| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/25/2008 7:35:20 PM | OOO yes it is true I wanted to ask him so badly why he just sat there but at that point I was more in a state of shock! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/25/2008 8:21:48 PM |
Good kisser:
1) Opens mouth.....WIDE
And all your ex's call you the "big-mouth bass" :)
Not even close
True story.......couple of years ago I met a woman on a dating site......we chatted, I sent her my pic....she was talking with a woman co-worker, showed the other woman my pic....the other woman said..."that looks like a guy I went out with years ago" (she was right, it was me, about 3 dates ,10 years prior).......the co-worker said..."I don't remember a whole lot about him, BUT he sure was a great kisser!"
Great kisses stick in your memory  | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 2/29/2008 4:30:29 PM | | I've been told I was a good kisser by every woman i've ever kissed. And I've been kissed by them since they've told me, so I'm sure they weren't just sayin that unless it was a "maybe next time will be better" thing, lol. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/2/2008 8:37:10 PM | eroch, when someone has fuller lips like yours it always makes me wonder if you/others are good kissers. in other words, i'm glad i have fuller lips myself, if you know what i mean .
good luck with your situation. | |
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| Good Kisser? Les Bewick
Posted: 3/18/2008 12:31:19 PM | Yes , you are quite correct, kissing is important.
I have kissed lots of women, and there is definately some real good kisses ot there, and to be honest , I have been told am pretty good, I do look for kisses, they don't have to be slopy kisses either, think thats a turn off, When you kiss a women who is passionate, believe me you feel the electicity flowing between both of you, you don't want to stop or come up for air, and yet some kissing is so feeble you wish you hadnt bothered, "no passion behind it" | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/18/2008 2:46:37 PM |
Happiness is 66
When you meet a good kisser, your clothes fall off by themselves.
I've found this to be true!  | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/18/2008 7:44:46 PM | | Well, a guy recently described me to be an "aggressive kisser" and that he was very complimentery about it. Just about every guy has told me that i am talented at kissing but he's the first to ever actually describe why. Not sure what is meant but "aggressive kisser" though. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/18/2008 10:07:38 PM | kisses...been a long time, but I know what I like...
slow ones...touch me with your lips gently..keep the tongue inside at the beginning..little kisses that deepen with the mouth opening wider as my legs turn into mush..tease me with the tongue but don't thrust it in like a pole..be gentle..mouth opening wider, tongue creeping in and then retreating and NOT slobbering..and NOT tickling my tonsils...and yep...a good kissing session stokes up the furnace so that the clothes burn off...now, where did they go??? oh yeah...some women like to have their face caressed too...explore with your fingers lightly..appreciate her with your hands above the shoulders...not just below the neck...ha. ha..men, do you know how sensuous it is to gently massage a womans' scalp while you kiss them? | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 1:44:25 AM | I've been told that I'm a good kisser but I don't think it's necessarily the 'art of kissing' that makes one a good kisser per se. It's actually about whether two people have chemistry and whether they can communicate through the kissing (if you know what I mean).
Also, it depends heaps on your own personal preference. I like kissing slowly without much tongue and I've some amazing making out sessions like that but if your partner isn't into it then it won't be a good kiss regardless of technique. You have to work in sync. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 2:01:19 AM | Good point!
I am told and know I am good at kissing, I give a good bye kiss to a guy and he thinks more it than I did.
I kissed one guy a few years ago that really sucked at it and I told him I would not kiss him again unless he learned how. The man was 36!
Kissing to me is the most important part to getting beyond that.
I like to kiss, the men who kiss well I want to see again. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 2:03:37 AM | | BTW,, the 36yr old that kissed bad and I did teach him how, was mean to my cat. So he had to go! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 2:25:16 AM | | Im always told im a very good kisser. Whether I can believe all of them, is another story! haha | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 2:29:40 AM | | The art of kissing can be taught. I personally think that the type of kiss MUST fit the situation you are in. I have received a soft brush of her lips on mine so brief that it has been awesome and other times it was like oh well. A kiss should indicate how well you make love, have sex, shag, whatever for that situation......soft and slow, tongue or no tongue, hands or no hands, holding breath or not, I know I kiss good!!! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 3:39:21 AM | OH My Gosh! I'm sorry but I would feel like an awful braggart if I say what I've been told about the way that I kiss...let me just say that it's always been complimentary! (Also, I'm only including those gentlemen who said something nice when there was nothing to be gained, they were really sweet, genuine guys etc....See what I'm saying? They were NOT guys who had no business having themselves anywhere near me as they angled in for another attempt!!! YIKES!)
I honestly think that anyone who reads a lot has a huge advantage here...and I'm NOT saying that you can learn how to kiss from a book. What I mean is that as a little girl who was just the tiniest bit um....."precocious" I was reading more "Grown-up" romance novels when I was only 12 or 13, because I was sooo easily bored with books written for kids my own age. As a result, I read probably WAY, WAAAAYYY tooo many um....sex scenes (yes, I said "sex scenes!") in those books for my age group. BUT, I think that I knew in the back of my mind that whatever the author was writing about kissing must be something that everyone could agree upon! lol....So, I really can honestly say that I might have had some subconscious hints about what (a-sells books...and why? Cuz' women can ALL relate to the story as something they want! as well as b)what it takes to be the sort of kisser that can bring a man to his knees!) And now that I'm "all grown up" I can say that the main male characters in those books really can and DO (sometimes??!) represent a fairly close to perfect ideal guy...SOOOOOO, it boils down to this.....
