| Hiding orgasms? Posted: 2/12/2008 11:39:20 AM | Aside from having paper thin walls and not wanting the neighbors or the kids beyond them to hear, I cannot imagine why one would want to hide them. I say let 'em rip! | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 2/12/2008 11:39:56 AM | Yeah - they're in the Nookie Jar - you know - like the Cookie Jar LOL | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 2/12/2008 12:26:50 PM |
Yeah - they're in the Nookie Jar. Is a Nookie Jar available at Bed, Bath and Beyond? | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 2/12/2008 12:34:59 PM | You never know where you might find one!  | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 2/12/2008 12:52:13 PM | | doesn't seem possible- why would someone do that? that just sounds strange to me. I would never hold back. I may try to stall and drag one out a little, so as not to cum real fast, but never try to stop one. haha | |
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| Hiding orgasms? Posted: 2/12/2008 1:15:29 PM | I kind of go to another world; I don't think I make noise (I'm not paying much attention, though...maybe the moaning isn't just in my head?), but it must be pretty obvious from other physical signs. I was with a man who didn't give the slightest hint when he came. He just stopped dead (I wondered if he WAS dead ). | |
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| Hiding orgasms? Posted: 2/12/2008 3:00:49 PM | | lolol..that sounds like me!, my orgasms are only about5 seconds long...by the time i get ready to tell her i' already had it...."Honey i'm about to....Oh"....(done) | |
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| Hiding orgasms? Posted: 2/17/2008 2:23:45 PM | Women ...hiding orgasms???? Easier I'll believe the ''aliens'' are here...no wait.......they're HERE cause this planet is filled with BEAUTIFUL creatures.....FEMALES!!!!!!! Found nowhere else! THANK YOU ....HARLAN ELLISON!!! | |
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| Hiding orgasms? Posted: 2/17/2008 2:29:00 PM | Hell no, once the train is running it's running until it reaches the buffers with full sounds, BUT during sex in my office that was a different matter
But all women are different, some are naturally loud others no emotions from them. | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/13/2008 7:48:40 PM | DARLIN..IN CAPS..IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO HIDE AN ORGASM..MAYBE IF YOU HAVE YOUR PANTIES IN YOUR MOUTH.TO HIDE FROM THE KIDS.GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK,,FEMALE ANATOMY 101 IS A GOOD BOOK..IF YOU KNOW OUR SECRETS,THERE IS NOWHERE TO HIDE..THE VEIL IS OPENED AND WE ALL SEE..GET IT??? I DO !!!OOHH NOT EVERYBODY IS BUILT THE SAME,EITHER...MY HEAD TILTS WAY BACK,I CANT HELP IT,,CAN YOU, HELP WHAT YOU DO?????????????????  | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/14/2008 6:42:24 AM | | I dated a girl who hid an orgasm once, then, when she went to get it, she found someone else had came and got it... | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/14/2008 10:28:44 AM | I dont know....with me my neighbors always know.....AAAAAHHHHH OOOOHHHH YYYYEESSSSSS............. | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/14/2008 2:18:51 PM | | i like to hide them under pillows | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/14/2008 2:25:35 PM | | It sounds like something someone would do if they are concentrating and stressing too hard over something, trying maintain control and at the same time find release. A lot of people just go for that O like its some sort of pinball machine game and you got to rack up those lights, etc. These women should just relax, not try so hard, seems like. And you might be understanding of that and focus on them a little more, too. | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/14/2008 10:26:52 PM | I'm happy to say i got many many good belly laughs from this thread, but
Now if they would only hide orgasms like they do Easter Eggs. You're walking thru the backyard, "hey, what's thaAAAAAAAAAWOWWWWWOOOOOOOO ...............
As for trying to hide your O?? Sorry, i got nothing LOL. Why on earth would anyone want to do that? Unless you've specified a 1 O rule................. | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/14/2008 11:00:14 PM | well sometimes i have way too many O's and I think I may be annoying my b\f and look selfish (no, he does not complain). I get so tired of moaning and totally exosted, I will not hide but may try to look them less noticeable.
Also, sometimes orgasming makes me feel a bit vulnerable ... 
Now back to the OP, are you sure those women actually had orgasm??
with a vein forming down the middle of her forehead..and her vagina was flowing like a river but she wouldn't open her mouth!...the way her mouth looked reminded me of a baby or small child when your trying to give them vegetables or medicine...
Those are not sure symptoms.
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/14/2008 11:05:11 PM | | I used to have to hide my orgasm from my ex-wife if I expected her to let me continue to have a second one. If she thought I had popped my cork, she would immediately pull away and that was all I got for the next week or two. There were rare times when I had enough self control so that I could just let it jet without jerking or grunting and continue stroking to work up for the next one. | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/15/2008 2:47:54 AM | Has anyone considered that it could just be habit?
If someone grew up in a household where sex was an unspeakable, it may be likely that they have taken on the same beliefs, and so they hide it like their parents did.
Consider also during masturbation... If a teenager had to be quiet when they were pleasuring themselves because parents or siblings would hear...
It's only natural that this learned behavior would be carried forward even if they were an adult and had moved out of their parents home. All it would take is a gentle conversation to bring the subject to light, and a little willingness on her part, and Voila! You may have a symphony on your hands! :)
Now, I have one for you guys. I have lived in communal situations at times. So I may have been in a room with 4 to 8 people. Sometimes there would be couples in the same room. So the couple would get it on as quietly as possible (muffled). But the interesting thing was that the other roommates would be perfectly still, either because they were embarrassed or they wanted to give the couple private space. Figure that out!
The best story though is me sleeping on the top of a bunk bed and being woken up by rocking motion. I first thought there was an earthquake. But after it lasted past a few seconds, I just turned over with a grin on my face! At least someone was getting some! ;)
Peace! Out! | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/15/2008 11:56:11 PM | Its probably because when she was a kid,she didn't want to get caught masterbaiting,so it just became a habit thats hard to break.I think lots of people are embarrassed about being heard having sex,it seems to be a problem when you come from a very strict family,or very religious upbringing.Or if you did time in prison(so I've heard | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/15/2008 11:59:13 PM | | that beats the hell out of me. no idea. i let mine rip! | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/16/2008 12:15:28 AM | | from my limited experience i have noticed that some women like guy to be a little vocal, if your too quiet they wount be loud at all the more you get into it the more they will. | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/16/2008 12:38:01 AM | | Is it possible that "they" are hiding orgasms because "they"' are really not reaching one with you? Do you have this experience with more than one lover? | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/16/2008 12:58:26 AM | op, maybe she was 'concentrating' on getting her nut. sometimes a visual is needed lol and that visual isn't necessarily what we're doing & with whom at the time--this applies to both genders, I don't think this is gender specific. not all are screamers, not all are moaners........ or maybe....she wasn't liking it at the time..???
my experience has been that some like to look into their partners eyes while reaching their climax--connect on a certain level, if they are pretty much into that person, sometimes they just like to concentrate on getting it off--without distractions--a straight f0ck.
I can't imagine ANY one trying to HIDE it......that makes no sense. | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 3/16/2008 1:12:26 AM | it personally doesnt turn me on to be so loudly vocal.. perhaps she is the same? however there should be comfort to be vocal at any volume.. even whispering in the ear its clear shes holding back
best thing to do to find out what is up with all that is instead of asking a forum to ASK HER! | |
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| hiding orgasms? Posted: 5/28/2008 8:33:39 PM | Do what you do, never let a guy or a woman decide how you are in bed, enjoy yourself so what if they can or will not feed off you. Be you and let out your inner voice. | |
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