| What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away?
Posted: 5/31/2008 8:36:19 PM | It has never been good for me. Usually the guy just wants a woman, any woman, and is not into me as a person. A lot of these guys, in my experience, were very controlling too. I do agree that emotionally they can turn on and off quite quickly.
I run from this, because I have never had good experiences with these types of men. | |
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| What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away?
Posted: 5/31/2008 9:41:59 PM | It fizzles in the long run.It could be they are thrill seeker and once the lust,excitement starting to fades their feelings fade.Probably they are seeking for fun and when they tired they are gone bye bye and move to the next victim.They use thier charm and make thier dates fall for them then they leave you confused and hurt.
Beware of those people who comes on too strong--they are dangerous. | |
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| What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away?
Posted: 5/31/2008 10:50:52 PM | | It means "there is something about you that they are looking for". It doesn't mean that they are looking for just anyone. It means there is a special quality that they always wanted to have with a GF/BF. Maybe it could be your profession they find fascinating, or maybe your physical traits, or nationality. We all have " those things that we fantasize about". This may seem mysterious to you. Remember, it is all about them. Best to move more slowly and let the person get to know you.... other things about your moods and personality, instead of the profession, and physical traits. | |
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| What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away?
Posted: 6/1/2008 2:01:40 PM | Been on both sides. Years ago I met someone one night, we fell in love that night, didn't sleep together for over three months (my choice and later he said it had made him love me even more). Although we didn't say the L word for a very very long time, we didn't need to. He passed away a few years ago. We went out on and off for over 12 years. Never broke up on bad terms just life getting in the way, but always found our way back to each other. I always thought I'd grow old with him and it just didn'twwork out that way. I don't know if I will ever find that again, that is a rare gift and I am so thankful I had it when and for as long as I did.
On the other hand I have had those who "WOW" come on so strong immediately that I get the crap scared outta me and run. I got to a point where I laugh it's so absurd, especially the marriage proposals after a few weeks!!! Actually had one after only knowing the guy less then a week. And no, this has nothing to do with sex. I wouldn't go there with someone so quick to push all that, that'd bring in a whole bigger problem. | |
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