Those "scenes" in women's Romance Novels are often silly and trite with regard to location and other aspects BUT when it comes right down to it, the details about how the kisses were just this way...and then, he did this...etc.. Those are 110%! I know that this is slightly off topic but I've long been a firm believer that if MEN would read those books and see what ladies are really hoping for from their dream guy, after all, don't they realize that those female authors are often writing about what they would LOVE to have happen, but is currently missing! (Or maybe if guys would just try HALF as hard to please women as we all too often try to please them!)
In short..... If you would NOT want someone to do that to you, then do NOT do that to the person you're trying to impress with your "skills" at kissing. If it would make you weak in the knees and leave you begging for more??? Well....you can bet that the target you're aiming for will feel the same! (My last b/f told me that he was sometimes worried that he'd get hurt at work from daydreaming about the time that we'd spent just making out like teenagers! LOL.....honest!) I just think that if you're looking for an opportunity to give someone a glimpse of what ANY FUTURE physical relationship between you and this person will be like, then the kisses are an EXCELLENT time to test it out. Sloppy and aggressive with no real skill.....you can bet your butt that it will probably show in um....."other" areas of your physical um...."encounter"? But, thoughtful, direct without being insensitive, passionate without choking you and slobbering on you...as well as, being tempting, enticing, encouraging and yet, maybe a bit teasing making you always want MORE???
....WOW! Sign me up for that....Anyone else???   | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 4:32:47 AM | A kiss that knocks your socks off (and you're not even wearing socks...) LOL..
no, but seriously...
Being a good kisser is all in the mutual feelings with the other person. If there is attraction, SURE...there might be an electrifying kiss...I've had that. It is amazing... and it only gets better with time. OH..my knees are getting weak just thinking about it......
But first and foremost..good hygiene is of the utmost importance. Good dental practices, brushing, flossing and using mouthwash...in other words, CARING about how you taste and feel in your mouth is a PLUS, but of course...nothing much you can do when you BOTH have come from an Italian restaurant and well..if you have both eaten garlic..well..then..that is okay...I guess because both of you have garlic breath..LOL, but having halitosis breath is the WORST thing...
I pride myself on only having ONE filling in my entire mouth and that's another story for another thread. ~~Beth~~ | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 12:16:54 PM | my sister and my cousin said I was a good kisser! Family wouldn't lie would they? Who knows, maybe they did to keep from hurting my feelings. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 6:10:24 PM | ^^^^ well, didja give your mother a try yet? they usually don't mix words and tell ya like it is  .
seriously though, i agree with a man lightly caressing my head or face while kissing me is such a wonderful feeling. a man lightly caressing my head even before kissing is a major turn on too. then past the head (and arms, etc.) caressing, holding a person tight, but gently is mmm mmm good. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 6:53:16 PM | | I think kissing is one of the most intimate things you can do with another person. When you think of it, pressing your lips against someone else's has the capacity to be a one of the most erotic experiences you can ever have. One of the things that I have felt was missing in love relationships that I've had, is kissing while making love. It seems that there are not very many women that are into that. Too bad I think. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 6:56:38 PM | | I know what you mean. I love caressing a woman's face or check while kissing her. It seems to be pretty well received for the most part. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 7:15:02 PM | Well, several women have told me that I am a good kisser, and in two cases they told mutual female friends who had set us up that I was a good kisser. I believe kissing is extremely important in a relationship--and not only to lead to more fun activity, although we all know it can. 
I am not sure what makes a good kisser, if I did I would bottle it and be rich, LOL. I only know that I start slowly, not rushing into the act. Letting the feelings build, the passion grow really makes kissing fun. Having her let me that close to her, feeling her lips, her body that close, makes me want to be sure I do it right...so she feels good.
While it has been some time since I have had someone to kiss, I am hopng it is like riding a bike, once you learn....
Enjoy the evening... | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 7:29:21 PM | All POF men (only cause that's what I'm looking for... ) should read this thread! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 7:40:58 PM | I have been with lots of kissers...good and bad.
My take? Kissing style depends on the mood you are in. If there is lots of chemistry and electricity flowing between you, then all of a sudden you are kissing him in a way that you don't do if you are just kissing to see if you can jump start some electricity between you.
When I am with a man who I feel just friendly with and he doesn't do much for me, I kiss him the way my body feels towards him....probably restrained and without any depth. This kind of kissing is the hardest to work with. You are both exploring to see "the what ifs". If I don't feel it in the first couple of minutes, I am outa there.
If I am kissing just to see if he kicks me into gear and he does, then I know that I can keep it at a nice enjoyable necking session or take it further.
I enjoy all kinds of kissing. Open mouth, hot, passionate, tongues everywhere kind of kissing when I am very aroused. Sensual, sucking, exploring drawn out ones when I want a long necking session. As long as the man and I are on the same page.
If I am with a man who wants passion and I am not there...no...he's not reading me properly and I don't like it.
A man to be a good kisser has to read the woman and her signals about where she is at. | |
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