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Posted: 7/5/2008 6:12:28 AM | Your ex is the type that give all women a bad name!
Follow your heart and gut...if you want to continue being the father to these kids, do it, poste haste. Do not allow them to leave the country until this is resolved. | |
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Posted: 7/25/2008 10:21:51 PM | hey OP- any updates?? I know of at least one other guy this has happened to..wish the women on here could beat her up for you | |
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| Thoughts on Paternity....
Posted: 7/26/2008 3:32:28 PM | You are their father. I am quite sure if anyone asked those girls who their daddy was, they would point to you. Therefore you must foregoe the biological issue altogether.
I really am only typing out of sympathy, as I cannot offer any real advice on this subject. All I can say is what is good for you is also good for them. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2008 6:25:29 AM | Wow.... What a nightmare!!
OP: you have every right to turn your back on her and HER girls.
However, should you choose to continue being their father figure, start divorce before she moves anywhere with those kids.
Either way, GET A LAWYER NOW!!!!!!
Divorce agreement can easily prevent her from moving outside of your state, so you will get to see her daughters. Perhaps even get a custody.
Good luck!
On a personal note, she's not a woman. She's a skanky ho.
Big difference despite external similarities between the two species. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2008 6:31:21 PM | | you 2 are married- and those kids were born during the marriage-and you want to be the dad- I think that makes a big difference compared to if you two weren't married; and you didn't want to be the dad, along with the responsibilities. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2008 1:45:53 PM | WOW!! I am speechless, and totally torn up about this.....the nerve of some people!! I personally do not believe anything you said she said, nor would I believe anything thus far without checking her story!!! I don't think you should find a job closer to your babies just yet, because as they are your babies, they are someone else's too, and I don't recall you stating whether the other guy/guys know about their daughters...hell they may be the married guys children for all you know, you don't really know how long he's been in her life, I don't think you should just fade away either, that would be just horrible!! I can't begin to tell you how to shake your feelings of mistrust, as I would not have shaken mine.........you thought of her one way and clearly she wasn't that way.........I am so HAPPY to hear that you are emotionally well, as this situation could have really messed you up for lack of a cleaner word!! WOW!!! If I ever see this chick in the street her ass is grass!!!  | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 9:32:48 PM | | Well i can tell you that I might be in that situation. My little might not be mine but I know me and if I find out for sure then I will walk out of her life and she does'nt deserve that because of her mom. I told my ex my feelings of course she is denying it but she also knows not to push it. I will tell you this YOU ARE THERE FATHER. no matter what the dna says you did all the daddy things for them. Do not let the garden tool mess up that relationship. Like I tell all my friends the only person that knows 100% that is their kid is the mother. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2008 11:42:35 PM | Dude this is absolutly awful......just awful...This has got to be 1 of the worst things I have ever heard happen to someone...i am so sorry for you
The 1st thing you need to do is step away for awhile...away from your daughters, away from your worthless cheating woman..the whole 9 yards
you need time to think..a few days at least away from this mess to clear your mind and be able to make a sound decision
I wish you the very best..i am absolutely heart-broken for you...this has to be the absolute worst thing to happen to anyone...i wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy...this is just terrible
good luck to you man..you will definitely be in my prayers! | |
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| Thoughts on Paternity....
Posted: 9/9/2008 5:17:03 AM | | Legally, you ARE their father (or at least here you would be). The courts very much take into account the welfare of the children - since you did not dispute paternity, and most likely signed the birth certificates - it doesn't matter at this point who is the biological father. Talk to a lawyer - laws vary from place to place! And, if you want to be in the girls' lives, you need to protect your rights NOW. Sounds to me like those are two very lucky kids...and it's not their fault what their mother did. | |
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