| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 12:37:46 AM | | I know I'm a great kisser b/c a) I've been told that, and b) b/c a couple of times one of us has had to leave b/c if we kept it up she would be doing something she didn't want to do...yet. I've always believed the quickest way into her pants is through her mouth. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 12:54:45 AM | | a good kisser is me! lol..i have always taken my time..its like sloowwww motion and then pausing letting your breath exhale slighty whilst your lips are barely touching, this lets the electricity flow from lip to lip (well i can feel it) and then continue..with a rhythm then stop..its a tease...then just enjoy it.....but always be gentle and dont "pucker" like a smacking kiss..leave that for Grandma!lol..goodluck in kissing...i love it! and that helps if u do... | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 2:29:19 AM | Ex husband.... No emotion, no tongue, not sensual
Ex common law partner... Scared me the first time i opened my eyes when he was coming in for ths kiss, mouth wide open like he was about to suck my face into his mouth. Gross kisser, dripped saliva into my mouth and tried to remove my tonsils with his tongue..Ugh.. I avoided kissing him as much as possible
Current partner... My clothes fall off... | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 3:08:20 AM | I have been told I was a very good kisser by many men. The most common reaction I get is: "WOW, that was incredible!" I don't have to advertise it, I t just do it. I have found that the men who brag the most about how good they kiss or give face are the ones who are the worst at it. LOL!
FIRST KISS I leaned towards him as He reached up to gently touch my face Then He kissed me like no man ever had Our mouths fitting together Like they were born for this moment His lips were like velvet His tongue gently probed my mouth With an expertise only meant for me Then he crushed his mouth into mine Hungrily kissing my parted lips Dominating me with his insatiable mouth I felt each of his kisses deep inside my womb I was enslaved by his desire Unable to resist that First Kiss
Debra K Lee~10/2/07 | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 3:28:45 AM | OMG, a topic near and dear to my heart! One of the last guys I kissed was like a mother bird feeding her baby bird, he was awful!! My long term ex was terrible too, I think mostly due to bad timing, as we got more towards being 'exes' I took to telling him how bad it was and all he could do then was bash me too. I have been told by men and women both, that he was wrong about me...
I normally always include kissing as part of my first date, cuz if the kiss isn't cutting it, I don't even bother going there a second time, as I LOOOOOOOOOOOVE TO KISS! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 7:24:24 AM |
Good kisser:
1) Opens mouth.....WIDE 2) Uses tongue liberally 3) Uses lips and teeth liberally That would not get you a second try....
And that's the point the OP was making..... One person's idea of a great smooch might be disgusting to another.
Kissing, like anything intimate, is unique to the couple. If you don't like the way it's goin' down, but like the person, talk about it. I turned a biter into a softer touch just by voicing my unhappiness of a constant fat lip after he sucked my face.
Like anything, if you want something, be open to making some changes if need be. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 9:46:14 AM | | Don't forget the hands in your hair or cupping your face/head part of kissing... thats the BEST! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 12:04:08 PM | | A good kisser is truly one who understands proper timing..... understanding the others desire and need to be kissed. To know just when that expression of 'you're special' is appropriate, makes the physical act of lips meeting lips ever so successful. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 4:32:42 PM | | I personally have been told by pretty much everyone I've kissed that I am a gtood kisser. However I find women seem to have more have more of an ability to kiss well than men. I have only met one guy who knew what he was doing. Mind you he was amazing! Every other guy seems to be to rushed to get tp 2nd base or third and they just ram their tongues down your throat! Its not hot! And possibly the most unattractive thing ever is to come at someone with your mouth open and tongue out ready to kiss! Ewwww! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 4:43:29 PM | I think that someone being a "good kisser" is all in what you like. I have been told I am a good kisser by many... and some of them have not kissed me the way I preferred. I think it's a matter of opinion. I do agree that if it isn't there from the first kiss though, it never will be. People can be trained, but feeling cannot be forced. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 4:50:48 PM | | Good response.......a good sense of humor will take you far. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 4:53:48 PM |
And possibly the most unattractive thing ever is to come at someone with your mouth open and tongue out ready to kiss! Ewwww! I'm with you girl.... Gross!!! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/15/2008 9:23:51 PM | | Just about every guy I have dated has outright said I am excellent at it. I don't know what makes a good or bad kisser. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 6:33:32 AM | Talking about bad kissers is much more fun. Here are some of the worst offenders:
1) 'The Washing Machine' Opens mouth, inserts tongue, swirls around repeatedly at high velocity.
2) 'The Friendly Dog' Opens mouth, sticks tongue out, and licks upwards from the bottom of your mouth to the top over and over again, much like a dog would lick your face.
