| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 7:59:15 PM | If you wanna know, if he/she loves you so, it's in the kiss. Yes, many assume that they have that much down pat and end up to be the biggest bummer when your expectations crumble. Sure, it's the connection/chemistry/click between 2, but if one has limited control in mouth dexterity, it makes things a lot less comfortable.
Kissing is all part of the chemistry and the passion that drives the soul. The first thought of having an attactive person cross your path should be, could they kiss to your soul. There's more to life than sex and many ways to make love. Kissing is at the top of either list and it bares one's heart when lips meet. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 8:00:01 PM | kissing styles are like food.
everyone likes something different.
how many women have you heard say they absolutely love sushi?
i can't stand to look at it.
ergo you are a good kisser to those who like your particular kissing style.
one woman's horrible kisser is another woman's womb tingler.
i like a lot of slobbery flat tongue but not a pointed twirling tongue. i like it deep and also outside the mouth, lips not always touching. some suction. not easy to find a woman who does this. but when i do it's ba-wangggggg!!!!! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 8:30:14 PM | | ahhh my favorite hobby oh i mean addiction lol. kissing is a lost art. many claim to be good kissers but few really are. good kissers are, sesual, passionate , and can kiss for a long time and you never get tired of kissing. i was told i was the best kisser they ever kissed. that i can bring the dead back to life. that no one has ever kissed them like that before. if there was an award for kissing i would get top prize. not sure how or why some people are great kissers, all i know is i love to kiss. my problem is i like to kiss any time anywhere. some men say i can;t do that because i wake the one eyed sleeping giant lol. | |
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Cazimi
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Joined: 3/15/2008
Msg: 129 | |
| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 8:56:25 PM | " That kiss taught me that joining of lips in love
Reveals heavenly secrets which the tongue cannot utter !
That kiss was introduction to a great sigh,
Like the almighty's breath that turned earth into man "
K.Gibran
A good kisser is someone you want to kiss you forever,
you don't want the kiss to end ,and he or she wants the same .
Kissing is an art , and not many people are good at it , understand it or know how to really kiss. A great kisser is also a great lover , because they understand the need to give and receive with pleasure .  | |
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vro312
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Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 130 | |
| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/19/2008 9:00:37 PM | I've always thought "Good Kisser" belongs on my resume. Says me . . . and many, many of the men I have kissed. I see it as one of my God-given talents, and honestly, there aren't too many of those.
But dang . . . the last three guys I've kissed have been so disappointing that I don't know if I have the heart to put myself out there again. I simply cannot get past an incompatible kiss.
Someone mentioned the possible full lips/good kisser correlation. I, too, believed that was true. But based on the kiss I had a month ago, I'm here to tell you, it ain't so. 
(Okay . . . so yeah, it's a little funny how we all seem to think we're good kissers. Maybe there's a geeky forumite/good kisser correlation.  ) | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/20/2008 4:51:55 PM |
2) 'The Friendly Dog'
Opens mouth, sticks tongue out, and licks upwards from the bottom of your mouth to the top over and over again, much like a dog would lick your face.
OMG, that's just the worst! I had one guy that apparently thought he was a Clifford the big red dog and tried to lick my entire face, blech!! Ick, ick, ick! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/20/2008 9:07:26 PM | | First and foremost, good breath! After that hurdle is cleared, then it gets more detailed. Not being too forceful (ya know, where u feel like you're being forced away rather than kissed), knowing how much tongue and when to use it, getting breathing in at the right times, knowing when to pull away for just a little bit, just long enough to look into their eyes, before you go back in for more. I'm not sure it can be taught, I don't think I'm a perfect kisser, but I know what I like! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/20/2008 9:17:44 PM | I always go for the "kiss her like its your first/last time". It sounds all movie like or whatnot but I have only gotten compliments.  | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/21/2008 5:16:42 AM | I often read female profiles with:
foxy, sexy, classy, etc etc
Well who says so ? you ?
Not that you are biased !!!!
Its up to the man to decide if the woamn is sexy etc not the woman.
All these comments do is make men think the woman has a very large ego and high opinion of herself and that is a turn off. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/21/2008 6:07:44 AM | | Beats the heck outta me what makes a good kisser. All I know is that the last really good kiss I had drove all coherent thought clear outta my head. He probably thought I was a lousy kisser, but that was because I was tryin' so hard not to fall down......... | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/21/2008 6:30:01 AM | Being a good kisser, I think, is learning how the other person likes to be kissed. Often you can tell by the way they kiss you. If there is feeling there, you will just automatically respond and they will enjoy it ever so much too !!!!
Ahhhhhhh....and when they are really good, each of us will beg for more of them !!!!
(I add to this, though, that I do not like slobber all over my face nor the feeling of being choked with his tongue...) | |
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vro312
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Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 137 | |
| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/21/2008 8:40:31 AM |
All I know is that the last really good kiss I had drove all coherent thought clear outta my head.
Finally . . . someone who knows what I mean when I say the kiss scrambled my brain. (People act like they know, but they don't know.)
This happened once. When I came to, the idea of that period of white noise scared me. As it should have. It was such a loss of control, and I was a slave to that kiss for the next 18 months. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/21/2008 1:04:21 PM | That's a very good question indeed (Says Who?). IMO, as long as lips enjoy mutual brushing and nibbling, as long as they explore and savour ... and seal any kind of intimacy with a  , both parties are winners. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/22/2008 8:20:28 AM | | no boat propellor tongues please!!!! round and around and around and around..... | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/24/2008 8:07:26 AM |
I always go for the "kiss her like its your first/last time". It sounds all movie like or whatnot but I have only gotten compliments.
whether you say it or someone else said it, i think that's how it should be. never take things for granted. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/24/2008 12:19:02 PM | I have never been told either way when it comes to me on kissing a woman.
