| why is sex so important?
Posted: 2/10/2008 4:25:05 PM | | what cracks me up is if a guy didn't want to have sex with her. she would be whining about that. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/13/2008 12:35:52 PM | Sex is not absolutely imprtant to me. But it is a great accompaniment to a relationship.
But if I was with a woman I truly loved, who was very dear to me, and she couldn't have sex for some serious reason? I'd stay with her. I still love her, still love the person.
Sex is not so important that it's a dealbreaker. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/13/2008 8:51:23 PM | | Sex is part of our life we express it in songs ,dances,the way how we dress, lovemaking to spouse/love one,. Sex is also pratice by animals by mating ,and the plants by pollinating. Sex is like fire if we abused it ,it destroy us . | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/14/2008 1:09:17 AM | Why is there air?
Did the OP’s parents forget to explain the “Birds & the Bees” and “Life” to her?
If there is not going to be any sex in a relationship with a woman, I might as will stay home with my good old coon dog. At least he is loyal and doesn’t argue with me.
I’ll turn this question around for the OP to see if she is able to think. I know some people are afraid to think. I’m hoping she is not one of them.
Ok OP,
If you were GOD (or whom ever), and you created the earth.
You can create any type of living thing on your earth, any way you want to, however, you need to have these living things multiply on their own so they will populate the earth. How would you design your living things so they would multiply on their own and populate the earth?
Think about it.
Seriously think about it. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/14/2008 3:53:00 AM | Sorry, but from my experience and reading a host of these 'Why is SEX so important' threads the one thing I can say with great certainty is that SEX really only seems to become IMPORTANT when one or the other is no longer getting it, it's not good enough, it doesn't last long enough, she's too big, he's too small, the neighbors might hear us, the kids might hear us, he or she's caught cheating, etc etc.
Each individual has a different sex drive. Men and women, both, think about sex, it's just that some folks WANT to have SEX while other's are content to diddle and think about it. Neither thing is bad unless the one who thinks about it, instead of wanting it is the party you happen to be smitten with. Yes, finding someone whose sexually compatible seems to be allusive, but I suppose it also depends on what is driving the sexual need-desire-love-lust-romance, etc.
Sex has a great deal of value in a relationship because it's a physical bond that generally can and does heighten the emotional bond between two people. It's importance varies with each coupling. Though, I still believe it's IMPORTANCE seems to be more prolific when a person isn't getting any---and feels they should. Let's face it---most people who have good sex lives tend to live longer, stay with a mate longer, have nice skin, a great smile and tend not to worry about the IMPORTANCE of sex. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/14/2008 4:24:58 AM | Ok all you girls put your hand up if you want to date a guy that has no sex drive | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/14/2008 10:06:41 PM | It's important to me.....but not with dating.
I'm one of these men that has no interested in having sex with a woman before I'm married.....and I'm a 41 y/o single man who has never had sexual intercourse with a woman nor orgasmed with one although one pushy woman got a rug munching from me...which I didn't enjoy all that much because that isn't what I was after (and I never saw her again because all she wanted was a boy toy to "stick it in her".)
I focus more on affection and can have intimate touch with a woman without ever wanting to have sex with her......not that I have had much success getting affection from a woman except stalkers I have no interested in. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/14/2008 10:16:04 PM | | Sex is very important to me , ranking within the top 2-3 things I am seeking . I need to know the person I am going to be with is going to have the same sex drive as me, or it just won't work . | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/14/2008 10:55:03 PM | | Who says sex is important? Not me. I mean it has its place in a relationship, but thats not all to a ralationship. I believe that people who put too much emphasis on sex are hollow (empty) in their heart and soul, or are still in their teen years with raging hormones, and thats it. They have no clue to what is a RELATIONSHIP, PERIOD. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/15/2008 4:45:44 AM | | because humans are weak little animals who are controlled by their egos and the need to conquer, breed, manipulate and feel special | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/15/2008 4:49:03 AM |
because humans are weak little animals who are controlled by their egos and the need to conquer, breed, manipulate and feel special
I actually think there is truth in that statement...what a sad indictment of society. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/15/2008 4:55:09 AM | Re the Opost
Because sex and good conversation are the best life has to offer, IMO. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/15/2008 6:45:49 AM | Because otherwise there would just be two wallflowers staring at each other.
And I won't lie, sex is very important. It's not the only thing, but it is a thing. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/15/2008 7:07:36 AM |
because humans are weak little animals who are controlled by their egos and the need to conquer, breed, manipulate and feel special
Nah!
because humans are human and sex is fun, in many ways
nothing egotistical or manipulative or conquest related about having fun and feeling good and making someone else feel good as well.
we only live once , btw! lol | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/15/2008 7:24:04 AM | | Why would sex be the least important thing? If you're having monogamous romantic/sexual relationships, that sexual element is a key thing that distinguishes that relationship from a friendship. Personally, sexual compatibility is extremely important to me, and I wouldn't stay with anyone I didn't have that compatibility with; I can be friends with them, but if the sex isn't worth having, then I'll move on and find someone more compatible for me. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/15/2008 8:09:01 AM | Who wouldn't enjoy,take pleasure; and share one of the most intense; bond making moments on the planet? If you don't enjoy sex, there must be an issue...!!  | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/15/2008 9:28:49 AM | | I love sex but its a need, just like eating, sleeping, peeing...etc. Once you have like 5-12 orgasms on a regular basis..that gets old too. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 10/17/2008 1:58:21 PM | Can I have some of those 5-12 orgasms...? I don't think it gets old with me- Share, please...Ha!  | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 1/29/2009 4:47:18 PM | Men are from Mars, and Women are from Venus. We're wired differently. Lots of ladies like you seem to be able to become intimate with a man without sex. For men, SEX is intimacy. Always has been. Always will be. Accept it.   | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 1/29/2009 5:13:05 PM | 4 me it isnt. But that came with maturity. Its use to be quanity with standards. Now its standard and quality. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 1/29/2009 5:22:18 PM | | Because while compatibility and respect is the foundation of a relationship, sex is the mortar that holds it all together | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 1/29/2009 5:23:21 PM |
im not a prude sex is great but why does it seem like to 50% of guys thats all you hear about ? is it just a guy thing or what shouldnt it be the least important thing to look for when you trying to meet someone?
You maye not be a prude, but you are either a virgin who can't or won't get any, or you have simply never had good sex at all.
Also it is hardly just the domain of men. Most healthy women will tell you that they consider good sex a neccessity for a healthy long lasting relationship. | |
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