3) 'The Goldfish' Mouth bobs open and closed rhythmicly, like a goldfish gagging for oxygen. No use of tongue or other variation from said routine.
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 6:58:51 AM | My thought has always been....good kissing or good kissers is not about ONE...it is about two!! Belows...one of my favorites.....
EROTIC KISS
Author: Unknown
Antagonizing pleasure Placed upon my lips Where dreams come true In just one kiss!
Sharing an afternoon of ecstasy Closing the door on reality Not even the thickest iceberg Could melt the lust I feel inside!
I shed my fears faster than my clothes The anticipation begins to unfold My heart begins to pound faster As you come closer
Just one look from your eyes And I become hypnotized A river of sins, to which I concede Just one kiss, caused the undoing of me!
Your lips gently pressed against mine A silent submission of tongues intertwined My mouth tenderly pressed against yours My voice trembles as you start to explore
Electric shocks as your tongue touches mine An erotic dance of passing time My heart's racing as fast as yours My body's craving for something more!
Starving and Craving For an evening Of erotic bliss Where dreams come true In Just One Kiss.
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 7:12:43 AM | I think I'm a good kisser based on what other people have said.
(with the next statement...I hang around a drunken bar crowd wrought w/ friendly kissing) When I say "other people have said"...I'm not talking about the S/O trying to suck up...or perhaps has been around long enough to teach you... I'm talking drunken friend who pulls you in for a kissing session and then pulls back...DAMN, you're a good kisser...then goes back for more based on that
Also...I have no one style. I tend to conform to how the other person kisses...unless they're REALLY bad, then I try to guide a little I call it chameleon kissing | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 7:16:12 AM | SlyKnight
I've recently had a variation on
3) 'The Goldfish' Mouth bobs open and closed rhythmicly, like a goldfish gagging for oxygen. No use of tongue or other variation from said routine.
Not so much with the rhythm but still a touch of a bad kisser offender in my books...when the kiss is in the spot where tongues could be used and the other person refuses...kinda confusing and a let down for the tongue attempter | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 11:59:44 AM | ^^^^^^^^LOVE THE POEM LEXI!
OMG the washing machine...I almost pissed my panties on that one for I have experieced it!
LIPS
EVERY TIME I SEE YOU I LONG FOR THEM LINGERING THERE JUST ABOVE MY CHIN WAITING TO DEVOUR QUIVERING SO SLIGHTLY COMPLETELY ENGULFING ME IN YOUR HUNGER YOUR LIPS EXCITE THOUGHTS OF ENDLESS NIGHTS AS YOU COVER EACH INCH OF ME LIPS I YEARN FOR THEM BONDING FLESH EACH KISS A PROMISE OF FOREVER LOVE EACH BRUSH OF YOUR LIPS PAINTING ME WITH TIMELESS PASSION I AM YOURS SEDUCTION COMPLETE
DEBRA K LEE 02/08 | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 12:03:57 PM | Ive been told I melted the elastic in his underware.........now THATS a good kisser.
Timing is everything. Listen to your partners 'body language'. Kissing is an art !! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 12:15:32 PM | I couldn't agree more reddwine. It is an art indeed! Being a good kisser is critical when it comes to being with someone. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 12:29:44 PM | I have been called a very good kisser by most of my ewxes. Kissing was not the reason for the break ups but the reason a lot of women fell for me. Kissing is not about technique but reading your partner, timing, and playfulness and respect. Kissing is like a dance. There is a leader and a follower and a man must be a leader, but read how receptive your partner is.
There is a technique about french kissing that many men do not obey ( as told to me by my exes. Despite leading a man should not shove his toung down her thorat. he should just lightly trace the lips and tip of her tounge with his. and be receptive to her play fulness, let her take your tongue when she wants it. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 12:34:39 PM | I am sitting here laughing out loudly All these people coming here and declaring what good kissers they are!
NO ONE is a good kisser unless the OTHER ONE fits in with the first one's kiss. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 12:41:21 PM | Trick is to find someone who has the same kissing style as you...
A person can't be a good kisser by themselves - need a partner for that . Too slobbery people might think they have died and gone to heaven.  | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who? Posted: 2/16/2008 12:47:15 PM | If the attraction is there, it's got a 90% chance of being good. Good dental hygiene is a must for me, if the breath smells, forget it. And don't want that tongue shooting out like it's from the movie "Aliens", mugging my gums and giving my tonsils what-for. A majority of my dates/relationships were good kissers and when I run into a great kisser, especially when love is involved, I'd rather kiss than eat, and that has to be better than any weight loss program out there. I'm definitely looking forward to a great kisser come April. She knows who she is... | |
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