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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/13/2008 11:55:50 PM |
I find that the worst kissers are those who plunge into the deep end of the pool without warmup.
following up with a Vulcan lip lock overpowering their opponent by tickling their tonsils with their tongue and driving them in to submission.
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Mulva
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Joined: 12/28/2007
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 1:14:03 AM |
So I believe I need a lot of coaching and training. Drilling and practice.
I've been told I am so who am I to argue? | |
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adg60
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Joined: 11/10/2007
Msg: 29 | |
| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 2:41:50 AM | I love to kiss and am told I am a great kisser. I don't like people who slober all over you. Just doesn't do it for me. As others have said it is great when you and the person you are kissing has passion. Oh My! It is great! I have to say if I'm unsure about someone after meeting them and the kiss is just not there......I have my answer!
Kissing is very important to me! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 6:10:24 AM | I'm sorry, but the "good" of a kiss comes from what is in the minds behind the lips... in my opinion.
The connection of the 2 people.
Just the touch of lips... nothing else... can knock the socks off each of them, if the connection is there in the mind first.
A kiss just given with just "skill"? No thanks. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 6:36:08 AM | | Went out with a guy and after our first date he asked to kiss me goodnight...was great to have him ask...instead of just kissing me and letting it develop he opened his mouth so wide I swear he cleaned out my nose and got the last of the lasagna off my chin...it was horrible and at that moment I knew he was doomed...... | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 7:37:35 AM |
I've always gotten good remarks, except for the last girl i dated. she said i needed work...funny, i thought she was one of the worst i had kissed. No passion!
I have had the same thing. I have been told by many women I am a good kisser, but the one woman I thought didn't have a clue how to kiss, told me I needed work.
I think it more than just the kiss. It's in the look, the mood, the caress and what you do with your hands. Get the mood set up and she is putty in your hands. I think just like sex though if you like the person but not the way they kiss, tell them what you want and what to do. Maybe their past lover liked the way they kiss. If you just tell a person they can't kiss, that will only upset them. If you tell them what you would like them to do, you will train them to be the best lover you ever had.  | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 7:48:54 AM | | I think im a good kisser, because EVERY guy i kiss says so.... lol.... i have been called Great and out of this world and #1 and #2 by much older guys........... who im sure have kissed MANY........ | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 7:50:43 AM |
I have had the same thing. I have been told by many women I am a good kisser, but the one woman I thought didn't have a clue how to kiss, told me I needed work.
I think it more than just the kiss. It's in the look, the mood, the caress and what you do with your hands. Get the mood set up and she is putty in your hands. I think just like sex though if you like the person but not the way they kiss, tell them what you want and what to do. Maybe their past lover liked the way they kiss. If you just tell a person they can't kiss, that will only upset them. If you tell them what you would like them to do, you will train them to be the best lover you ever had.
Vinnie, darling...I had such a hard time giving your post a serious look whilst seeing what you're wearing. I hope to goodness you don't use that 'outfit' to set the mood.... | |
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Posted: 2/14/2008 8:01:42 AM | HAHA, Sorry, Hands down, I am the best kisser. Always been told so, always left them wanting more. When you have lips like mine, can't help but to make sure a man walks away happy. LOL 
If you think there is ever anything gross about kissing, you just aren't that into the person you are kissing. Well, except bad breath. I'll give you that much. In that case, pop an altoid and go at it.
If Im hot for who I am kissing, doesn't matter if he isn't what I consider the best kisser, my lips can guide his without saying a word. You can be in control of a great kiss even if your partner is a bad kisser. Be playful with it, tease, nibble and lick. They'll get the idea, trust me.
Everyone kisses differently. The whole point is to just do it and work with each other to make it your own kiss between the two of you the best either of you ever had.