I like to give a soft kiss to get the feel and reaction of the lady that I am kissing. Depending where we are I might cup my hands to her face and give her a soft kiss to moving my fingers through her hair on a long kiss.
But I don't like the slobber kiss all over my face at all or the tongue at the start of a fresh kiss. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/24/2008 5:22:09 PM | It takes two, both with similar kissing styles and level of passion or sensuality, to make a good kisser.
Sharzi
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/24/2008 5:45:04 PM |
Good kisser:
1) Opens mouth.....WIDE
2) chomps on victims head
3) chews brain and blows bubbles with it.
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/25/2008 2:14:51 AM | I only think that because I have been told this and the reaction I get from down under when I kiss a man... The key is to kiss someone you actually like and when the moment is right. Do what comes naturally. The quick-tongue probing thing is a little wierd and awkward, but I have worked around that as well with a long-term ex. I acutally had to grab on to his tongue with my mouth and my own tongue to slow him down a little. Of course, I'd be chuckling. In the beginning he would assume that chuckling was awe. When we first started dating I use to joke around with my girlfriends in shock about this. I was like "What the hell is this all about?" But you know, people like to be experimental or something. I dunno what it is. However, I'd keep the experimental stuff on hold until when you actually have the "cat in the bag". Because if you end up with this person, you might have a preconcieved reputation that may be rather embarassing to the both of you.
I learn a lesson from those experiences as well. Same thing with his kissing. Oh man, he use to think he was a great dancer and that I was in awe with his 80's robotic moves when I met him at this bar. However, after a while I use to make fun of him and he wasn't as open to dance, 8 years and I loved dancing with him even though I thought he was an aweful dancer. Now, I learn to keep my mouth shut or I inhibit our growth together. Same with anything I guess. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/25/2008 4:25:19 PM | Wow..no one has posted since me. I'll tell you. I went to a music fesitval where there were like 4 stages and about 30,000 people from all over the country, kind of like a Hippy fest. Anyhow, I was just walking around looking at all this artwork and stuff and there was this guy. I was like, hmm...seems young, looks clean-cut, hard to say, but damn he is gorgeous. He spot me and I spot him...well when this happens If without a wing woman, I might just take off with my breath taken away. Like wow. But I run away. I am the most opinionated and forward person you would probably every meet. But, when there is a guy I like I turn into a shy little girl. Anyway, when I usually am in to a guy...there is built up "whatever". I am friends with alot of guys, strictly platonice. However, I think about kissing my exs, or some nice past romance, and my future romance and its the anticipation that makes me kiss well. Usually, it is both our anticipation to when the right moment will be when I continuosuly want to be around a certain guy, that builds the synergitic energy to just really want eachother. The first moment I get I am one to go in for the kill, and he always reciprocates with the same amount of energy, lust, and feeling. Usually I have already size him enough to be a really nice guy, because the more I hang out with him the more feelings I have. He would be the same. You got want eachother as much equally. You got to look into seeing this person in the future. All those emotions and thoughts are tangled in your tongues. Your emotions, you feeling for him/her. That is what makes a good kiss. You kiss someone you love.
I'm not a teenager where I am anticipating the unknown, new and exciting. Now, I am anticpating some I know and want very much. So, if you go around kissing a whole bunch people where you feel obligated to impress or to perform. It's not going to feel the same. In a good kiss you don't care about those things.
OK. Just wanted to say that.
And about the dancing. Because I didn't appreciate his joy he was shy to dance with me. I'd have to almost beg or seduce. But, he loved that attention. | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/30/2008 5:35:14 PM |
I mean many can claim it of themselves but how many can say that OTHERS have told them they are?
I've never had a women tell me that I'm good at it. But I can say that there are a couple of women on the forums that I find attractive that I'd like to practice with.  | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/31/2008 2:43:58 AM | I can get severely turned on by a kiss so a good kiss is definatly one that makes my crotch tingle!!!!!
Kissing is a weird thing at times though. I've had a girlfriend who was a really good kisser and taught me a lot without even realising it (she said I was a good kisser also) and then I've had girlfriends who are fairly useless at kissing and have said the same about me.
So I think that its about finding someone who likes your way of kissing and returns the favour in like.
Sam  | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/31/2008 8:10:39 AM | If you are lucky enough to be with a good kisser, then thank your lucky stars!
a) the 'casual kiss', direct eye contact, one or two or three short ones, no tongue action (generally...but optional)
b) the 'passionate kiss' leading up to...(use your imagination)...one where you hunger for your lover as if you were starving...BUT not eating said lover! Lotta tongue on tongue, but no same repetetive moves...different every few seconds...eager tongue probing each other's mouth, but not too forcefully, then releasing and kissing the outside of her mouth, a couple of quick outside mouth/chin/cheek 'casual kisses'...then back in...BUT, just before a couple of adoring gazes into her gorgeous eyes, touching her cheek and stroking her hair. It's not just kissing, it's using your hands, your eyes, your face, too. ... stroke her face gently, with yours, then kiss her ear... I'll outline her facial profile with my fingers and just stare into her sparkling eyes....then start the 'sexual kissing' and "make love to her mouth"! Somedoby quick, throw a bucket of ice water on me! | |
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| Good Kisser? Says Who?
Posted: 3/31/2008 9:03:44 AM | | I would give up food for the day to have a man, not just any man mind you, but THAT man,take my face in his hands,look me in the eyes, close his eyes and kiss my mouth warmly,slowly running his tongue on the inside of my lips. It's an art to express passion through kissing. Some men think that the end result is all that matters. But a man that get's the importance of kissing is a gem. One I'd have a hard time letting go of!! lol | |
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