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Posted: 2/15/2008 11:47:41 AM | Doesn't matter WHY. If he's a liar, he's a liar. period. The fact that you caught him, and he BLAMED you!!! sheesh. That's a pathological liar. Who wants anything to do with that?
Men, and women, take heed! If you are not honest with someone you are persuing on this site, it will bite you in the a** eventually. And anyone with any smarts will catch you in the act. Be HONEST. otherwise you're just wasting your time, and ultimately anyone who comes in contact with you. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2008 12:32:27 PM | Awwwwww Gato your sooo sweet!!!!!! hehehe Thank you soo much for all your kind words!!! Any women is lucky to have such a sweet man like you... LADIES HE'S A KEEPER!!!!!!! lol  
I dont think I ask for much just to treat me like a lady and be honest with me.. No lieing, no cheating and yet I seem to have the worst luck in finding a man!!! Go figure... | |
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Posted: 2/15/2008 12:35:42 PM | | Hawtmama, the craziest thing is we never even talked on the phone or met and I was already being lied to could you imagine if I would of still met him who knows what he is capable of... The thing is I dont even know if he is actually a RN like he says he is or anything he told me... He lied to me once... maybe it was all a lie, who knows right!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2008 12:37:25 PM | Thankyou again sweet lady. The man who wins your heart will have a true princess! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2008 2:13:45 PM |
I actually just put that on there yesterday..... Since I wasnt having much luck I decided to put that there....
If you were *already* trying to trip them up and catch them, the LIAR theme is already something you are putting out into the Universe. Simple enough: put out what you ARE looking for, not what you're NOT looking for. Makes a world of difference, really it does. . . .
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Posted: 2/15/2008 3:46:05 PM | | If you watched "The Secret" you'd understand what message 32 is talking about. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2008 6:14:15 PM | LOL trust me I have tried everything and nothing works... I think I am just not what men are looking for.... I dunno...... I give up!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2008 7:14:29 PM | | The Secret is a very basic form of LOA and doesn't take into account a variety of further developments. It is very weak on alpha and beta projection and synchronisity. Thus, the Secret can't be in any form or shame help OP on this issues... | |
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Posted: 2/16/2008 5:04:22 AM | Melissa, you must not give up. Seriously, you're young, beautiful, have lots of different interests, seem very intelligent, so what's not to love? Like many people have said in other forums too, focus on being the best you can be and try to have fun. When men see you confident in yourself and just having some good times, they will be even more attacted to you and want to get closer. You will do fine, give it a little time. | |
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Posted: 2/16/2008 10:18:37 AM | I am pretty confident in myself and what I want that is why I have a hard time understanding why I cant find a normal man to be in a relationship with lol I was watching Oprah this one day and she was saying that most men nowadays aren't looking for a relationship because they are more focused on their careers and I honestly believe that is true... She was talking about the US though but I think it pertains to everywhere... My career well I know what I want to do just have a few obstacles to get through and I am set... So maybe I will just focus on my career and maybe things will start happening for me!!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/16/2008 12:27:34 PM | Now you're talking! | |
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Posted: 2/16/2008 3:16:34 PM | Thank you Gato once again hehehe Now if only I can get my daughter to listen and have her nap (she is only 19 months) hahahahaha    | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 7:10:45 PM |
Well maybe I am bitter and incapable of trusting ( that guy gave me no reason to trust him) as hard is it may seem for those who have been burned... trust isn't really something that another party has to "earn"... it's a choice that we make. I feel that the emotionally mature way to approach a relationship (or a potential relationship) is to make the decision to trust the other person until you are given a reason not to do so any more.
If you then find your trust in that person betrayed? Leave. Just leave. It really can be that simple.
I never thought of it as a game of gotcha...
but isn't that what you're doing if you make the presumption that someone is going to betray your trust and you follow them around (figuratively speaking) looking for evidence of that betrayal?
I am not here to embarrass anyone and if I was I would of put his username in the email but I am not I meant more in the larger sense, and not specifically your posting a thread here.
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Posted: 3/10/2008 1:30:07 PM | BC Mom - You seem a little confused. Your profile says you're looking for people to hang with. You say in your profile 'not looking for anything other than good friends' yet your comment in this thread suggest you want much more than just friends. Maybe that's the real problem here.
I have friends I don't necessarily trust in one way or another, but I still find that they make my life better in other ways. I don't reject someone completely because I wouldn't, for example, lend them money. Maybe they are a great help and great fun to have around in DIY projects. No-one is perfect, so you always have grounds to reject everyone. Or you can choose to see the good in them and make that a part of your life. Some people feel compelled to inflate their appearance or exaggerate. A little friendship and understanding may reveal that they do it because they feel insecure or lack confidence in themselves. An attentive friend can soon pick that up and know what to believe - plus add a little confidence so that the need for self-aggrandizement may diminish.
The expression 'make a friend' is perhaps telling for many people. It implies that something has to be done to make that person acceptable as a friend. I prefer to BE a friend and let others choose whether or not they want to be MY friend. You can't just throw a switch and have a friend. It takes time and effort and often a little indulgence.
Enjoy people for what they are, not what you want them to be. Sure, there will be some you want nothing to do with, but don't go out of your way to trip people up. Firstly, it leaves a bad impression of you and it really doesn't give anyone a chance to be themselves with you. Be nice, give them enough rope to go their own way and see wether they hang themselves with it or tie the knot of friendship. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 11:04:22 PM | | Why? Because you netted a freak...what worries me more is what you were doing in his apartment when you don't know him and he turned out to be a psycho. Slow down girlfriend. You might get more than your heart broken next time. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 9:52:25 PM | | I was careful... I have family there and i gave them his address once I got there and his number... he was an auxillary police man so I dont think that I was in that much danger... | |
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