NOW, go swap some spit!!  | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 8:10:34 AM | | If someone cannot kiss the way you like it rarely works to tell them that you would like something different. Not kissing well is a total deal breaker. A soft pressure held for long enough to get your breath to come faster and your legs to melt is the best kiss IMO. Some men kiss for 2 seconds then again and again without letting the tension build and making that wet sucking sounds, uhg. Its like kissing a sucker fish. This guy stated that he was a great kisser and did not need lessons. So now he's sucker kissing someone else. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 8:29:43 AM | When the kisses last and last and last, and they don't want to stop, and keep coming back for more, I must be doing something right.  I've been told I'm an excellent kisser, among other things. I think each kiss is unique and has to work itself out between the two people. A kiss should never be routine. | |
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Posted: 2/14/2008 8:48:25 AM | Being a good kisser is the start of a not good but great relationship....sometimes I like a hard passionate kisser,,,,,sometimes I like a slow delicate kisser that takes his time, sometimes I like a kisser to explore with new ideas.......but those that take swapping spit literally ughhhhh...it is only and expression don't spit in my mouth
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Posted: 2/14/2008 11:55:10 AM | | I think I'm a responsive kisser. Since I was a newby to the dating scene, I was and probably still am a little on the shy side when it comes to kissing. I tend to wait to see what they kiss like and then I respond accordingly. No one's complained so far and I've received a few compliments, so I guess I'm fine. I'm always open to new offers and demonstrations, though. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 12:06:55 PM | have been told im an excellent kisser.. but its been many years..
for guys..
no tongue straight in ..yuk. no trying to swallow the woman throught her mouth.. dont rush ....lol.
kissing is an art... its slowwwwwwww......... its sensous it should have every nerve from head to toe responding..
ohh memories...
kissings a deal breaker as well....... if its not happening with the kissing its a fair indication making love would be crap too. imo
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Posted: 2/14/2008 5:10:25 PM | | A good kisser starts off slow and knows exactly how much pressure to apply. There should be rhythm between both people, gradually speeding the pace and increasing the pressure. Lips are extremely sensitive and a good kiss can send tingles through out the rest of my body. I can completely relate to the "pole" theory stated earlier. That happened to me and now I refer to the guy as the CAMEL KISSER, ewwwwww! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 5:42:14 PM | | Acttwo, your kissing experience was hilarious! I can totaly relate! You know it's not going good when your lips and chin are chapped when he's finished. I also hate the ones who put their tongue in your mouth the first time you kiss..even if its just a quick kiss goodnight! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 5:48:06 PM | Well,
I personally don't think I'm the best kisser ever, but I sure have been told I am! Many... mannny times. So, I won't argue. | |
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ncn
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Joined: 1/21/2008
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 9:40:01 PM | When I was younger, I didn't think much about it (probably because I was always shy and never really kissed that many back then) but every man I ever kissed as an adult always told me...every one of them now that I think about it...that I was a great kisser, lol. I didn't think it was that big a deal at the time , just that they liked the experience. To me, it was just the way I kissed, and thought they were just trying to find something nice to say. In talking to a couple of them about it later on, apparently that wasn't the case. One of those guys I talked to a few years later actually told me that I was the most sensual kisser he'd ever known....talk about being stunned! Heck, I just thought it was a regular old kiss, lol. Oh well.
happinessisfree is sooooo right!!!! A man that can open his lips willingly, generally can open his heart, and OMG, a good kisser....and I'M SOOOO THERE!!!!
Several of the posters here have good points....to me, a kiss has magic when the lips first touch...and there doesn't have to be such intensity in the beginning that it chips a tooth, lol, but there needs to be some feeling/passion/emotion there, or it's just lips touching. A good kiss to me....soft, slow, gently moving toward exploration, with the growing expression of the attraction each feels for the other as it deepens, and as one dear poster put it.....when it's right, the clothes just seem to fall off by themselves....and that's all I'm gonna say bout THAT, lol. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 9:41:52 PM | I think my ex-boyfriend was the best kisser in the universe. Ever.
I need to stop reading this thread. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 10:42:18 PM | Hmmm, when I answered this, I was thinking about the men in my past...then it occured to me...I am not sure if the man I've most currently kissed has said one way or the other, lol. But then again...he could have...I just might not have heard what he said due to total meltdown, lol. He does have the tendancy to make my head spin and make me weak in the knees!!!!   | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 10:59:28 PM | theres nothing worse than a guy who sticks his tounge halfway down ur throat and ur wiggling into the pillow backwards to try and dislodge it,whats even worse is u can fill his spit at the back of his tonsils,ewwww .
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/14/2008 11:12:23 PM | ing is like danceing, who is the leader?? Good kisser's (like me) LOL will wait for the tongue to caress mine than U can respond to what your partner desires. There R so many ways to pleasure the person U are with. Their responce to what U are doing should let ya know if U R~~~~ Cheers | |
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