comes around. And usually the "way too hot" people, are usually lonely (just like ugly guys like me), and dont have friends(unlike me, who has a bunch). When a person starts to believe they are better than others, its the loneliness that kills them because everyones afraid to approach them. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2008 6:44:34 PM | | I dont think there is a such thing as too hot. From personal experience, I've beena round some women, as soon as they open their mouth all that goes out the window. There nothing better to kill a fantasy girl then knowing them. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2008 6:52:38 PM | | Surely too hot girls aren't too hot all the time. If I saw her at home painting the kitchen ceiling in some old shorts and a tee, I would have no problem offering to hold the ladder. | |
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Posted: 2/14/2008 7:51:13 AM | Too Hot implies too hot "for you". Which means your self confidence is NOT up to the task before you.
Get your confidence up & you will realize there is NO woman 'too hot' that she can't be approached w/ a little class & style.  | |
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Posted: 2/14/2008 10:09:20 AM | Of course, she is suffering from heat exhaustion. What you need to do it get her to a cool place and bring her body temperature down. remove her shoes and socks, normally her sweater or coat. By all means do not splash her with cold water. You could send her into shock. You will also have to remove some of her other cloths. It is best done by someone of the same sex. Let her body temperature drop normally so it will not cause any health issues. Do not place her under a ac directly.
Oh.. you mean if she is pretty... I would talk to her. Just a matter of replys if I would hit on her. | |
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Posted: 2/14/2008 10:26:50 AM | I would. Maybe one of two things will happen. It will show her I have the confidence you approach her, or, shake her a little out of her high horse to think that a guy that "looks like that" would approach her, something must be slipping in her facade"
Thing I have found with the "too hot" woman is that either she's so in to herself making herself look good, she doesn't have any other redeeming qualities, or, because so many men are intimidated by her looks (think they wouldn't have a chance), she's actually lonely for someone not in to her for her looks. | |
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Posted: 2/14/2008 11:31:53 AM | | No woman is too hot to approach...however there ARE those who are too attitudinal to approach. Just can't get past that sequoia tree (instead of chip) on her shoulder. | |
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Posted: 2/14/2008 12:16:50 PM | If a woman was TOO HOT couldn't we just throw her in a fountain or something?
That might help | |
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