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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 2/26/2008 11:27:45 AM | As cold as this might sound, just cut the bugger loose. You said it yourself that your on two different sexualy energy weave lengths. He can't tone you down and you sure as heck not going to heat him up... as you've stated many have tried. Don't try to change him, you'll never do it. Change yourself and realise it's not going to happen and find someone who actually wants you to touch him and has all the other qualities that your looking for. It'll be touch now to pull away because you've invested sometime but in the longrun you'll be much happier. Why put yourself through that headache...whats he got that you can't find somewhere else...a penis he doesn't want you to touch? News flash...half the human race has got one of those and I garantee you that atleast 90% of those with them, wouldn't mind you touching it:) | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 2/26/2008 11:51:56 AM | He's 26, has been in quite a few relationships that hit the "make-out" level but no further, and only two that he's had sex with. (He'd originally intended to wait til he was married... y'know how that goes.) Those relationships he was in for a while. He's only had someone go down on him once, and says he just didn't like it...
I'm trying to figure out what to do. I'm sort of at a loss, because hello, I want to touch him. All of him. Sheesh. Started to the other night and he just totally lost his erection.
Ok, so obviously the dude can get an erection but has trouble keeping it. That's called Erectile Dysfunction and Viagra might be able to help him out. Either that, or he just has a low sex drive and needs Testosterone Replacement Therapy.
To echo what a lot of other guys have said on here.. it's not normal to not like oral sex. Because when done right it feels fantastic. Forget religious views and whatnot, when you're a healthy man and a woman grabs it firmly and then puts it in her mouth.. whatever you were thinking or worried about before is going to fly out the window, believe me. | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 2/26/2008 12:04:32 PM | | My bet, he's scared. He's not sure how to handle the pleasure and it scares him. Touch him every where else and give him some time. Make him comfortable with himself. | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 3/4/2008 11:52:12 AM | | If hes 26 and hasnt at LEAST had a blow job you need to take him back.Visiting hours may be over. He probally does sit when he pees! lol We enjoy blowjobs....even the bad ones are appreciated....make no mistake ! | |
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medana
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Joined: 12/8/2005
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 3/4/2008 12:36:16 PM | maybe he was abused as a child or something
ive seen that before.
i was dating a guy who told me he didnt like blow jobs, that he never had an orgasm that way.
we started talking about it, since i am a curious bee and wanted to understand how he was thinking and all... u know, knowledge is power, u understand ur lover better, u can please him better.
come to find out, within 5 min he realized that once, while he was 8 or something, he was sexually abused by an older friend, who went down on him i guess, he had the memory, but until that day he never made the connection between the two, it was some sort of realization for him.
when people have a guard up, it's usually to cover a wound. there is ALWAYS a good reason.
maybe u can help him thru it | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 3/4/2008 1:21:45 PM | medana: "when people have a guard up, it's usually to cover a wound. there is ALWAYS a good reason. maybe u can help him thru it"
This isn't necessarily the case. Some men simply don't like it. | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 3/4/2008 2:31:37 PM | Maybe he's gay?
I would let anyone touch my weiner with their hands either .. whats the point? I can do it myself better then anyone else.. haha | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 3/4/2008 3:42:47 PM | it seems like he has major guilt issues with his sexuality..
Maybe talk to him about the first time you received and what it was like and maybe that u didn't like it at first either.. (if u did just lie heh...) cuz that could help him feel like maybe everyone feels guilty at first and maybe he could overcome it too...
and then get out the handcuffs and blindfold.... | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 3/4/2008 7:31:51 PM | | The quote of the day "Handle every stressful situation like a dog. If you cant eat it or hump it, piss on it and walk away "! | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 3/4/2008 7:38:34 PM | The solution: Hire me -- give me head -- And I'll explain to him in detail how appreciate pleasure. :P
I can maybe some women giving a bad handjob -- some woman want to pull it right off. There is no such thing as bad head though -- just good and gooder.
Your b/f is ****ed up. | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 3/4/2008 9:05:24 PM | Here's a thought.
Go at it with you on top, and make sure he tells you when he's close.
When he gives the high sign, hop off and finish off with a lil Trombone-a-phone action.
Just don't spit. Talk about mixed messages :) | |
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P|R8
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Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 89 | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 3/7/2008 4:39:00 PM | are we still on this subject,,, pretty sure everyone loves oral  how can you not,,, have you checked him carefully for implants,,, he could be an alien | |
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| Need some advice... re: blowjobs
Posted: 6/17/2009 6:39:06 AM | ok try to start making love
then you get on top
then climb up and sit on his face
then turn around and just touch his legs and stomach, kissing too
then slowly fub your lips and face on his****br>
then if he's still hard take him in and suck away. | |
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