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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/17/2008 8:32:30 PM | I have never and would never do that, it's just so slutty.
The ONLY person I have every gave a 'real' bj too was my husband.  | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/17/2008 9:04:30 PM | [The ONLY person I have every gave a 'real' bj too was my husband."]
Just curious on how you give a fake BJ.... | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/17/2008 9:36:36 PM |
ah Bill, we miss having a president who got screwed in the white house instead of a white house that screws the country.
There was plenty of the white house screwing the country going on too... | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/17/2008 10:06:49 PM | | I knew a chick that was like that when I was stationed in Germany... But she was like that because she was Muslim and it was aginst her religon to have sex before marriage. | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/17/2008 10:10:41 PM | Woman give blowjobs to random guys and then go home? My god... Stop the presses... It's almost as shocking as men having sex with other men in public washrooms...
The world is becoming far more "accepting" of certain behavior and certain things that were taboo a long time ago are now common place...
Personally, I'm still waiting for when I can say I'm Bi and not get stoned to death... Say you're Gay? You're fine... Bi? Oh you're the plague to some people... | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/18/2008 7:24:25 AM | Have met several woman who get off giving oral pleasure, and love to see how many men they can please in a day....Different strokes for different folks.... | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/18/2008 7:49:04 AM | I dated a Cuban chica in the 80's (Ms. Jacksonville, so I'm not telling what year) but anyway, she had a uncanny ability to get me up and stay that way for...an unreal amount of time. It was usually a precursor to more but other times she just wanted it and that was it. I was not allowed to touch her anywhere when she was in this mood.
As far as random bj...providers? They're out there, but if I'm another in a long list for that night it's as bleck as intercourse with one who pulls a train. No condom? No thanks. | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/18/2008 8:15:15 AM | | theirs alot of women that do it and actually love it. i make sure everythings arranged before i meet them. as soon as i get to their place i say "how you doing? are you ready?" her reply is "no the question is ARE YOU READY?"...lol | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/18/2008 11:33:16 AM | Working in clubs for years, yes I have unfortunately seen a lot of drunk women do this in the parking lot on the way to my car for some bouncer, bartender, male employee or customer - and I assume it's due to the booze they drank and also for the attention. But I never got why they would need attention THAT badly.
But it wasn't like they drove to some secluded spot, gave head and then drove home, no. They were drinking and someone working there just looked good to them I guess (or they were trying to barter free drinks or get out of a future cover charge).
But my question is - where are all the men who give women oral sex for nothing and then go home?  | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/18/2008 11:38:58 AM | | I for one would not go out to meet someone just to get a bj. I know that I play devil's advocate a lot on this forum purely for the sake of logic, but I do prefer to get to know and like my partner before doing anything sexual. There have been times when pure chemistry took over, but that kind of magic is rare. Besides all that, there is probably only about one woman in a hundred who is skillful enough to get me off that way. | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/18/2008 12:09:00 PM | Excuse me if I'm mistaken, but isn't giving oral sex just as high a risk for STD's if done without a condom? So you think oral sex is safe but not intercourse? And people wonder why the rate of STD's is getting worse.
It also possible to get some diseases ( such as mononucleosis and herpes ) from kissing. But that doesn't stop people from kissing each other. I think the chances of getting STDs ( especially HIV ) is much higher from having sexual intercourse without protection than from having oral sex without protection or from kissing. Also there is obviously NO WAY a woman can get pregnant from giving oral sex. That is another reason why some women would want to give a BJ, but not want to have sexual intercourse. | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/18/2008 3:06:36 PM |
Personally, I'm still waiting for when I can say I'm Bi and not get stoned to death... Say you're Gay? You're fine... Bi? Oh you're the plague to some people... well, you're just being greedy, wanting it all for yourself.  | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/18/2008 10:45:21 PM | | you are so right, i have never heard of a woman doing this and not wanting something in return, unless she is getting paid for it | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/19/2008 12:39:55 AM | yeah quite a few girls are doing that because it is an alternative to full blown intercourse. And some sororities(sorry if I mis-spelled it) have this as an initation - they either go to the bars, or a frat house and have the "new girls" find some random guy and suck him off. I had that type of offer a few years ago, and I told her thanks but no thanks. Like one of the other posters said, that's just forplay to me. And besides which - I view it as completely wrong.
As for the women who do that - maybe it's the excitement, or they just love giving head. Or maybe they are picking up a few bucks on the side?
Or they went to the "Monica Blowinski School of Getting A Head"? | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/19/2008 4:26:41 PM | | There are many women who do that. It happns mostly after hour in club parking with drunk people. Although some even set up a bj date sometime too. | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/19/2008 7:30:33 PM | | i have had several girls offer just that..no strings attached bj's. infact i had a land lord offer it too me, she said i owed her this "service" since she wasnt charging for rent...I did not take this person up and i never thought i'd be in a "dear pent house" situation but yes...some girls just love to give bj's | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/19/2008 9:31:06 PM | its much safer but ya doin it for no purpose and not gettin anythin out of it seems weird lol
people do stupid things when they are drunk or hi though lol | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/19/2008 10:03:28 PM |
they leave some fella cum in their mouth and then go over and kiss some other fella "for a laugh"
this sounds the only logical explanation to me
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/20/2008 12:45:23 AM | Only has happened once. A few years ago I met in person a woman from another site, we did the traditional meet for an Iced Tea at 9ish in the evening at a local chain restaurant. She didn't look in person anything like her online picture, maybe 10 years ago she and her picture would have matched.
We conversed for an hour or so over nothing but small talk. Indicating I had an early morning I stood up as did she, I was going to shake her hand when she proceeded to give me a hug. Stopping at the register I paid for the Iced Teas, she proceeded to rub herself against me.
As we walked out she asked if we could sit in my car and talk just a little more. Being of course the polite individual I am I agreed. Once in my car she reached over and began to grope Mr. Happy. Down she went with the zipper out it came and away she went.
There was absolutely no chemistry what so ever but what the hell, I was there might as well enjoy. After a while I exploded, she then sat up, opening the car door and spit saying she only swallows when she is in love...LOL LOL LOL.  | |
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| women meeting guys just to give bj Posted: 2/20/2008 4:04:12 AM | | i don't think i ever had a drunk chic give me a blowjob, i'm not one who goes after drunk chix. i like blowjobs from chix who's 90%-100% sober. i had chix who were tipsy but not drunk. i can't **** or cum when i'm drunk, so i figure they can't either...so why bother? | |
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