| why is sex so important?
Posted: 1/31/2009 8:29:05 AM | honesty is the most important thing, the second is compatibility , and without sex, great sex, you have nothing but a partnership, bill, everyday life..... thats why its so important
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 1/31/2009 8:57:27 AM | Because sex is the most important thing in a relationship for me.
Now, before everyone jumps on me here is why I think this. I have tons of friends to confide in.......they give me a hug and a nice conversation whenever I need it. I have guy friends that help me with the things that I can't physically do around the house............
Pretty much anything I need from a person my friends can give me..........except sex. I don't have sex with my friends............so sex in a relationship is the most important thing to me. I want to have all of that in my SO.......the compatibility, trust and all of that.......but if the sex isn't good and we have worked on trying to fix it..........I am probably going to find someone that I am more compatible with sexually. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 1/31/2009 10:05:03 AM | Ive never asked about sex or intruduced the subject untill she or I felt comfortable doing soo....and yes it is a guy thing...oh I like it but woman are as motivated as well on the subject...lol.  | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 1/31/2009 11:07:05 AM | | so i have a question?..what is the definition of good sex and bad sex? | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 1/31/2009 12:06:15 PM |
so i have a question?..what is the definition of good sex and bad sex?
Have you ever heard the expression, "ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer?".
What is the definition of good food and bad food?
What is the definition of good tv and bad tv?
What is the defintion of good music and bad music? | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 2/1/2009 6:06:09 AM | | a true relationship is a partnership and there is no such thing as BAD sex, if you take the time to listen to your partner and tell him/her what you like and want you will have great sex, the key to a successful long lasting relationship is communication!!! | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 2/1/2009 6:27:43 AM | Sex within a relationship is ,for me, the strongest expression of love. It is bonding and intimacy. It is giving and receiving.
Without great sex shared often, it is just a friendship.
Sex puts us in that moment when we are most vulnerable, physically and emotionally. If you don't share that with your partner the relationship is doomed.
It brings a closeness that no amount of good conversation or cuddling can even approach.
Personally, I can't imagine a great LTR without sex being on the top of the list of importance.
I'll say something else. Sex without the relationship is not the same. There is a massive difference between rutting like animals and making love to a partner you care for deeply. Even if the motions and actions are identical, the heart knows the difference. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 2/1/2009 8:44:22 AM | The reason sex is so important is very different for men and woman in the sense of bonding but ultimately the same in the sense of importance. The act of sex makes a man feel "close" to his partner while the act of sex for a woman is an expression of love from feeling important via expressions before the act of sex.. hence the importance for all day foreplay and by all day foreplay that does not mean groping what interests a guy to ultimately get what "he " wants.
Communication via verbal is not even remotely close to creating good sex with a woman .. creation creates great sex .. women need to feel that you "feel" they are "it". Actions via doing things from inside of you to make her feel special, unique.. treasured and dear to a guys heart like you can see it right inside .. whether that act was necessary it is how you do it and that it was from inside of you that gets to a woman in the deepest way. Too many men think that all a gal wants to do is talk.. when she is at the talk stage you are already in trouble ... because she usually is engaging in talk because she has a backlog of "feeling " unimportant to you or neglected so talk is trouble and then silence and it is usually over.
What alot of guys don't understand is that to be vulnerable and trust their instincts in seeking actions from the heart usually pay off in dividends .... and if they don't you usually have the wrong gal or someone who hasn't evolved to a level of maturity to understand how deeply you care and those gals shouldn't be playing with a loaded weapon.
In answer to the question of sex being important .. we are the animal "human" on the planet earth. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 2/1/2009 2:47:35 PM |
so i have a question?..what is the definition of good sex and bad sex?
This is easy Seaga.
Good Sex- sex that makes you want a repeat performance.
Great Sex- sex that makes you want the repeat performance as soon as you can catch your breath.
Bad Sex- sex that was not worth the effort it took to disrobe. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 2/1/2009 3:00:19 PM | Wow,
This is definitely a theoritic (sp?) type of question....
Um..I would say 90% of conversations I have with men are about sex within the first 5-10 minutes into it...this gets old...
Of course..I'm 33 and in my prime so hormones do take over most the time with me which is frustrating...I mean I want dirty, heart-throbbing, sweating, knocking over lamps kind of sex quite a bit..but at the same time..I also want that person in my life that "enhances" me...this combination is like trying to find the "holy grail"
I don't know if I will ever find it, but these days..that's like having your cake and eat it too...seems as if the sex is sooo awesome, but everything else just sucks about them or you are mentally and emotionally connected with them, but the sex sucks...either way..it's hard...
Good luck to you! | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 2/1/2009 3:42:28 PM |
I'm 33 and in my prime
Serfinity, I have news for you, I am 54 and in my prime. Ask any of the older women
on these forums, it only gets better with age. If you think you are in your prime at the age of 33, just wait til you hit 50! Best Wishes! | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 2/2/2009 5:28:37 AM | To me sex is not the most important and its certainly the person your with ,communication and compatibility,chemistry are key to any good relationship but I find the closeness,the physical closeness I have with my partner is the most wonderful part of the relationship...nothing can replace the emotion involved when you are with someone that way ...so I guess what Im saying is sex is important because without sex relationships wouldnt be as exciting. | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 2/2/2009 6:33:19 AM | | without sex who would we repopulate the planet ? thats why its SO important ! its been programmed into us to re create ,,,, sex is not love do not confuse the 2 | |
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| why is sex so important?
Posted: 2/2/2009 6:35:07 AM | | we do not always agree , but on this one we do ...... sex is one act we tend to have with that special someone ....... friends / family make the rest of our live enriched ! | |
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